overnight dates

I really think ladies who have two different rates for an overnight based on how much activity you may or might not do are not real with themselves. Its sorta like a foreshadowing clue that she really doesn't enjoy it if she has to charge a premium for it..........that just means she tolerates it. So how is that fun. Its like seeing a provider who says she enjoys daty.........then she upcharges you for it beforehand with a higher rate because you want it. If you don't like or prefer a session that's more hands on just be honest with yourself ladies. There are many ladies who can accommodate that request and some who honestly cannot and will say it beforehand.... Paying a higher offered rate is outlandish because that basically rewarding her doubt in her abilities. Not many times have I paid extra for a service and it turned out to be to my benefit. There's always a catch. If the enthusiam to perform isn't there........she outside her comfort zone anyway. Originally Posted by gimme_that

Sweetheart, I think you misunderstood me. The regular I referred to pays me much less than the going rate. I see him often enough that I try to be fair to him with my pricing and make it comfortable for him to see me often. I just don't believe in him paying me to sleep.

I would like to thank everyone that replied, in this thread. I have gained valuable knowledge.

I don't often do all-nighters but, when I do, the expected start & stop time is made clear. We agree beforehand on the amount of the donation. I would never expect either of us to expect more time or $ without agreeing on such.

I would not recommend doing an overnight with a lady you have not already established a relationship with either through a previous meeting or LOTS of discussion beforehand. Generally speaking, a long engagement requires a degree of 'chemistry' between parties to be enjoyable for either. Anyone can fake it for an hour or two but it can be quite painful for both parties if something isn't there for an extended date.

I will be doing my first overnight in a while near the end of October with a lady I have already had several shorter dates with. I already know that we 'click'...I like her as a person and we have found that conversation has come easy in the past. She knows what my expectations are regarding time and I know the expected donation. I know she won't short me on time and she knows she will likely get more than the agreed donation...zero chance either of us will get shorted!