Honest Question

Utanks, I was talking about a provider making that working part-time. Not the poor person working 5 jobs.

Being classified as being immoral for being a sex worker IS what bothers me. But that's just one of the downsides of this profession.

I think some mongers are envious and resent us for that. I should have clarified.

Whispers just suggested in another thread that fbsm is prostitution and I beg to differ. I do not judge prostitutes but I am not one. Originally Posted by sue_nami

What I actually did was ASK "Why are FBSM providers not considered hookers?" I have made no further comments on that issue.

A sampling pf the activities in your reviews yields

Nude FBSM
HJTC
NE
PM
ball sucking
TUMA
Russian
Prostate Massage
toy play
HJ
ball licking
shaft licking
cock worhip
COT
MSOG

Sorry Sue..... But if you are licking a guys balls and sucking his dick with a finger up his ass in between letting him titty fuck you and cum on your tits or ass after accepting money for the FBSM part of the performance .....

well......

those are all the trade craft of a hooker, prostitute, whore, provider, escort etc........

You may not care for the label but your reviews and other similar FSBM providers tend to prove otherwise.

I don't care what you call me, just call me... politely.

What I actually did was ASK "Why are FBSM providers not considered hookers?" I have made no further comments on that issue.

A sampling pf the activities in your reviews yields

Nude FBSM
HJTC
NE
PM
ball sucking
TUMA
Russian
Prostate Massage
toy play
HJ
ball licking
shaft licking
cock worhip
COT
MSOG

Sorry Sue..... But if you are licking a guys balls and sucking his dick with a finger up his ass in between letting him titty fuck you and cum on your tits or ass after accepting money for the FBSM part of the performance .....

well......

those are all the trade craft of a hooker, prostitute, whore, provider, escort etc........

You may not care for the label but your reviews and other similar FSBM providers tend to prove otherwise. Originally Posted by Whispers

Now we are talking

Now we are talking Originally Posted by fbsm07

Ah likes ta refer ta perviders as "Workin' Girls" or "Jezebels." But thet's jus' meh.

I will speak only for myself here... it just strikes a chord. I for sure have an issue with my career choice. Hell yea there is shame involved. As much as I may put on ,the reality is the minute myself or any girl on here gets called a prostitute I get pissed. Maybe its putting a name on something I dont want to believe myself to be. I dunno , I was never a psych major. All I can say is personally it jst strikes a chord. Originally Posted by purtybaby

And I think that's all that needs to be said. However, some of these guys use some pretty harsh language "to" strike a chord. Nobody wants to feel disrespected. Why use language, in any setting, that someone may not like? I assume overweight people don't want to be called fat. Less attractive people don't want to be called ugly. Challenged people don't want to be referred to as dumb or stupid. But all those terms have definitions in the dictionary. If the referenced language doesn't bother you then fine.

I believe words only have as much power as you choose to give them If I had an issue with society or what other people think I would work a regular job again I agree with Camille just talk to me politely lol If a guy says my oh my miss you are the best prostitute ever i would be flattered lol haha! These are just my thoughts and everyone is different and thats what keeps life interesting!

Btw, here is the dictionary definition for the word prostitute "woman who engages in sexual intercourse for money" Originally Posted by fbsm07

What I actually did was ASK "Why are FBSM providers not considered hookers?" I have made no further comments on that issue.

A sampling pf the activities in your reviews yields

Nude FBSM
HJTC
NE
PM
ball sucking
TUMA
Russian
Prostate Massage
toy play
HJ
ball licking
shaft licking
cock worhip
COT
MSOG

Sorry Sue..... But if you are licking a guys balls and sucking his dick with a finger up his ass in between letting him titty fuck you and cum on your tits or ass after accepting money for the FBSM part of the performance .....

well......

those are all the trade craft of a hooker, prostitute, whore, provider, escort etc........

You may not care for the label but your reviews and other similar FSBM providers tend to prove otherwise. Originally Posted by Whispers

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This post brings to light the fact that book definitions really don't mean squat in hobbyland.

The Webster dictionary in the hobby can be compared to rich politicians using street lingo when campaigning for the minority vote.
You get what they're technically saying but it's clear that they're out of touch with reality.

OP I am referring to the dictionary itself and not you.

What I have come to find is that a lot of people are just envious of us. It makes some men sick to death that they cant be paid to do the thing that they are so driven and wired to do. But what some of those men forget is that we are wired differently, so it's not exactly the same. .... Originally Posted by Jane Doe

I can say without question, that I am not envious of you ladies, nor your chosen profession. Rather, I admire you because you are able to do something that in all honesty, I don't believe I'd have the guts to do; open that door to a complete stranger and then make that person feel like they hung the moon.

I've been to some of the meet~n~greets and I've seen the samplings from your client pool. I've read and heard far more horror stories than I care to remember....so, yeah, admiration. Muchas!

I've tried to imagine what goes through your mind as you look through that peephole....and then I think back to the meet-n-greets, and reflect on the horror stories....and I have no doubt that I would be the King of NCNS because I'd freeze...quiet as a church mouse...and wait for that monger to leave because, after getting an eye-full from the peephole, and seeing what's on the other side, ain't
N O . F R E A K I N G . W A Y, I could bring myself to open the door 90% of the time...and that's a conservative figure..

No ma'am. No envy here.

Huge props, ladies..

...you've got bigger balls than I.

Heh!


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I can say without question, that I am not envious of you ladies, nor your chosen profession. Rather, I admire you because you are able to do something that in all honesty, I don't believe I'd have the guts to do; open that door to a complete stranger and then make that person feel like they hung the moon.

I've been to some of the meet~n~greets and I've seen the samplings from your client pool. I've read and heard far more horror stories than I care to remember....so, yeah, admiration. Muchas!

I've tried to imagine what goes through your mind as you look through that peephole....and then I think back to the meet-n-greets, and reflect on the horror stories....and I have no doubt that I would be the King of NCNS because I'd freeze...quiet as a church mouse...and wait for that monger to leave because, after getting an eye-full from the peephole, and seeing what's on the other side, ain't
N O . F R E A K I N G . W A Y, I could bring myself to open the door 90% of the time...and that's a conservative figure..

No ma'am. No envy here.

Huge props, ladies..

...you've got bigger balls than I.

Heh!




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Originally Posted by SofaKingFun

That's why most of the time I don't look through the peephole

That's why most of the time I don't look through the poophole Originally Posted by Claire She Blows

FIFY

I can say without question, that I am not envious of you ladies, nor your chosen profession. Rather, I admire you because you are able to do something that in all honesty, I don't believe I'd have the guts to do; open that door to a complete stranger and then make that person feel like they hung the moon.

I've been to some of the meet~n~greets and I've seen the samplings from your client pool. I've read and heard far more horror stories than I care to remember....so, yeah, admiration. Muchas!

I've tried to imagine what goes through your mind as you look through that peephole....and then I think back to the meet-n-greets, and reflect on the horror stories....and I have no doubt that I would be the King of NCNS because I'd freeze...quiet as a church mouse...and wait for that monger to leave because, after getting an eye-full from the peephole, and seeing what's on the other side, ain't
N O . F R E A K I N G . W A Y, I could bring myself to open the door 90% of the time...and that's a conservative figure..

No ma'am. No envy here.

Huge props, ladies..

...you've got bigger balls than I.

Heh!


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Originally Posted by SofaKingFun

This is what the drugs and alcohol are for.

Heh!


Well Jax, there's that...

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