Diasability question

Im their with you brother. I lost both my feet on my 5th deployment and on that mission I lost half my team. I had been injured before but what many dont understand is the reason I stayed in was because of my family. My brothers who I had served with in the teams for 10yrs! I am a little beat up but very attractive with my clothes on. When my clothes off you can see my scars and my prosthetic feet which have been a turn off for some providers and thats why I dont hobby as much because some see it as a turn off and have put me ridiculled me calling me "crippled" and "no legged man". I will not say which providers said these to me but to me I just let it run off my back like water. I know what I have done for this country and you should not let it get to you brother. There are plenty of fish in the sea!

Wow...now, this is when I would call someone *shallow* and just plain ignorant! There's no reason to be mean-spirited and rude...we owe you and the others who have served our country...a Debt of Gratitude. Fortunately, most of the reputable providers here have great hearts and common sense!

Some of us go above and beyond for our disabled gents...you don't need to suffer any indignity whatsoever! To the OP, for future dates...I would let the provider know...upfront...what your particular disability is. This way, it doesn't cause any awkward moments, and will save yourself a whole lot of grief! Good-luck to you!

As long as you are polite, respectful, as well as clean, I really don't understand why you have been turned down by some except the fact that they feel uncomfortable themselves...

Maybe they should work on themselves.

Dissabilities shouldn't have to be an issue if the gentleman is just that - a GENTLEMAN.

My 2 cents: Some interesting and thoughtful points above, but, please consider another thought or two:

All hobbyists should consider it incumbent (in this sense of the word not someone holding a public office, but Necessary for or resting on (someone) as a duty or responsibility) that every hobbyist should not only do his proper research, but we should also consider it important for us never to assume that the ladies already have all our necessary information.

While the ladies can do some research inside their side of the community via their screening process, often that research may not include or discover that there may something extra-ordinary about us as an individual, say, an erection big as Johnny Holmes or an inability to get erect, or out-of-the norm body mass index, or perhaps, a missing limb or two.

In such instances, it is incumbent (same definition as above) imho for the gent to disclose up front during the contact process to avoid both the possibility of disappointment and/or surprise.

^baller

No discrimination here. And SHAME on those other ladies who did that to you and prmex81! IMHO, it's not your feet or your leg I'm trying to "please" so I say bring it on gentlemen! Haha!

I know there are a lot vets on this board that would not like to subsidize providers who would ridicule a fellow vet, me included. The decision to provide service or not is up to the provider, but no one should have the right to ridicule without suffering the consequences.

Amen Troll!