Are reviews a pain in the ass?

This is great information!!

Sounds like a perfect use of the system!!!

I wasn't hinting at wanting to know what's in the locker room. Discretion is the better part of valor and foreplay is the better part of sex. IMHO
Why would you not tailor make you sessions? All the pre session info I receive is put to good use!! The second time is even more fun. Originally Posted by Jessie Austin

Sadly all providers don't use the system to see what there potential client likes or dislikes. All we hobbyist ever hear (read) is do your research and know what your getting into before you get into it lol. The same can be said about the ladies. If a lady really wants returning clients she should do her research and learn about her potential client. I say this a ton but customer retention is a focus in all customer service oriented business and the ladies with returning hobbyist deliver just that. Starting from the first correspondence to the meet to the action to the departure and some take it a step further and reach out to those hobbyist and maybe ask did you enjoy your time and really want to know versus saying I enjoyed my time hope to see you again. What could be said in that instant is "Did you have a good time" and "Is there anything I can do to make our time even better". Just some ideas to keep them coming back.

The ladies who see guys as just a $ sign they are the ones that either get burnt out, or receive bad reviews or really start to become very robotic. Every lady has there own private reason for doing this hobby some because they truly enjoy what they do and it is a bonus that they get paid for it. Those are the ones that stick around and receive great reviews.

I just read a review on Claire and it was amazing but most of the hobbyist already believe Claire and a few others are not good providers but great providers that truly tailor to the customer.

Starting from the first correspondence to the meet to the action to the departure and some take it a step further and reach out to those hobbyist and maybe ask did you enjoy your time and really want to know versus saying I enjoyed my time hope to see you again. What could be said in that instant is "Did you have a good time" and "Is there anything I can do to make our time even better". Just some ideas to keep them coming back.
Originally Posted by Austins1hobby

I never want to cross the line in contacting someone. I would love to check in with them after but I always wait for them to contact me. If I had my way, I'd send thank you cards but that's a southern thing. Depending on the preferred means of communication, you think a follow up is a good idea? It would have to be case by case. I hope the guys I click with feel the same way. I'm pretty open and easy going. I hope they would feel comfortable just touching base periodically but that's completely up to them. I don't want to cramp anyone. Im the perfect Mistress!

Yes, reviews are a pain in the ass lol. You have to simultaneously make sure you are doing the provider justice while being honest and helpful for the guys. And you have to accept that providers often read or hear about our reviews even if they are not supposed to and often screen us based on our review history. It's a delicate balance. And of course, the hardest thing to do is write a "no" review... the same guys calling people out for being white knights usually have a profile full of "yes" reviews. I end up taking a lot more time than I intended on my reviews, so I do not always write a review unless I think I have something new to share about a lady or the session really stood out. And the fact of the matter is that if you are the type to be brutally honest in your reviews, you're not afraid to write "no" reviews, etc. then you are going to have more trouble getting appointments. I have considered not writing reviews because it sucks, but feel like I owe it to the community to do so.

Things I look for in a review... is she more of a PSE type or a lady who is super comfortable kissing, cuddling, and being intimate in the hobby? Both? What is her personality like? Does she have a pretty face? Does she have awesome TCB? Does she seem to genuinely respect hobbyists? Smart? Sense of humor? Are her sessions consistent with her advertised image? Basically the stuff I cannot get looking at an eccie or P411 profile. So that is the type of thing I personally focus on in writing a review.

AfterDarkIFeel...
Thank you for that thoughtful response. We all have our preferences so I would rather know up front. I love to cuddle and nibble. Not everyone wants to cuddle. I'm along for the ride so I'm flexible. I cuddle and kiss people I care about, women and men! Life is too short!!!

I never want to cross the line in contacting someone. I would love to check in with them after but I always wait for them to contact me. If I had my way, I'd send thank you cards but that's a southern thing. Depending on the preferred means of communication, you think a follow up is a good idea? It would have to be case by case. I hope the guys I click with feel the same way. I'm pretty open and easy going. I hope they would feel comfortable just touching base periodically but that's completely up to them. I don't want to cramp anyone. Im the perfect Mistress! Originally Posted by Jessie Austin

A PM to me would never hurt rather sending a text. I maybe wrong in thinking this but me personally if a lady sent me a PM post appointment asking me how was my experience and if I truly enjoyed myself and if there were anything she could do to improve I would love that.
Just think when you make a big purchase or now a days speak to someone on the phone in customer service a lot of times they want feedback post call just so they can improve the customer experience.

What is sad is this,
I have a real scenario that happened to me a few months back. I saw this young lady and we clicked very well. The pre appointment convo was excellent and that made the experience even better and a couple of days after our appointment she did not know who I was! WOW! Really? Here I am thinking I might want to continue seeing her and she cant remember seeing me or having a conversation with me just two days later. To me that person may see hobbyist as only $ signs and not a potential returning customer.

As for reviews, I think again that in order for me to make a decision on what ladies I spend my hard earned money on is very important although they can be a pain at times to write I feel it is the neighborly thing to do for the community and to help others make a sound decision but what is good for me maybe hell for someone else.

What is sad is this,
I have a real scenario that happened to me a few months back. I saw this young lady and we clicked very well. The pre appointment convo was excellent and that made the experience even better and a couple of days after our appointment she did not know who I was! WOW! Really? Here I am thinking I might want to continue seeing her and she cant remember seeing me or having a conversation with me just two days later. To me that person may see hobbyist as only $ signs and not a potential returning customer.. Originally Posted by Austins1hobby

Welcome to the club lol. The only time this happened to me was dealing with a BP lady. The lead-up was fun. The linkup was fun. Then no follow through. I only expected follow up because she went on and on about wanting mature regular clients. She said i fit her "profile" and wanted to meet up more. So i text her the next day to just say hi, and all i got was a lot of WTH responses. Lol. I stay away from the BP craziness now.

I never want to cross the line in contacting someone. I would love to check in with them after but I always wait for them to contact me! Originally Posted by Jessie Austin

I forgot to address this part. You know, some guys like me don't mind the girl initiating contact. If the session was great and the follow up talk was nice, it's okay to hear from a lady every now and then. I don't mind if someone sends a PM out of the blue to say "happy tgif" or whatever. It lets me know you're schedule might be open and you are reaching out to regulars. It also gives the guy a chance to check on you to see what's going on.

There are some ladies who take a break from the lifestyle for understandable reasons. It's nice to get a random text or pm from them when they resurface. Even if they want to chat OTC, that's ok to a certain point. We're all human and seek contact in various ways. My thinking is a provider can send tactful messages anytime without fear of offending someone.

What is sad is this,
I have a real scenario that happened to me a few months back. I saw this young lady and we clicked very well. The pre appointment convo was excellent and that made the experience even better and a couple of days after our appointment she did not know who I was! WOW! Really? Here I am thinking I might want to continue seeing her and she cant remember seeing me or having a conversation with me just two days later. Originally Posted by Austins1hobby

Wow

one time. i received a pm from a lady askin me. When could i see her again,and how much she really enjoyed herself the last time we were together.
only thing is.......I HAD NEVER SEEN HER BCD !!

Austins1hobby, on the "what is sad" post:
They always remember me for things I didn't give them ....
Guess that is a good thing, no?

we're talking Candy and other sweet gifts ....

Knotty...
Did it work??
Maybe I should try that??

fun2come...
My favorite amendment is the Fifth!!!!

You guys have been so cool and open about posting. Thank you!! I just wonder how things work and what's the best way for everyone.

I'm wondering what kind of review makes you want to book??? Originally Posted by Jessie Austin

The only reviews that make me want to book are the ones with pics. I've been in the hobby long enough to know that you can't believe most of the stuff you read in a review. Provider showcases are just as bad. Especially the established providers. I know some showcase haven't had updated pics in at least three years. I know when a John take pics and post them in a review it's real and recent. I get tired of seeing professional and photoshop pics.