The Other Provider In Last Weeks Bust

i assume you were being sarcastic..??... Originally Posted by DeAnna Luv

Well, kinda... I'm completely aware that ladies let things slip to clients occasionally...just like hobbiests do to girls with info from BCD...

But I guess I never thought that LE would have a direct link into Infoshare...or that any lady here would help them. Why would any girl help them?! They try to make our lives miserable...and the VP process is a little tougher to get through than that, isn't it? I thought you needed reviews from several well-known hobbiests to get approved for VP.

Conspiracy theories are making my head swim. Nap time.

... and get out..do lunch with a provider..or hell..with a hobbyiest.. doing so with a provider will let you build some trust... Originally Posted by DeAnna Luv

Lunch, ladies? Anything but sushi. Chan not trust those Japs since Pearl Harbor.

Conspiracy, theories, witch hunt... doesn't matter how you want to twist words. Everyone has the RIGHT to connect the dots when a person/persons is choosing to jeopardize our safety and well being. Fortunately AR is small and it won't take long to run the mole out of it's hole.

Chan,I was all for lunch until you axed sushi!!

as long as their have been "private" areas..there haved been people giving up info.. it sucks.. i don't get it or what there is to gain..i mean i do..but still..

my motto was.. never give info i wasn't comfy with MANY knowing... cuz most likely they would..
Originally Posted by DeAnna Luv

Gossip talk/ Backstabbing information telling/ paranoia has always been around... Dallas, 90201, Melrose Place, ER, Greys Anatomy, The Bachelor, and those damn Real Housewives of .... (pick your town)...

Point is...it has been going on, WILL be going on, we who take this "hobby" seriously just have to be smarter, stick together, and play harder - hang with those you know, and minimize new first timers (that goes both ways)..

That sayin - I love all you girls and your privacy, beauty and charm we serious hobbyists cherish!! Thanks!!

Point is...it has been going on, WILL be going on, we who take this "hobby" seriously just have to be smarter, stick together, and play harder - hang with those you know, and minimize new first timers (that goes both ways)..

That sayin - I love all you girls and your privacy, beauty and charm we serious hobbyists cherish!! Thanks!! Originally Posted by SirLance Alot

Well said SirLance!

Huck

And the rest of us horndogs just have to stand on the sidelines? sounds like a dwindling society to me.

I am still wondering how one provider tells us the whole story and the other one just places a new ad and continues as if nothing happens. I am wondering if it's time to get a new phone.

And while we are discussing these matters...how does a client know when or when not to contact a provider after a bust. If the provider does not say anything, what do I ask to verify that she is available or not compromised?

Most appreciate gentle rejection of presumptuous invitation. Perhaps compromise, cheeseburger at baitshop?
If mind should change, stipulation flexible, when gentleman invite, menu always choice of lady. The Japanese make good tea.
Please forgive meager attempt at humor, it is curse of fictional character. About sushi, not lunch.

Conspiracy, theories, witch hunt... doesn't matter how you want to twist words. Everyone has the RIGHT to connect the dots when a person/persons is choosing to jeopardize our safety and well being. Fortunately AR is small and it won't take long to run the mole out of it's hole.

Chan,I was all for lunch until you axed sushi!! Originally Posted by sadie

I figured as much ginger.. but once again..here is something to consider regarding the "vp" process..

yes there is a process.. however if something happened and I wished to return with a new name.. I venture to say that while the current mods may not.. there was some in the past that probably would have allowed me to walk right back in.. with VP status.. new name and all.. no questions asked.. (not big C mind you).. fact is.. there is a system in place.. however how often is that system circumvented with a lady wants to make name changes.. and HOW MANY ARE UNDER DIFFERENT NAMES JUST MONTHS after joining.. they often make them under the "guise" of stalker problem, privacy issue or whatever.. but much like LE goes to great links to fool us in other ways. there is nothing to say they aren't going to great links this way to get access..

point being.. a girl being VP is worth about as much as the paper its written on .. yes for the most part it helps.. but look around.. some that have come forward still have access.. some that haven't come forward i assume still has access.. its the ones that you don't know were busted that still have access that is troublesome..

thats why.. infoshare should never have to much info that you don't mind LE knowing and others.. best to have a trusted circle THAT YES..keeps some people excluded.. that you share info with

to the newbies that will probably bitch.. sorry...nature of the beast.. girls and guys you should find yourself excluded.. some old timers may find themselves excluded.. create a circle..a close knit group..

Well, kinda... I'm completely aware that ladies let things slip to clients occasionally...just like hobbiests do to girls with info from BCD...

But I guess I never thought that LE would have a direct link into Infoshare...or that any lady here would help them. Why would any girl help them?! They try to make our lives miserable...and the VP process is a little tougher to get through than that, isn't it? I thought you needed reviews from several well-known hobbiests to get approved for VP.

Conspiracy theories are making my head swim. Nap time. Originally Posted by Ginger Doll

And the rest of us horndogs just have to stand on the sidelines? sounds like a dwindling society to me.

I am still wondering how one provider tells us the whole story and the other one just places a new ad and continues as if nothing happens. I am wondering if it's time to get a new phone.

And while we are discussing these matters...how does a client know when or when not to contact a provider after a bust. If the provider does not say anything, what do I ask to verify that she is available or not compromised? Originally Posted by giteneny

No one is asking anyone to stand on the sideline.. 2 years ago when shit really picked up.. i suggested guys and girls start keeping a few people really close to them.. regulars, exclusives if you will in order to keep tabs on them.. people scoffed.. a year ago..same thing.. recently..same suggestion.. if as a provider you didn't plan ahead and think "how can i entice a hobbyiest or 3 to see only me monthly" so that when shit gets so hot i can't work LR any more i atleast have some regular money.. some hopefully did.. many did not... guys probably did not either.. they shopped the variety but now have girls wondering "is this guy safe"..i haven't seen him in months..

don't sit on the sideline..play as often as you want.. but just realize that more will hunker down and play in their circle now

if you have to ask "when or when not" to contact a provider after a bust.. surely you were joking?

unless you know here pretty damn well.. is paying for freaking pussy really worth it that much that you would be willing to have to wonder "is now a good time after she was BUSTED for the very same thing"..

"what do you ask".. same thing as before.. i mean its like girls screening a guy.. whatever worked before is working so freaking well currently for everyone and obviously LE hasn't found work arounds so..just whatever makes you feel safe to verify that a busted girl is NOT WORKING with LE.. cuz if she was.. we all know LE is honest and would tell you before settign you up

Most appreciate gentle rejection of presumptuous invitation. Perhaps compromise, cheeseburger at baitshop?
If mind should change, stipulation flexible, when gentleman invite, menu always choice of lady. The Japanese make good tea.
Please forgive meager attempt at humor, it is curse of fictional character. About sushi, not lunch. Originally Posted by Mr.Chan

The best thing about the way you write is I can't tell whether I was just insulted or invited to eat a cheeseburger? You so clever at smart ass..can't help but like you Chan the Man.

Again, well said DeAnna. I understand this causes everyone anxiety about play time. The ones you can trust certainly dwindles to a close group.

Conspiracy, theories, witch hunt... doesn't matter how you want to twist words. Everyone has the RIGHT to connect the dots when a person/persons is choosing to jeopardize our safety and well being. Fortunately AR is small and it won't take long to run the mole out of it's hole.

Chan,I was all for lunch until you axed sushi!! Originally Posted by sadie

I'm not twisting anything...I'm simply expressing my viewpoint on the subject.

Connect the dots, please! We're all trying to. I'm just as curious as the next guy about the mole theory.

wow you guys are scaring me a lil'.I am new here and am now scared to make friends with any of the other providers, Who do you trust in situations like these when you have no past friendship history to fall back on?

Don't be scared...We are all pretty harmless. Go make your dollars...Screw the friendship thing.

wow you guys are scaring me a lil'.I am new here and am now scared to make friends with any of the other providers, Who do you trust in situations like these when you have no past friendship history to fall back on? Originally Posted by ali*cat

Good question luv. Ask your clients who they've met, who they like, who's crazy and who's not. Stick your toe in and it won't take long before it becomes apparent.

Don't be scared...We are all pretty harmless. Go make your dollars...Screw the friendship thing. Originally Posted by Pamelatoo

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