Ok. I got a question regarding those that are into Strap-On Play....

My first thoughts are "it's gay". Fucking a gay. My second thought was how protective I am of my own ass. I spent a night in jail after my first prostate exam. WTF I said dock, you fucking q$&&$%# how dare you stick your finger up my shitter and then I kicked his ass.

And to set the record straight miss kitty that finger of yours never made it in there. I am so protective that my spidey sense thrawted her attempt. Even though I was blazed out of my mind and her friend was attempting a frontal mis-direct I sensed it and stopped what we were doing and looked down at her. I then asked her what her intentions were. As she will attest jr, even with two ladies working the bone wasn't not able to make homie bust that day. I just couldn't get over the attempted asspionage.

I have never been into any ass play, mine or hers. I have always said that fucking a woman's ass is just one step away from gay sex. Now with all that said reading the entire thread some very good points have been made. I would argue that it doesn't matter whether it is a carrot, plastic dick or plastic strap on cucumber it's something up your ass so one is not gayer then the other. If someone desires to be pegged the strap ons are plastic cocks. I guess they could buy custom made things to gay it down.

Cody makes some good points though as does my lady. If it is between a man and a woman how can it be gay. We attribute but sex to the gays but gays suck dick too so are we gonna call that gay? They also kiss and do other shit we do.

So I say at this point that any act between a man and a woman cannot be a gay act. It's obviously not my cup of tea but neither are many fetish hetero acts. Only the one getting pegged knows if he is a closet case or not but we cannot condem the act itself.

Homer out

If it's a prostate massager or a gspot wand , they don't look like a dick . Now if it's an 8" veiny dick shaped object , that is because you want dick up your ass ! You try it I will pass ! I can tell you , shoving a imitation cock up my ass , would be the surest way to turn me off sexually . Originally Posted by rockerrick

I suppose I'm gifted with the creative or rational ability to look at an Object and recognize that it nothing more than an object regardless of it's shape or design.

The woman on the other end of that object and the physical pleasure received is my only focus. That's just me.

BTW it was a hot 39 yr old bikini model who turned me on to it in my early 20's. My initial reaction was no way that's too gay. She insisted so I tried it, it felt great and she came just from watching herself do me in the mirror.

Once I realized that the image of two men kissing still grossed me out completely I came to realize there was a whole unexplored world of Heterosexual pleasures to be discovered.

This open mindedness in turn transformed me into a far better lover for all of the future women in my life. I am grateful to her for opening my mind to the possibilities.

If it is between a man and a woman how can it be gay. We attribute butt sex to the gays but gays suck dick too so are we gonna call that gay? They also kiss and do other shit we do.

So I say at this point that any act between a man and a woman cannot be a gay act. It's obviously not my cup of tea but neither are many fetish hetero acts. Only the one getting pegged knows if he is a closet case or not but we cannot condem the act itself.

Homer out Originally Posted by homer13

+1

Thank you so much Kitty and Rocker! I haven't read a thread that made me laugh out loud this much in a long time! Love it!

I also really like the way Mia broke things down.

I think this request is bigger than you may think. And it's by straight men that know how good it can feel but are not attracted to men. Equals.... not gay.

There's a g spot up there that when hit can create the most intense orgasm ever. I had a vibrating butt plug once that felt really good but not as intense as my vibrating strap on. The strap on hit the spot every single time. The design of it really helped. The girth of it and the depth. Hell, when I masturbate, I always double penetrate myself because of the intensity of the orgasm.

When I've given gents the pleasure of my strap on they have the same intense orgasm but with me .... a female provider with breasts and a vagina. They have an option of going to male providers but they've chosen to see me. Equals.... not gay. They want a female person playing with them in an area they get intense pleasure from. Not gay my darling. Simply more open minded about sexual things they enjoy.

P.S. Kitty, I have to steal that "Ding ding" comment from you for awhile! That was hilarious! I can't wait to use it!

Thank you so much Kitty and Rocker! I haven't read a thread that made me laugh out loud this much in a long time! Love it!

I also really like the way Mia broke things down.

I think this request is bigger than you may think. And it's by straight men that know how good it can feel but are not attracted to men. Equals.... not gay.

There's a g spot up there that when hit can create the most intense orgasm ever. I had a vibrating butt plug once that felt really good but not as intense as my vibrating strap on. The strap on hit the spot every single time. The design of it really helped. The girth of it and the depth. Hell, when I masturbate, I always double penetrate myself because of the intensity of the orgasm.

When I've given gents the pleasure of my strap on they have the same intense orgasm but with me .... a female provider with breasts and a vagina. They have an option of going to male providers but they've chosen to see me. Equals.... not gay. They want a female person playing with them in an area they get intense pleasure from. Not gay my darling. Simply more open minded about sexual things they enjoy. Originally Posted by Maxeen Monroe

As you may or may not recall some years back I was your first pegging experience (Or so you said) in a doubles with Wicked Heather. (Back in the ASPD days)

You rammed me as I rammed Heather missionary.

You then marched around the room swinging it in circles and we all laughed our asses off (Pardon the pun). THAT was a fun session!

OMG!!!! I totally remember! That was so much fun Heather and I talked about it forever! I remember you well good looking!!

OMG!!!! I totally remember! That was so much fun Heather and I talked about it forever! I remember you well good looking!! Originally Posted by Maxeen Monroe

It still brings me a smile to this day

Tried it because an old gf who wanted to do it and never had. Maybe we didn't work up to it correctly, but it was just too much for me. She did appreciate the effort, though.

Who cares what people are into? If it's consenting adults, go have fun? I thought that was kind of the whole point here?

It's like the people who bitch about t-girls advertising. If you don't want a session with them... uh, don't book a session.

This is an awfully funny place to start getting judgemental about people!

Only the one getting pegged knows if he is a closet case or not but we cannot condem the act itself.

But condemning the people is OK? o_O

"My kinks are OK, but man, yours are fucking weird"

P.S. Kitty, I have to steal that "Ding ding" comment from you for awhile! That was hilarious! I can't wait to use it! Originally Posted by Maxeen Monroe

Oh I'm sure you won't have to wait long in this place... Lol!!!

I didn't kink on it. If your read and COMPREHEND my entire post I said its not for me but I don't see anything man-woman gay. I am into what I consider normal man woman intercourse and that's about it but that doesn't mean I find issue with anything else they just aren't my bag. There is nothing "weird" about anything I said or do so move on with your hateraide. Oh and just who did I condem?

Do gays ever question each other: How is putting your dick in a Plastic Vagina NOT GAY ???
Thinking Flesh Light for example ....

Enjoyed the discussion. Some seem to be VERY afraid of being called gay (even though they act gay, lol)

When somebody tries to label me as gay, my response usually is:

I am reading your "gay" as:
- keenly alive and exuberant
- having or inducing high spirits
- bright, lively
- brilliant in color

Taking a plastic dick up your ass is gay ! Originally Posted by rockerrick

Ass play is ass play homo! Originally Posted by Kitty D'Luxe

Thank you so much Kitty and Rocker! I haven't read a thread that made me laugh out loud this much in awhile. Originally Posted by Maxeen Monroe

Who cares what people are into? If it's consenting adults, go have fun? I thought that was kind of the whole point...

"My kinks are OK, but man, yours are fucking weird" Originally Posted by Qziz

I'm going on the record here and saying that I've had ladies put things up my ass and that does not make me gay! (and never once did I think of some dude! sheesh!) The hobby lets you explore all kinds of things. Why are some of you being so judgemental???? There is no black/white in the hobby... many shades of gray though!

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If you're sticking things up your ass , while those around you are not , You might be a homo !