Big difference between a Hobbyist (my type of guy) and an Impulsivist (bp quickie type)

This is entertainment not an investment. I really don't get hagglers. Either the provider gave you your dollar's worth of entertainment or she didn't. As long as I'm getting what I paid for, I'm happy. If I'm not happy with the entertainment I got for my money I won't be a repeat customer. Furthermore I have no problem tipping when I get more for my dollar than I expected.

A significant part of my business life is ensuring I get the best deals on capital investments every day. Why the fuck would I ruin my entertainment by treating it the same way? I want to enjoy myself, not re-create my morning calls. Originally Posted by oesman
Thank you! Very well stated.
I must be feeling a little edgy today. Now Bella, i wound never insult or question a pretty lady such as you. However, I'm getting a sneaky feeling this post is really a meant to simply say your out there? I agree with you about haggling over price (something I would think any guy with class would never do). I would think that any provider I see would make me the center of her attention while I'm there. I would expect that she would be clean and use proper hygiene practices as I would. So, what makes you consider you VIP? Most of us guys will select a GFE as paramount. Is it because of donation? I don't consider your donation overly expensive. I've had some very wonderful experiences with beautiful ladies who had a lot of class, who made me feel like a million dollars, and provided everything I could hope for. Some were less than your rate, some were more. The price was never the issue, it was them and their service that made them VIP! Just thinking out loud. Originally Posted by Hermosa

To answer the questions that stuck out the most...

So, what makes you consider you VIP? Most of us guys will select a GFE as paramount. Is it because of donation?

1. Location and hosting accomodations
I always host at 4 or 5 star hotels or condos preferably high rise condos in downtown or uptown near premium shopping with parking underneath the structure so passing a lobby is not an issue upon entering and exiting

2. Toiletries offered
I give all my clients their own tiddy up package (robe, soap, towels, wipes, tissue, shampoo, mouthwash, toothbrush)

3. My Body
As reviewed you will see that I am very fit. My body is my business and I maintain the upkeep to the best of my ability

4. My education
My Alma Mater is a private catholic and historically black university which gave me intelligence, poise, and pride.

5. My conversation
I am a very eclectic person and I am able to adapt to any situation, not pose... adapt. I am still me if I am at a gala as well as me if I am rolling a joint and playing madden. They are all parts of me so I am comfortable displaying these sides.

6. My service and convo
I stumbled across a few assholes in this field... I've been given great reviews with not so great numbers about 3 times in my entire documented career. Maybe one or two bad reviews where you can clearly see the client and I just didn't quite mesh but there was no rude or brash treatment at all. Most of my reviews are a few mens ultimate fantasy. I take pride in being a promiscuous passionate wino with great Kegels are apart of my daily workout routine.

7. My inner and outer beauty
I make sure before every client leaves my condo they feel better than they came. My mix is very rate and a good one I may add. &

Easy on the eyes too!

So yes... Rates weren't listed at all...

My lingerie will easily cost 70 per set and will be new and will never be a repeat for my clients
My shoes will cost over 500
My wig will cost over 600
My purse will easily be over 1000
My dress will probably be cheap, but look nice (with a body like this dresses dont last lol)
My fragrance will be designer and very well suited with the mood I'm in
Not to mention I'm a mac girl so my make up will never be the wrong color or clownish.



And clearly that day you were on edge because I posted this because I wanted answers. The provider ad section is where I post my ads.
Drivel. Absolute drivel.
atlcomedy's Avatar
If a lady brags about how much she spends on wigs she gets scratched off my list
If a lady brags about how much she spends on wigs she gets scratched off my list Originally Posted by atlcomedy
If a lady brags at all she gets crossed off mine.
Lucky LaRue's Avatar
WOW! I don't see the problem here guys. This Lady is just providing some insight into what she invests in the interest of your pleasure. I do not take this as bragging whatsoever. Right on Bella. We could use a lot more providers who offer the caliber of service that you describe.
Wow, Thanks so much for letting us in on all the secrets to being a high end escort. I definitely see some ways that I could improve.

ATL why didn't you tell me about this list?
Me thincks Ansley forgot her sarcasm tags... "[S] [/S]"
Not me! I'm here to learn me some stuff.
The big question is.....Can you fuck? None of that matters if you can't... Just saying.
Lucky LaRue's Avatar
I have read this thread forwards and backwards. Personally I see nothing wrong with doing the best you can to be the best you can. On one hand I can see how marketing your skills and what you do to achieve an illusion can come off standoffish or bragging but keep in mind here I said marketing. Now maybe the repeated rapid fire posts are bothering some but we are free to post what we feel right? No disrespect to anyone meant but if you can get what you ask for why not? I think the reviews stand for themselves.
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Interesting Read, doesn't add to nor take away from my day.

But one thing I noticed is about "fragrance" ----- I am from the old school, I guess, but fragrance is No Go.

Quickest way for a married guy to get busted is to get caught with another woman's perfume on them.

Carry on.
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Isn't it funny how one will flit gaily and mindlessly to foolishness. I'm not certain you could confirm more what many of us are thinking if you jumped up and down with those inflated tits screaming "look ma, I'm a narcissist!!!" at the top of your pretty lungs.

All this in an attempt to justify your perceived "worth" which may I remind you, is an entirely different issue
than your providers fee. I get the impression the young lady justifies her rate only in a reflection about how she feels about herself. She drones on about her top tier-ness, the wine she drinks, the LuXXX company she keeps while mostly ignoring (though she does mention it slightly) her ability to really make a connection, to engage a gentleman in a manner that suits him, to rock his world with attention and to treat him with deference and respect he's due. And then she lists the insanely shallow reasons why she charges what she does as if she is entitled to her materialness and expecting you gentleman to respect and provide this for lack of real priority. Let's examine that, shall we?

To answer the questions that stuck out the most...

So, what makes you consider you VIP? Most of us guys will select a GFE as paramount. Is it because of donation? -rarely, but it is mostly about attraction, charisma and connection.

1. Location and hosting accomodations
I always host at 4 or 5 star hotels or condos preferably high rise condos in downtown or uptown near premium shopping with parking underneath the structure so passing a lobby is not an issue upon entering and exiting -So what? I've never had a chap complain that he was getting a hummer on a couch that was less than Vachetta leather.

2. Toiletries offered
I give all my clients their own tiddy up package (robe, soap, towels, wipes, tissue, shampoo, mouthwash, toothbrush) -I've yet to meet the man who's boner was stoked over some travels sizes of Johnson and Johnson in a Ziplock baggie.

3. My Body
As reviewed you will see that I am very fit. My body is my business and I maintain the upkeep to the best of my ability-there is no denying you are a lovely girl with a beautiful body. But this doesn't make you special in any way. I'm much older than you and go to the gym and play sports every day. I see taking care of yourself as an obligation that we all share, not as something that makes a hooker exceptional. I see women much more lovely with even better bodies going to the gym every day, putting on a suit or pulling a McDonald's shirt on and making it happen for themselves in the best way they can. All this without bragging.

4. My education
My Alma Mater is a private catholic and historically black university which gave me intelligence, poise, and pride. -that should have came from Moms and Pops and from within. Interesting to get your pride from a religious institution that would see you go to hell for what you do for a living. Cognitive dissonance much?

5. My conversation
I am a very eclectic person and I am able to adapt to any situation, not pose... adapt. I am still me if I am at a gala as well as me if I am rolling a joint and playing madden. They are all parts of me so I am comfortable displaying these sides. -what you see as social confidence and what others perceive you as may be very different things. I would like to see how well you adapt with the exceptionally shoddy skin art, in your admittedly cheap dress and wig at a large political fundraiser. You may not be posing, you may indeed be being "true to yourself" but that self will likely look very silly indeed.

6. My service and convo
I stumbled across a few assholes in this field... I've been given great reviews with not so great numbers about 3 times in my entire documented career. Maybe one or two bad reviews where you can clearly see the client and I just didn't quite mesh but there was no rude or brash treatment at all. -except that you call them assholes on a forum. Most of my reviews are a few mens ultimate fantasy.-a few men for sure. Its certain a few men like wigs, cheap dresses and vacuous women. I take pride in being a promiscuous passionate wino with great Kegels are apart of my daily workout routine.-ah, so someone who made the mistake of not connecting with you or finding you adept at your job is an assholes??? Tsk, tsk.

7. My inner and outer beauty
I make sure before every client leaves my condo they feel better than they came. My mix is very rate and a good one I may add. & -this statement is actually negated in the previous statement that there have been assholes with whom you don't mesh. This means lovie, that in fact not every client leaves your condo feeling better than when they came.

Easy on the eyes too! -this is entirely true. There is no question of your beauty. Unfortunately it has little to do with you but rather your inherited DNA, surgeon's skills, someone else's luxurious hair, and the art of lighting and maquillage.

So yes... Rates weren't listed at all...

My lingerie will easily cost 70 per set and will be new and will never be a repeat for my clients-madame, the cost of a single bra at the great store for the mooing masses VS is $70.00, the cost that a common secretary would and does wear. Again, I've never had a chap say to me, I will not enjoy my experience with you because you're wearing the same bra that you had on three months ago. See Mr. Pearl or Bordelle and then get back to me about expensive lingerie.
My shoes will cost over 500-this indeed will buy you a nice pair of leather soled Italian or Spanish made shoes, but I'm interested in why such shoes did not make it into any of your showcase photos? Rather what is on display there is that what one may find at Ross's or a store catering to strippers for $49.99
My wig will cost over 600-While I can certainly see the appeal a gent may find in scrogging a redhead one month and a brunette the next, what good is hair if it can't withstand a vigorous sex tug! Additionally, one can not so easily change out the bolt-ons or the punanie so red, black or blond, he is essentially putting it in the same old snatch as the last time he saw you.
My purse will easily be over 1000-a $1000 dollar purse in which you still carry out jizz filled condoms and sex toys like everyone else.
My dress will probably be cheap, but look nice (with a body like this dresses dont last lol)-I've never heard something so inane as a body being responsible for longevity of clothing. Cheap dresses rip by merit of being cheap. So much seemingly self-inflated hysterical attention to the cost of your important items but yet you admit to sheathing yourself in crap. Hmm.
My fragrance will be designer and very well suited with the mood I'm in-perfume will send a man straight into divorce court. Silly and not thoughtful to wear it. Besides I would love to meet the man who would say, god, she picked the wrong fragrance for the mood, and I just can't screw her.
Not to mention I'm a mac girl so my make up will never be the wrong color or clownish.-i beg to differ, some of your photos are a bit on the clownish side. And MAC is a studio line, not a luxury line darling so that's to say that it was formulated to stay on and pigmented under lights and heat and is excellent at staying put during an epic face pounding. It's bright colors, and glosses and glitters are enough to make any bobble head tweak out but it aint Givenchy or YSL honey.

Madam, I'm not certain more bougie statements have ever been made on this site. If your intent was to garner more attention for yourself then you have been successful and I offer you congratulation on your marketing genius.

Remember a real lady needn't mention her finery. A well-heeled gentleman like the ones you proclaim to spend your time with, will recognize these things, and likely not care. He didn't get to his station in life by merit of screwing be-wigged hookers with Vuittons and $40 ink, and wondering if she thinks he is classy enough for her time.

The rest of the proletariat, the real bread and butter of this business, well they don't care so much either.

Charge what you charge because you can, because they'll show up with that cash in hand. Because there is a Jack for every Jill, not because anyone cares about your MAC makeup and wigs.
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WOW! I don't see the problem here guys. This Lady is just providing some insight into what she invests in the interest of your pleasure. Unfortunately you're wrong. She's providing insight into what she invests in the interests of her own pleasure. I do not take this as bragging whatsoever. Right on Bella. We could use a lot more providers who offer the caliber of service that you describe.-if by caliber of service you mean cost of wigs then yes.
The big question is.....Can you fuck? None of that matters if you can't... Just saying. Originally Posted by Reese Foster
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So is Miss Valentina...