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I can never swear off BP entirely.... some places I travel to it serves me very very very well (some cases about 50% of my appts) and some places it's sucky (quality of most of the women advertising and the quality of men responding).

Do Skype with the providers that are eligible. ..so you know what your up against. ....kills the fake

One of my all time favorites, a fantastic gal and now a great friend was discovered by me on Austin BP, so it's not all bad but in the main I use it for sheer entertainment. Nice just to have a browse, nothing more.
It takes a bit of skill to separate the wheat from the chaff. Sometimes you may think its TGTBT and many times it is. Nothing more than eye candy. And then you can get lucky.
I'll troll the phone #s to see if there are any reviews.
No reviews...no go, next!!

I just saw an BP ad from a 19 year old provider in North Carolina...and the lowest she's charging is $20. Ohhhh that just ticks me off! I wonder if she has a "handler".

I've charged cheap rates over the past 8 years...but she really tops it (in a bad way). I would post the link to her ad here, but I'm not sure if that's allowed...

I just saw an BP ad from a 19 year old provider in North Carolina...and the lowest she's charging is $20. Ohhhh that just ticks me off! I wonder if she has a "handler".

I've charged cheap rates over the past 8 years...but she really tops it (in a bad way). I would post the link to her ad here, but I'm not sure if that's allowed... Originally Posted by XoticSynn

That's is sad like a crack head bng

I also use BP and would be all to happy to get away from it. I get so much drama! I get cheap skates trying to haggle offering 40.00 or 60.00, they get pissy when I decline, I get some that text/call all hours of the day and night. when I cuss them out they try to schedule and then no show. Only one has succeeded at that move. After that I decided since I could remedy that I would. I get so much drama from low class/low quality clients that I won't answer my phone 99% because I am just beyond annoyed.

If it wasn't for BP, I wouldn't be here. When you are new on either side, you have to start somewhere

In other areas of the USA, BP serves me well. But in NY, no way. I had to block a guy from calling me because he kept on asking me "How much for sex?" when I made it clear that explicit talk won't be tolerated.

I also use BP and would be all to happy to get away from it. I get so much drama! I get cheap skates trying to haggle offering 40.00 or 60.00, they get pissy when I decline, I get some that text/call all hours of the day and night. when I cuss them out they try to schedule and then no show. Only one has succeeded at that move. After that I decided since I could remedy that I would. I get so much drama from low class/low quality clients that I won't answer my phone 99% because I am just beyond annoyed. Originally Posted by naughtynicole4u

Like Mocha said, there are some markets where you really can not avoid it, and it can be good. I totally get what you are saying though, and some of that can be remedied by how you market on there. You can word your ads a certain way, and accept certain contact methods that cut down on the riff raff. It seems we can never eliminate it completely though. bummer....

Like Mocha said, there are some markets where you really can not avoid it, and it can be good. I totally get what you are saying though, and some of that can be remedied by how you market on there. You can word your ads a certain way, and accept certain contact methods that cut down on the riff raff. It seems we can never eliminate it completely though. bummer.... Originally Posted by Holly Love

This is very true

what are some alternatives to BP

I'm so sick of the cheap clients

On BP, I get lots of BBFS requests....of course I turn them down. I told one guy that I have a boyfriend that doesn't want me doing BBFS with any client and the guy told me that he'd pay me more for uncovered play. ACK!

I use many sites including BP. Google Is the best way to go because I believe If you are an established provider, links to all review sites will pop up after googling the number. But not in all cases, since providers do loose or change their number.
If you can't find anything on her, why not just ask her If she's on any other sites?
There's also good clients that come from Bp....mixed in with the strechy & werid. Just like the girls. Some great, some not so great.

BP for most men is quick and easy. I have had good luck with BP. Just hang up on the idiots , takes all kinds. There is some Gems in there.