If you're married, hypothetically...

I think most men say their wives aren't giving it up, when the really are, to get sympathy and avoid guilt. I was married for 14 + years and was ALWAYS accommodating to my spouse. He cheated anyway. His excuse was that I wasn't emotionally nurturing. There will be excuses made to cheat no matter what's going on at home. Originally Posted by Kendall4U

Want to get remarried? 😍😬

Want to get remarried? 😍😬 Originally Posted by Gators20022007

Maybe, do we get to "play" together. I am great at sharing, its the sneaky bs that gets me?

Cheaters cheat. It does not matter if they have a kitchen pass or not.

Sure. Lots o' men cheat because it's cheating. But, I'm betting there would be more than a few fellers that would quit the hobby, if wifey got her groove back.

YUPPER ^^^^^ But we don't even sleep in the same BR , so I'm not holding my breath ,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, ,,,,,,,
hobby on ,,,,

I think most men say their wives aren't giving it up, when the really are, to get sympathy and avoid guilt. I was married for 14 + years and was ALWAYS accommodating to my spouse. He cheated anyway. His excuse was that I wasn't emotionally nurturing. There will be excuses made to cheat no matter what's going on at home. Originally Posted by Kendall4U

Well I am one of those who does not get it at home at all. Several reasons from her. So I get it somewhere else.

I love fucking married women.

Yup I love married women too, However seems like more guys with issues at home then girls not getting it when they want. just saying

Reasons married men might see us:
-Not getting any or enough at home
-Missing the exciting feeling of being with someone new
-Don’t want to tell their wives what they really want
-Enjoy variety
-Like having a secret.

One of the last relationships I was in before deciding to be a lifelong bachelorette was with a guy who traveled a lot for work. I told him that I didn’t care what he did when he walked out of my door as long as it didn’t change who he was when he came back through it and to not make a fool of me.

He proceeded to hook up with a girl who was friends with my best friend at the time. And yes, he knew they were friends, he just hoped the other girl wouldn’t say anything.

^^^^^^^^^^Oh damn, some of us guys just don't get it, that sounds like the perfect relationship

^^^^^^^^^^Oh damn, some of us guys just don't get it, that sounds like the perfect relationship Originally Posted by rexdutchman

I don't only get it, I live it. I agree we can beg and plead and not get anywhere. All they have you do is give us a certain look and we are all over it. I like you are sleeping in a different room. Been married 20 years yesterday. I got her a card and a gift. You know what I got? I got bitched out because after 20 years that all she got was a card and gift. I got no card no gift and damn sure no appreciation. She has treated me like shit for years. If anyone else was in my situation I would tell them to get the hell out. But for some reason I refuse too leave. Have been to three different marriage counselors. It goes ok till the counselor figures out that se is the major problem and they try to give her advice. Then all of a sudden that counselor don't know shit. Same thing happened three times. So I hobby to keep some sort of sanity. I will never marry again. She has ruined that for me forever.

Reasons married men might see us:
-Not getting any or enough at home
-Missing the exciting feeling of being with someone new
-Don’t want to tell their wives what they really want
-Enjoy variety
-Like having a secret.

One of the last relationships I was in before deciding to be a lifelong bachelorette was with a guy who traveled a lot for work. I told him that I didn’t care what he did when he walked out of my door as long as it didn’t change who he was when he came back through it and to not make a fool of me.

He proceeded to hook up with a girl who was friends with my best friend at the time. And yes, he knew they were friends, he just hoped the other girl wouldn’t say anything. Originally Posted by Tera Paris

I learned a long time ago. You never shit in your own back yard.
He had it made with you and he messed it up. Defiantly his loss by what I see.

Wife won't do

Bj (she is afraid it will cause oral cancer)
Anal
Threesome
Fiha
Tuma
Cim
Cof

So I hobby for these

You only live once
She had no clue ( I think )

Hell, it doesn’t have to be 20 years...I get bitched at because nothing I do fits into her realm of “expected”. I get bitched out for washing my dishes and putting them away while everyone else drops there’s in the sink as an example. I get nothing at home...no snuggle time, no intimacy, hell even when we did have sex, first hint of pre-cum it was hand job only. The she gripes about me to my friends and fellow fire department members....just to bitch. Hell she bitches about anything I do. Somewhere in there she forgets when I married her she was about to be homeless with 5 kids....well now they are all through high-school and some through collage.....I have 4 grandkids. Some of the kids have comparable attitudes and my youngest 2 daughters of whom I am the only dad figure in their lives....seem like they might be alright...married with a good husband. I hobby to fill in some serious gaps. Sometimes it is something different, some is to find a connection, all times there is a need for intimacy I don’t get......

Hell, it doesn’t have to be 20 years...I get bitched at because nothing I do fits into her realm of “expected”. I get bitched out for washing my dishes and putting them away while everyone else drops there’s in the sink as an example. I get nothing at home...no snuggle time, no intimacy, hell even when we did have sex, first hint of pre-cum it was hand job only. The she gripes about me to my friends and fellow fire department members....just to bitch. Hell she bitches about anything I do. Somewhere in there she forgets when I married her she was about to be homeless with 5 kids....well now they are all through high-school and some through collage.....I have 4 grandkids. Some of the kids have comparable attitudes and my youngest 2 daughters of whom I am the only dad figure in their lives....seem like they might be alright...married with a good husband. I hobby to fill in some serious gaps. Sometimes it is something different, some is to find a connection, all times there is a need for intimacy I don’t get...... Originally Posted by MILFEater

I hear you man. Our daughter is home from college this weekend . And she starts in bitching about how I treat her so bad. Wife not daughter. I have always treated her like a queen. Gave her anything she asked for. Never enough I could drive up in a brand new caddy toss her the keys and say its yours. She would tell me something like it the wrong color or it sits to low to ground. I blame myself for spoiling her. So I get fed up and go to the basement to watch tv. She leaves about 8pm doesn't say a word to me. Its almost 2am still isn't home. If I did that my shit would be on the porch when I got back. Her daughter is home and she takes off. Don't get it? I could go on and on.