Provider shows up and needs to shower first. your thoughts?

you should thank her and show her the way to the shower because she is concerned about being fresh for you..and wants your experience to be very nice...
nuttin wrong with you joining her..but damn give the lady some respect cuz she wants to be fresh for ya...

So it's required that we lather each other up. Doing massage, I get a lot of newbies so it's a great way to get them relaxed faster. Because by the time we get to the actual massage, they are warmed up, in more ways than one, and will be able to enjoy themselves more. Versus walking in the door, getting naked and starting the body work. It's a warm start versus a cold start, so to speak. I'm squeaky clean, they're squeaky clean, both of us are in a groove and they have a great experience. It's a win-win.

Also, I do pay attention to time while in the shower and will move it along so the actual massage portion isn't shorted.

I would think that if I join her, that would count against my time, and I would feel like a putz asking whether it did or not; in my mind it would be better if the provider who needs a shower was to tell me up front that she just wants to rinse off, and it won't count against my time, unless I want to join her and do more than rinse. And in my mind that would be only fair.

Let her wash because I want her kitty and fresh as my meat pistol !

leather seats + sun + heat = hot ass and sweat in the nether regions

I learned fast that being here in Texas you can get sticky really fast. So i wouldn't hold it against the lady if she wanted to shower first