Ladies - What makes a great client/session?

You guys crack me up! Of course a provider is going to be happier with a tip than without, all else being equal! No, these aren't "real" dates in which the gentleman brings a gift for his lady love. But they aren't the same as getting a shoeshine, either (and BTW, I bet a lot of the guys who dislike the idea of tipping a provider would tip the shoeshine guy without a second thought). I tip if I've had a good time unless there are other circumstances involved. I give gifts to some providers, as well--not because they expect it, but because it pleases me to do so and it adds to the suspension of disbelief. It's part of the fantasy, if you will. Originally Posted by Gryphon

The all things being equal is the key phrase. The providers that talk donation and act donation are the ones I am speaking about. Of course anyone would be happier with a nice tip. I am talking the provider that makes the donation and tip the main content

Actually, I long ago recognized it is a business. And I expect the business owner to sell her services for the value that she sets. If she wants more for her services, I expect her to raise her rate. I don't tip the counter girl at Macy's for providing excellent service, nor do I intend to tip every provider who walks through the door. No, this is NOT a dating site. I might give a gift to a date, but this site offers a fairly strict exchange of cash for services. If a lady wants a tip...she should raise her rates...then she'll have a built-in tip for every date. Originally Posted by charlestudor2005

I don't disagree with a word you write above. But, whether you have some sort of obligation to tip (your post above) is an entirely different question than whether someone who does tip will tend be more favorably viewed (what we've been talking about).

The all things being equal is the key phrase. The providers that talk donation and act donation are the ones I am speaking about. Of course anyone would be happier with a nice tip. I am talking the provider that makes the donation and tip the main content Originally Posted by burkalini

None of the providers responding to this thread have said tipping is their primary consideration. But the mere mention of it always seems to set off a backlash. In a perverse way I'm glad so many guys hate the idea of tipping a provider; it makes it easier for me to look good by comparison.

None of the providers responding to this thread have said tipping is their primary consideration. But the mere mention of it always seems to set off a backlash. In a perverse way I'm glad so many guys hate the idea of tipping a provider; it makes it easier for me to look good by comparison. Originally Posted by Gryphon

None of the providers responding to this thread have said tipping is their primary consideration. But the mere mention of it always seems to set off a backlash. In a perverse way I'm glad so many guys hate the idea of tipping a provider; it makes it easier for me to look good by comparison. Originally Posted by Gryphon

I never siad I don't tip because I do. Quite frequently acutually. Is it that difficult to understand that there are providers that are all about the money and only the money. Then there are quality providers that while they set a donation it's not the main topic of discussion. These are the ones that I tip. So don't get on your high horse just yet as the only white knight in town

Kinda sad that you would think this since no one has said it. It makes me think that you are very insecure about yourself. Originally Posted by Shackleton

One day you will understand the analogy more fully if you continue hobbying longer.

I never siad I don't tip because I do. Quite frequently acutually. Is it that difficult to understand that there are providers that are all about the money and only the money. Then there are quality providers that while they set a donation it's not the main topic of discussion. These are the ones that I tip. So don't get on your high horse just yet as the only white knight in town Originally Posted by burkalini

I didn't say that you never tip; you hadn't said one way or the other and I had no way of knowing your personal practice. And neither of us was the one who pounced on tipping out of a list of things that make an encounter better for a provider. If a provider is all about the money that will come across in the session.

But I do find it amusing that what started as a question about what makes a good session from a provider's point of view has rapidly become a discussion between hobbyists over tipping. I think it discourages honest answers from the ladies, which is a sad thing.

And I will now bow out of the discussion.

I didn't say that you never tip; you hadn't said one way or the other and I had no way of knowing your personal practice. And neither of us was the one who pounced on tipping out of a list of things that make an encounter better for a provider. If a provider is all about the money that will come across in the session.

But I do find it amusing that what started as a question about what makes a good session from a provider's point of view has rapidly become a discussion between hobbyists over tipping. I think it discourages honest answers from the ladies, which is a sad thing.



And I will now bow out of the discussion.
Originally Posted by Gryphon

It is hard to have a discussion on what makes it a great session as money always comes into play. Remove it and it will be what makes two people tick in a session. The question should have been worded that if you remove the donation out of the formula what is your greatest session. Maybe the ladies can espond to that one.

The question should have been worded that if you remove the donation out of the formula what is your greatest session. Maybe the ladies can espond to that one. Originally Posted by burkalini

If you remove the money it isn't escorting, but rather dating. I know you don't literally mean "remove the money", but I'm not sure what you do mean. It's impossible for a professional girl to remove the remuneration from the equation; we are not computers who can coldly and surgically remove one factor from a list and then form a theoretical model based on the remaining factors. No woman could honestly answer such a question, and frankly I doubt any man could either.

If you remove the money it isn't escorting, but rather dating. I know you don't literally mean "remove the money", but I'm not sure what you do mean. It's impossible for a professional girl to remove the remuneration from the equation; we are not computers who can coldly and surgically remove one factor from a list and then form a theoretical model based on the remaining factors. No woman could honestly answer such a question, and frankly I doubt any man could either. Originally Posted by AngelOK

Of course there is money involved. The meaning was after its; agreed lets make the session the topic. Not the money or the time but the session. These type of providers end up making more money than the lets get the money and the tip type.

Of course there is money involved. The meaning was after its; agreed lets make the session the topic. Not the money or the time but the session. These type of providers end up making more money than the lets get the money and the tip type. Originally Posted by burkalini

Let's simplify the question. . .

With the donation being equal (Client A and Client B both have $250 to spend for one hour) what conditions/behaviors are most important to make the session better for a given provider?

Clear and polite communication?
Fascinating conversation?
Punctuality?
Hygiene?
Candles?
Candy?
Flowers?
Massage With Oil?
Refreshments?
Handsomeness?
A big penis?
A small penis?
An average penis that can move like a drill bit?
Great cunnilingus skills?
Ability to find you clitoris?
Ability to find your G-spot?
Ability to make you squirt?
Kindness?
Have your favorite bath gel and other cosmetics in a gift basket?
Cooks you dinner?
Cleans your house?
Will sit and watch TV with you and not expect sex?

I think all he (and the rest of us) want(s) to know is if the money is equal, what is a gent to do to make you whistle while you work, rather than dread it.

A hobby "honey-do" list might be helpful from ladies. . .

exactly ANONONE...

LOL,

I can't help but to remember the line from Risky Business:

"Do you have any more friends, Joel? They are great customers. They are young, clean, quick, and they pay in exact change. Do they all have savings bonds from their birthday that they can cash in?"

hahahaha

I think the most basic thing (above and beyond hygiene but jesus christ you are an adult, I shouldn't have to tell you to shower) is whether you are treated like a receptacle or a partner.

Receptacle dates, while not unpleasant, are boooooooooooooring. If 30 minutes of an hour long date are spent with me on my stomach, legs together, pinned down and unable to move I might as well be napping. Regardless of any daty or making out before hand, when it becomes obvious that it could be a plastic ass underneath you I have to ask, why bother? It isn't a bad thing but if my choice is a guy who does that and tips heavy or a guy who I have fun being with but doesn't tip, I pick fun every time.

Now this is from a low volume (1 per day) viewpoint from a woman who is super promiscuous anyway.