When a member's reputation is being trashed, are you comfortable watching the lies?

What a load. How would you like it if your reputation and good name got smeared out there is (in) copierland? My guess would be not a whole lot. My name and reputation took a hit from a customer that fabricated a big story to keep himself out of trouble seven years ago. I ended up on double secret probation for 90 days and that incident will be forever in my file. Luckily before and after the incident my record was spotless but all it takes is one ...

So put on some music, light a couple of candles, pour yourself some lighter fluid (drink) , call your ATF, and see how it goes for you. Depending on the story your ATF may not pick up your call ... (My ATF will always pick up because i am not in this DRAMA, i am a gentleman, and i got benjimins lol)

Make no mistake this thing of ours is the ladies' businesses. (you are right but i decide where i want to spend my money) The hobby is their income. Even temporary damage to a lady's reputation can reduce her cashflow substantially. It may be a short term issue but its an issue nonetheless. Originally Posted by pyramider

Make no mistake mr. taint lover, i am not involved in this drama and i am not trying to hurt any ladies business. I am just offering a solution to all the tension and anger that i read in many threads that members seem to follow other members around from thread to thread.

My 5-steps will still make ANY situation better. NO JOB is worth getting yourself all worked up over. you know as well as i do, there are more players behind the scenes than you can shake a stick at. How many times have you read members say something in anger and at the wrong moment. (AND IN PUBLIC) If they just step back, take a breather, evaluate the topic, the people saying these things, their reputation, then respond. it might make more sence to everyone. Music always does it for me and of course getting laid to relieve the tension always helps too.

CG

Hi yall. I just wanted to say that this thread was a damn good read.It confirms my distrust of other women in this hobby. Originally Posted by ArisRose

+1

Brandee has never "outted" nobody this site....This is too way too funny I guess im guilty by association?? That's why my name has been mentioned?... Originally Posted by Brandee69

You know exactly why your name was mentioned little miss. You were the adviser for part of the evening. Whether you contributed to the positive or the negative you were "advising" Amber on the matter. You could have advised her to make things right, when I asked you to please convince her the path of the truth is the way to go.

See, human nature is an interesting thing. When confronted with a situation, spun in a positive light, parties can react multiple ways. When they immediately deny, deflect and get defensive without so much as a single finger pointed in their direction it speaks volumes. Both you and Amber were first presented with an opportunity to help another (her as the party with knowledge, you as the friend and adviser). To paraphrase, my initial request to her was "you remember this situation, please lets make this right as Miss Priss went off the deep end". I NEVER accused Amber. Amber immediately, immediately, went into denial, deflect and defensive mode. I knew more than I let on, but wanted to see how she would act. She didn't let me down. I made the same positive post in chat when Amber came in, and made the same positive request of you when YOU started making smarmy comments. i didn't seek you out. You interjected yourself into the conversation.

So, in all actuality, YOU involved yourself. Funny how that works

I, personally, will love to read misspriss' commentary on this little drama.

The Gatekeeper Awaits - ManSlut Originally Posted by ManSlut

Oh, the tale that will be told.

Look man i had to block you numerous times in chat last night for harassing me leave me alone for the last time!

woohoo, you just can't make this shit up. Well, ya could but you'd have to be delusional, insane and paranoid equating to a three strike out. This is the strangest thread I've read in any social gathering that is burning bandwidth.

Carry on.

And Leon, keep on writing dude, but honestly I can only take so much prissy prose....no doubt the Mensa people are enjoying it tho'

Look man i had to block you numerous times in chat last night for harassing me leave me alone for the last time! Originally Posted by Brandee69

The harassment card. The tool of a weak minded provider. Funny how you responded to everything I said in chat. Funny thing, when you actually block someone in chat, you can't respond to a question or comment intelligently as you would have never actually read the item. Not like block in the forums where you can still technically open the particular comment and still read it. Epic FAIL there brandee69, but thanks for playing.

You interjected yourself into the discussion last night, and you continue to speak now. You don't want to be involved? Walk away.

LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

The more I think about it the more I am getting pissed that I or Jules were even dragged into this. Had nothing to do with us. -_-

Yeah, I went outside. I played. I rolled around in the mud. I watched underass... I had a great day. Now leave me the fuck out of the next go round of bullshit please.

I want a peanut butter and banana sandwich.

For those of us who have things to do other than hang out on silly whore boards, what is the origin of the apparently long standing ill will between the Ze/Jules Federation and the Evil Amber Empire?

The more I think about it the more I am getting pissed that I or Jules were even dragged into this. Had nothing to do with us. -_-

Yeah, I went outside. I played. I rolled around in the mud. I watched underass... I had a great day. Now leave me the fuck out of the next go round of bullshit please. Originally Posted by ~Ze~

If anyone has a reason to be pissed that they were 'dragged' into anything, it is me, or Tara. So, I am sorry you and Jules feel you were 'dragged' into this, but really, all I said was, that I can only surmise her hatred for me comes from association. Jules didn't seem mad at all when I spoke to her last but apparently that has changed? C'est la vie.

I figured it was because you and I were at one time, friendly. I was wrong, in more than one way in that regard, apparently. And that is OK!

I don't run in the same ghetto-fabulous circles as ladies who know Amber, nor have I ever stuck my nose in her life or anyone's business on this board, but *some* of you regularly do. *Some* of you know more about the lives and backgrounds of the members here, than I can even wrap my mind around. Thanks to both of you (since you are speaking for Jules) for your support though. Noted.

And with that, count me out.

daaaaaaaaaamn!

I can tell you how to stop being dragged into shit. Stop being thread police. You've had a history of jumping on other providers when they behave or post in a way that you do not approve of. You have assembled an "upper-crust" elitist clique. You call it "honesty" or "truth", but it is only your version of both.

The outcome from all of that is you make enemies along with friends. I chuckle when I see providers going at each other. Basically, we know it's like Macys vs. JCP, it's about money and business. Why do Jules and Amber hate each other? I doubt they ever met, but they are both competing for the same customers and their money here. Their locations are very close to each other, their services are very similar. Most likely they do not like the competition and try to discredit the other. It's the truth, reality and nature of business.

And last, you have taken shots at Tara, whether it is intentional or not. Your most recent post about never being banned or harassing members through PMs could be taken as another shot as we all know that Tara paid her dues on those. It reads as if you are calling out those who have been, while you are better and more "honest" than those people. That one after the other thread about discretion...well, it is quite obvious to those who aren't your WKs. Numerous "truths", as you call them, that could very well be, and were, directed at Tara. If it wasn't your intention, it is an interesting coincidence.

And if it's not Tara, it's Erotic Morgan. See the pattern?

At the end of the day, welcome to the list of providers who create drama.

If anyone has a reason to be pissed that they were 'dragged' into anything, it is me, or Tara. So, I am sorry you and Jules feel you were 'dragged' into this, but really, all I said was, that I can only surmise her hatred for me comes from association. Jules didn't seem mad at all when I spoke to her last but apparently that has changed? C'est la vie.

I figured it was because you and I were at one time, friendly. I was wrong, in more than one way in that regard, apparently. And that is OK!

I don't run in the same ghetto-fabulous circles as ladies who know Amber, nor have I ever stuck my nose in her life or anyone's business on this board, but *some* of you regularly do. *Some* of you know more about the lives and backgrounds of the members here, than I can even wrap my mind around. Thanks to both of you (since you are speaking for Jules) for your support though. Noted.




















And with that, count me out. Originally Posted by TheOriginalDannie

Let's be real here this drama has nothing to do with Ze or I okay!

I don't like amber that's a known fact but once upon a time we were friends. We don't provide the same services or have the same rates body type or anything for us to be in competition. I am in the galleria she incalls 635/75 We stopped being friendly due some of ambers business practices and ways that I do not agree with. I saw the road she was going down and I distanced myself a long time ago.

With that being said, I was there during pursegate 2011. I went with amber to get the purse back from the danni not the original Dannie in question.

I do not believe that miss priss went after the original Dannie under ambers orders. I'm sorry I just don't. Her m.o is very different and way less calculating and lets face it shes not that smart.

I think miss priss is using the amber thing as a cover because she acted unprofessionally in Dannie's original thread to the point where she had to disable her account and if I were a client I would be weary to see her because she is not discreet at all. Lets face it amber is an easy target.

I also do not believe she targeted Dannie because she is friendly with Ze and I on the boards. It just does not make sense. I think given the history it's easy to blame us for everything but it's just not true.

Friday was ambers birthday I'm sure she was out celebrating. So who does "Leon" think he is to threaten her to get on board to start a drama thread over a misunderstanding? This whole purse situation was never even brought to the board until Leon started this thread and miss priss used it as an excuse for her catty attacks on dannie. What does any of this have to do with leon? What did the Merci and Jaci situation have to do with him? What did the Bridgette situation have to do with him? Looks to me like he just likes getting involved in hooker drama.

I love Dannie to death she's been a great friend to me. I understand why she is upset being she has been drug into some crap that has nothing to do with her. She has people in her ears stirring the pot and she probably does not know who or what to believe. I think the people pumping this drama up do not have her best interests at heart.

This is not what the board is supposed to be about and it is not what I am here for.

Attack me all you want for telling the truth I won't be here to reply I am going to enjoy the rest of my weekend.