You're not a BBW...you're just obese...

No you r not God and sure u r more then likely going to judge.But then my question to you would be WHO THE FUCK R U? Originally Posted by SexyCassandra

It was a joke, look down your chest, I was looking at your showcase and while mesmerised by your tits I read what was just above them.

I won't say what it says, others can have fun discovering for themselves.

essence, I disagree..........it IS too late.

This thread should had died a long long long time ago. The dead horse, the train wreck, WWIII. Its a shit talking thread, so get thick skin if you gonna read and reply. These guys are NASTY here. I love my FAT ASS. And my wings

Yet...... You continue to add fuel to the fire, and respond often...... Actually the last few pages have deviated into something a bit different and interesting........

JaD

Mmm, I like curry chicken. Just might try it. But does the recipe work without the onion? Is it essential?
That's a quick way to see OoB puke. Can't stand onions. Or mushrooms. Those are worse. Originally Posted by Out_of_Bounds

OoB, come to think of it....LEEKS may be a good substitute for onions.

Not as strong (acidic) as onions...but gives the same texture.

Very good suggestion....... Leeks would add plenty of flavor without overwhelming the rest.......

JaD

self-edit

thanks essence

Okay, here I go.

I used to be a provider here (under a different handle) and I was a BBW. Whenever I'd see a thread aimed at fat girls, my respones were very similar to most of these ladies. My argument was that while I was overweight, that did not necesarily mean I was unhealthy. I was active, I ate decently, no high BP etc. In fact, I heard the phrase "You are soooooo pretty for a big girl" more times than I cared to count. I never hurt for business, contrary to what some of you 'fat-girl hating' men like to think.

In January of this year I made a lifestyle change. Not for anyone but myself. I wanted to start playing sports again, so I wanted to work out to get into better shape so I wouldn't be winded within the first 5 minutes of running. I got a personal trainer 2x a week, and worked out by myself 3x a week. I kept a food journal and logged my calories, and really watched what I ate. I tried new foods that I wouldn't have touched before, and fell in love with some of them (Kale! brussel sprouts! spinach! YUM!!)

6 months later, I am down 60 pounds. I look amazing, if I do say so myself
However, do not let anyone tell you it's EASY to lose weight and you're just being lazy. Lazy? yes maybe, but it certainly is not easy. I busted my ass in the gym. I cried, I drenched my clothes in sweat, I was sore, I complained, I tried to come up with excuses, I'd have bad eating days, I struggled, I fought, and it was a hell of a battle. At the end of the day, not ONCE did I ever regret my work out at the gym, no matter how tired I was.

I can sit here today and tell you that I have never ever ever ever felt as good as I do now, on the inside and out. I used to get plenty of attention from guys (chubby chasers) before, but I get even more attention now, and from guys I'm actually mutually attracted to. My energy levels are unbelievable. My happiness is too. I never realized how unhappy I was, until I reached this point. I thought I was fine with my image and body because I had to be, especially in this business.

With that said, I don't agree with bashing or insulting anyone because of their weight. That is their own business, and if you are not attracted to them, then keep your mouth shut. Fat girls can lose weight, but ugly is forever. If they choose to be 200+lbs then that is their own prerogative. You won't change their minds or eating/excercise habits by calling them names.

Lastly, girls who have eating disorders such as anorexia or bulimia are just as unhealthy as those who are obese.

Yet...... You continue to add fuel to the fire, and respond often...... Actually the last few pages have deviated into something a bit different and interesting........

JaD Originally Posted by Jusanotherdude

Give them advice and ideas and they just might use it. I think WU and I have been saying the same thing but in different ways.
You can't convince and antagonize at the same time.

Wings n More YUMMY Originally Posted by bustyamy

My personal fav is Buffalo Wild Wings.....Caribean Jerk sauce......the "shit"....eat'em 2-3 times a week with a basket of onion rings and a lot of beer.

My personal fav is Buffalo Wild Wings.....Caribean Jerk sauce......the "shit"....eat'em 2-3 times a week with a basket of onion rings and a lot of beer. Originally Posted by Russ38

And you are one sexy fucker with all those muscles.. and that bald head and not an inch of fat to lose any where!! Hummm go figure.

And you are one sexy fucker with all those muscles.. and that bald head and not an inch of fat to lose any where!! Hummm go figure. Originally Posted by NIKKILOVE

Nikki...your not actually suggesting that a muscular guy could possibly be attracted to a bbw ....are you?......that would be absolutely insane....could never happen.....lol

I would NEVER suggest that.. LOL, I am just saying, WHAT you eat is not always going to be a factor in what you weigh... you and most of the people I know are proof of that.

I would NEVER suggest that.. LOL, I am just saying, WHAT you eat is not always going to be a factor in what you weigh... you and most of the people I know are proof of that. Originally Posted by NIKKILOVE

Just keeping posting Nikki, so I can keep.seeing that ass avatar....LOL