Natalia, I understand what you are saying. And agree with you.might want to check the thread you closed in welcome wagon where the op accused papi of trying to BB her not his freaking recordings....which should get him at least some points
What I was trying to convey was that asking other providers was not going to help his case.
Some guy trying to BB and slipping off the condom is a constant topic around here. Every day. It is not a huge deal that causes people post nearly 500 posts to crucify somebody. It is common.
It was not the topic of the thread starter either. His OP was about the recording. That is what generated all the drama. Originally Posted by Pistolero
Natalia, I understand what you are saying. And agree with you.
What I was trying to convey was that asking other providers was not going to help his case.
Some guy trying to BB and slipping off the condom is a constant topic around here. Every day. It is not a huge deal that causes people post nearly 500 posts to crucify somebody. It is common.
Really where are these threads? I specifically recall a recent thread started because apparently a guy was bragging in his reviews about doing similar stuff like what Papi is being accused of, and I remember several guys coming at him and being pissed at what he was doing... It seem to me like it WAS a big deal to people.
What lead to this very thread was the fact that a new provider exposed Papi for "allegedly" barebacking her without her consent, then he came out with the recordings crap which I honestly think he made up, thinking that, that was going to make the girl shut up about it. Yes the "recordings" added to the drama but the BBBS factor has been bigger throughout this thread specially after his delusional allegations of being "immune" showing once again that it is a BIG DEAL. People can get sick and die from that type of reckless behavior, which would make any damage that a "recording" could do look insignificant.
It was not the topic of the thread starter either. His OP was about the recording. That is what generated all the drama. Originally Posted by Pistolero
[/B]after being pointed for answering PAPIs question asked in his own words...I wonder who their looking out for but hey.....just my opinion ....you know rules are rules, and when you piss them off they ban you................
I think that this obsession you have with having coed threads stay on topic, failed you this time. I'm pretty sure you wish you have worded that differently.
Saying that someone seeking BBBS from someone who doesn't offer it and then getting it anyway, "IS NOT A BIG DEAL" is not what we expect to hear from someone who is supposed to be looking out for the well being of the community. Originally Posted by Natalia Mori
after being pointed for answering PAPIs question asked in his own words...I wonder who their looking out for but hey.....just my opinion ....you know rules are rules, and when you piss them off they ban you................ Originally Posted by Tony GambinoYep I'm totally aware of it. I have personally experienced it several times already.
Yep I'm totally aware of it. I have personally experienced it several times already.that seems to be where we're at with the mods we have here, too bad your safety isn't foremost, but a creep who secretly records ladies is afforded all the protections here, and even from the mod's we thought were good guys......it is what it is.....stay safe girl its a different world than when I signed up........
And something tells me that more points are coming my way of course "not for what I just stated above" but he'll find the way to go around and somehow mask the reasons of why I will receive points... Maybe even get banned... Originally Posted by Natalia Mori
No one gets banned for sharing opinions, only for violating guidelines. Thus far, with very few exceptions, this thread has been a good example of how people can be fucking pissed at a member and let him know it without crossing the line.yet when he complained he shouldn't have deleted his nasty recordings...because we all considered him a piece of shit ....you felt the need to point me for confirming what he suspected......in a PM you also felt he was a piece of shit, but whatever.....if you had a daughter, neice, godchild, etc....you might feel differently.....he's exactly what he called himself.....and i'll take your points if I have to,,and you can justify them them to admin
Personally I think it's a huge deal not that the guy allegedly asked for BBFS but that he allegedly did it anyway without her consent. To me, if true, that is tantamount to rape because he took away her choice and didn't respect her decision to say no. Originally Posted by SpiceItUp
No one gets banned for sharing opinions, only for violating guidelines. Thus far, with very few exceptions, this thread has been a good example of how people can be fucking pissed at a member and let him know it without crossing the line.I totally agree with you and that was my point, I have always thought of YOU as a reasonable, even wise man, I can see why they'd want to have you as a MOD, can't say the same about everybody around here tho
Hmmmm I sure have got points for it...
Personally I think it's a huge deal not that the guy allegedly asked for BBFS necessarily (I'm not so naive as to think some guys aren't asking and that some girls aren't delivering) but that he allegedly did it anyway without her consent. To me, if true, that is tantamount to rape because he took away her choice and didn't respect her decision to say no. Originally Posted by SpiceItUp
yet when he complained he shouldn't have deleted his nasty recordings...because we all considered him a piece of shit ....you felt the need to point me for confirming what he suspected......in a PM you also felt he was a piece of shit, but whatever.....if you had a daughter, neice, godchild, etc....you might feel differently.....he's exactly what he called himself.....and i'll take your points if I have to,,and you can justify them them to admin Originally Posted by Tony GambinoKnock yourself out man. Hell I'll forward it myself. You think I'm shy about defending my actions in modtardville? I assure you I am not.
I totally agree with you and that was my point, I have always thought of YOU as a reasonable, even wise man, I can see why they'd want to have you as a MOD, can't say the same about everybody around here tho Originally Posted by Natalia MoriI did also, but when I answered PAPI'S question using his own terminology, I was pointed.....so our reasonable mod....who maybe hadn't read every response decided to point me instead of the creep in this thread, I don't get it.....papi said we thought of him as a piece of shit....I confirmed it.....and was pointed and lectured......how the hell I was wrong in stating an opinion......I don't get it but hey i'm just a member not a mod, or friend of papi