Sugar Daddy/ Sugar Baby Dating

A SD/SB relationship doesn't make much sense from the SD side unless he's fixated on a particular woman, has money to burn and she's available when he wants her. If she's has considerable control over the "when" and he's paying $$$$....it's really just him being her benefactor with a FWB setup. If I'm rich enough to afford SB's, I'd rather just have a group of escorts I regularly visit and book one when they are available.

SD/SB feels like a constant tug of war where she'll feel like she's not being paid enough and I would feel like I'm paying too much for what I'm getting.

Iv recently had an offer to sb and although it was not a mutually ideal situation iv considered such arrangements just kind of need to be sure we're both on the same page

A true SD/SB relationship is harder to find nowadays than it use to be. Now it's usually a salt daddy disguised as a sugar daddy wanting to control someone for the lowest possible dollar.

Any sugar daddy I've ever had got me a car, paid my bills, cc under my name.and I had a self-care allowance along with spending money. We had mutual respect for each other and I was always spoiled. Shopping. Vacations.

Unfortunately the SD/SB world got infiltrated by hobbyists that used SD/SB dating as a cheap way to get an escort for the lowest possible dollar.

Sugar dating is similar but not the same as hobbying. Sugar dating should cost way more money and time than a one n done stop and pop escort hourly arrangement.

A real SD/SB relationship can be fulfilling and rewarding. Unfortunately there are few men who can afford/maintain a SD/SB relationship. Originally Posted by Gabrielle

Yes, that is true nowadays. Many saltys have screwed it up and also many Escorts/Scammers/Online Fakes/Platonic have gone on Seeking are making it hard to really find a true SB.
I am not knocking Escorts using seeking. However, that is not what the site is for. But anyway, I am all game with SBs now.

I have only seen two Providers in the past 2 years. I just date SBs now.

It is great when you find a good match, but finding one is hard to say the least. I have spent a lot on dates that go nowhere. But I am not looking for a hook-up either.

I had several excellent long-term SD relationships. So if you meet someone you click with. Chemistry is right, and you like the same things, it could be great.

I absolutely love being in Arrangements. I have been in two . One for 6 months and one for 2 years . I am the real girlfriend so it works for me especially when you have undeniable chemistry and your date wants to be with you more then your weekly time . We all are human and we do get attached sometimes when we spend quality time together .

I am currently seeing a few gentleman doing FMTY monthly and rotating a handful of gentleman monthly. I do find myself being extremely passionate and involved. I look forward to seeing them and connecting it’s so much more and I often wonder if we will take the next step as discussed with a few .

I prefer being the girlfriend it comes extremely natural for me then again I did not start this industry til my 30’s and was married prior to Nikki .

Like I said previously Arrangements are fantastic once you get to the level of not ever wanting to be away from one another . It’s a trail based before leaping imho to be taken off the market exclusively.

True Story - Happy Endings Do Exist !

I am currently seeing a few gentleman doing FMTY monthly and rotating a handful of gentleman monthly

An arrangement to a hooker is a client that pays a head
Hookers can not be a sugar baby

An arrangement to a hooker is a client that pays a head
Hookers can not be a sugar baby Originally Posted by Gotyour6

The initial sugar baby definition inside the Urban Dictionary, as per the City Dictionary, identifies someone who is fiscally supported by a financially well-off person in exchange for your relationship or sex work.

An arrangement to a hooker is a client that pays a head
Hookers can not be a sugar baby Originally Posted by Gotyour6

True, a 'hooker' cannot be a SB. Unless she removes the escort model and realizes being on an allowance is not keeping score.

If your SD pays you a monthly or weekly or however. He gets to see you when he wants or when yalls schedules align.

My new SB is local. I pay her a weekly allowance plus extras. I see her 2-3 times a week for intimacy and fun. Not every date is sex, but most are.

So for what I pay her. I get a huge discount per session if you want to look at it that way. For what most escorts charge for two hours I get up to 3 dates per week. (average date is 3-4 hours)

Hookers can not be a sugar baby Originally Posted by Gotyour6

Can a hooker become a sugar baby? Can a tree become a seed? Can a storm become a cloud?



Things that keep me awake at night.

They say you can’t turn a hoe into a housewife but there’s a few exceptions to every rule.

I think SB can come from all walks of life, even a naughty one. I have been in a SB/SD relationship for a few years now. In exchange for becoming less available to outsiders, we agreed I’d be his good girl and he’d pay my college tuition. Guess who graduates soon

Don’t judge the book by it’s cover

I did it and ppl who know me, would verify.
I was a provider in Nola, then a SB, kept woman, then a trophy wife. I married him. He passed away 21 months later and I got everything. I have never seen another client in person since. Although I have thought about it a few times..I have not. I do phone sex BC I like it, its my dirty lil secret.

So YES it happens.

Cristy your story sounds like whatever sugar baby dreams of.
But I imagine there was some drama too. You probably felt something for your late husband at least at some familial level.

That reminds me of my civilian girlfriend sb ish person when I got sick. I wasn't sick enough and rich enough to keep her attention after that lol.

A true SD/SB relationship is harder to find nowadays than it use to be. Now it's usually a salt daddy disguised as a sugar daddy wanting to control someone for the lowest possible dollar.

Any sugar daddy I've ever had got me a car, paid my bills, cc under my name.and I had a self-care allowance along with spending money. We had mutual respect for each other and I was always spoiled. Shopping. Vacations.

Unfortunately the SD/SB world got infiltrated by hobbyists that used SD/SB dating as a cheap way to get an escort for the lowest possible dollar.

Sugar dating is similar but not the same as hobbying. Sugar dating should cost way more money and time than a one n done stop and pop escort hourly arrangement.

A real SD/SB relationship can be fulfilling and rewarding. Unfortunately there are few men who can afford/maintain a SD/SB relationship. Originally Posted by Gabrielle

This is so true. People are shocked when I talk about having what I lovingly refer to as my "mistress apartment". I just saw someone in another thread laugh at the idea of taking a 'hooker' shopping. In the 'high end' forum? Yeah. Kind of says it all.

What are your thoughts on it? A lot of women tend to get into the lifestyle for many reasons. One of the reasons primarily is of course the financial freedom/security. Some are short term, some are long term. Some are NSA, some require exclusivity.

Men, this question is for you? Are you a supporter or are you against it? Are you looking for a sugar baby? Have you ever had one before? Are you looking for someone local and discrete or are you looking for someone to fly out for a weekend?


Ladies, has this ever crossed your mind at least once? Have you been with a sugar daddy? Are you even attracted to older men?


I would love to learn everyone's input on it. Have a lovely day!
Originally Posted by Armani Carter

yes I definitely like older guys and i was with an SD for about 7yrs before he moved out of state.. We had a lot of fun and we we're both really into each other.. He was passionate and funny and of course he took good care of me.. But they fact that he was down to earth made things even better...

I did it and ppl who know me, would verify.
I was a provider in Nola, then a SB, kept woman, then a trophy wife. I married him. He passed away 21 months later and I got everything. I have never seen another client in person since. Although I have thought about it a few times..I have not. I do phone sex BC I like it, its my dirty lil secret.

So YES it happens. Originally Posted by CRISTY-CUPPS

This is an amazing story. Wonderful!

I've had several long term arrangements, and a few short term ones too, and they've been great times. The sugar life is one of the best parts of life...if you can handle it all.