sex vs companionship

Most of my dates are multi-hour dates..... She has to be bright and somewhat intelligent. Let's face it, who wants to spend more an hour or two with an idiot. Originally Posted by Naomi4u

I know you've done that at least twice!!!

I know you've done that at least twice!!! Originally Posted by Ed Highlight

LMfao!

Both. One without the other can get boring.

There needs to be some chemistry. Sex is wonderful, but I need, want and appreciate good conversation, touching and cuddling!!

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Sex is a given. That's the reason I'm doing this. There are times when I just want to get down and nasty-- no need for connection. The companionship aspect complicates matters. We all know this pay for play hobby. This isn't Match.com or E Harmony. I'm not looking for a soul mate; however, there are times when I want a little tenderness and small talk with an intelligent lady. It just depends on the mood I'm in or what activity I'm looking for. For me though, the bottom line is to maintain some semblance of anonymity/discretion while still being able to connect on a deeper level than just pure physical sex.

I want it done and over with !!!! joking...
seriously, rather have both but you never know till the client arrives. We may be on two different pages and that sucks.
We might have a mental connection and the physical part may not be up to par.
Or, you have a physical connection and no mental.

I want it done and over with !!!! joking...
seriously, rather have both but you never know till the client arrives. We may be on two different pages and that sucks.
We might have a mental connection and the physical part may not be up to par.
Or, you have a physical connection and no mental. Originally Posted by Anita Lay

I'm a mental patient that get very physical! Does that count?

I want both as I can have the sexual part with anyone and probably for alot less money. I have that dual conection with a couple ladies and see them regularly. Sorry London, but I am going to use you for my statement again with that being I would look forward to spending time with you and a couple bottles of wine in conversation as much as I would with anything sexual that may occur. Beauty and brains is what turns me on!

I want it done and over with !!!! joking...
seriously, rather have both but you never know till the client arrives. We may be on two different pages and that sucks.
We might have a mental connection and the physical part may not be up to par.
Or, you have a physical connection and no mental. Originally Posted by Anita Lay

Yeah, I agree with that. The Physical and the emotional or mental compatability don't alway coeincide.