When A Provider Wants To Get To Know A Hobbyist ... How Much Convo Is Really Necessary To Be Comfortable With Performing A Session? A Question Asked ... By A "voice" That Cries Out In The Wilderness = )

maybe the chatty whore will speak up.

maybe the chatty whore will speak up. Originally Posted by GlobeSpotter

that would be nice but I believe that's wishful thinking. being as she asked him not to post a negative review I doubt she'd out herself right? then again hooker logic might come into play and that I am terrible at understanding.

^^^^^ well....if she doesn't start her own threAD by noon tomorrow, Spiderman should release her handle.

It's only right.

This is stupid... You post about a bad experience but won't give a negative review or out her whack ass?? Sounds like some white knight shit to me..: kinda defeats the purpose when you don't want to help out your fellow hobbyists.

This should be a BAN-able rule. You can't post threads about negative experiences without putting the name of the provider. Thanks for nothing.

Don't you find it ironic that he's bitching about all talk and no substance, then he comes here and does the same to us and expects sympathy? Originally Posted by drax1

+1.....what a fucking pussy.

How do I add this fucktard to my ignore list? I'm not reading his posts again, since he's basically stating he's not sharing any useful information and is just looking for his own 15 minutes of fame.

In a way I understand, Providers are seeing strangers all the time ...

But when does too much Convo go overboard and ruins a session?
...
Will I see this Provider again? ... No
Did she value my money and my time? ... No
Did she take care of the needs of the hobbyist? ... No
Did I respect her wishes to get to know me a little more? ... Yes
Did I answer all of her questions? ... Yes
Did I behave as civil as possible? ... Yes and as much as I could only bear Originally Posted by TheAntichrist666

Always remember there are two sides to every story


This was not an alert about an insufficient provider, but a question posted about how much conversation is too much. Let's not lose focus of the topic at hand.

YES !!! YES !!! YES !!! FUCK YEAH !!! = )

YES !!! YES !!! YES !!! HELL TO THE YES !!! = )

YES !!! YES !!! YES !!! HELL TO THE YYYEEESSS !!! = )

YEEESSS !!! YYEEESSS !!! YYYEEESSS !!! HELL TO THE MOST DEFINITE YYYEEESSS EVER RECORDED IN HISTORY !!! = )

etcetera......etcetera. Originally Posted by Sarunga

At least tell me if its a spinner? Originally Posted by tbone77494

It is a spinner.

Was her name Christina by any chance?

Seriously man why not name her and maybe help save the next guy from experiencing the same thing or at least allow him to adjust his expectations appropriately? I don't get it. Originally Posted by SpiceItUp

I read your review on Christina and I was shocked to hear that things didn't go well in the session. I have seen her several times and I never had any problems with her. It isn't Christina.

I was with a provider that I was afraid was pulling the same thing. Turns out we connected and she wasn't a clock watcher, so ymmv. But I think we should let each other know which providers are pulling this mess, I mean it's bad enough we gotta be on the lookout for so many things already, I just dislike getting everything lined out only to have my good time shot down. So yeah chit-chat talk ask away, but at least make it enjoyable. Originally Posted by thatgator4u

A convo really helps to break the ice between two people, but it does bother me when they decide to carry on the convo as long as possible.

What costume were you wearing? Originally Posted by GlobeSpotter

I got there as myself. Usually during my first encounter I come as myself, any costume wearing or role play happens with her permission.

I've seen one lady that wanted to talk, planned for an hour and she talked for half that time I was getting a little worried about the shortened fun time but once we stared I was enjoying myself. When it was time to leave I was happy to find that the convocation time did not subtract from the fun time.

If a lady wants convo, she need to plan ahead Originally Posted by lyn.xes

I agree.

If only there were a place where you could post info that only the guys could see, and they couldn't talk about it in public. That way even if you didn't want to do so publicly you could actually share real information that could be useful to someone.

Oh wait, it already exists. It's called the Men's lounge. Originally Posted by SpiceItUp

Because of the white knights I have not posted in the Men's Lounge.

AC666 when you've been around a little with as many reviews such as yourself I would think you would be at a point you find it more important to share information than worry about drama.

The way to avoid drama is to state the facts then not respond any further. It's actually easier than you think.

To your comment that you don't post no reviews.....

There is really only one reason you don't do that. You simply don't want to post anything negative cause you are too concerned about not being able to see who you may want to see. Surely you know by now being truthful is not going to hurt your reputation in the way you think. SIU is a prime example of that. Geeez I fell off the deep end once and started multiple threads along with a no review and that has never stopped me from being able to see who I choose to see.

Now maliciously trying to tarnish someone's reputation because you didn't get your way like some child is a different case but that is not the case here.

Oh well one day you will learn to walk Originally Posted by Eccie Addict

I agree with what you say EA, many of the gentlemen that have posted a "No" review have reported that they were retaliated against by the Provider against whom they posted the review on, many of them tried to see other Providers and were shocked to find out that their hobby names or even real names were posted on national Do-Not-See blacklists that are available to Providers on the Interweb. There are many ladies I wish to see and have not seen them yet, I wish to leave the doors open. I do not want a terrible hobby experience to continue ruining the rest of my hobby history.

@ the OP....TL;DR your first post

However, I do echo the sentiments of all those who said that this thread is useless unless you name her...

Oh and btw, how many of your "Yes" reviews should have been "No" reviews since you don't write "No" reviews Originally Posted by DickEmDown

Of all my Yes reviews, I gave them both a Yes and my Official Seal Of Approval because they passed and they did a fine and outstanding job.

On the other hand ...

... the ones who failed to meet my standards or who ripped me off ...

... I have chosen for them to remain "mentionless" and "nameless".

When I meet a newbie or semi newbie I share a little info about myself (in a timely manner), it relieves tension and I gain trust and a friend. I believe it makes him comfortable with me to come back and suck his cajones dry again!

Usually during recovery after round 1!

Truthfully there is a lot more to (us) than this board.


I don't ask hobbyist questions, as long as he isn't the popo or there to cause me any harm, I'm great! Originally Posted by Anna Star

I like you Anna = )

I like you Yummy Marie, you are a really cool lady. I would happily wear my Spiderman costume for you and Yes you can be my Mary Jane = ) I owe you a visit and I look forward to it = )

It was me. But the truth is, he came as the Dark Knight, and I specifically asked for Spiderman. I felt like I didn't know him. I mean, we are talking Illinois vs. New York...I just couldn't wrap my head around the disparity. Sigh...I apologize A666. I just had my heart set on being your Mary Jane. Come back to me. I promise to talk zero time and love you long time.








*If you really believe it was me, don't contact me until you develop a sense of humor... Originally Posted by YummyMarie

Did the provider in question post taint photos? Originally Posted by pyramider

Yes buddy.

A dang nightmare...an expensive trip to a hooker factory, but with (almost) all bullshit and (almost) no action.

Why shouldn't the refusal to name this scammer invalidate all hundred-plus HELL TO DA YEAH reviews from this OP? They can't mean much more than that he visited some hooker and actually got laid. And that's that with that. Originally Posted by Don T. Lukbak

I know I got some, but I regret that it wasn't a "normal" session.

I enjoy convo time first but try and book a 90 min session so there is no rush. That sucks that she tried to rush things at the end. Originally Posted by colorado boy

Yup

and this....https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=djV11Xbc914 Originally Posted by Tony Gambino

music break......https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1lyu1KKwC74 Originally Posted by Tony Gambino

Nice music, thanks.

So exactly what is your whole point in "sharing" this negative experience since you provide no informaiton of value to anyone at all. Is this a ThreAD for yourself?

My bad. This is the dude that dresses up in a Spiderman costume for his sessions ... enough said. Originally Posted by StinkyFingers

Wearing costumes and role playing are things that I enjoy doing in a session, it takes away the boring monotony away from our everyday lives.

Originally Posted by oilfieldscum

Ouch! Lol = )

Dealing with drama is a choice. Post the thread and then never click on it again. Or click on it and dive into the shit for some fun internet trolling. It's your choice.

Either way what negative consequence are you worried about? Loss of "respect" of trolls hanging out on a whore board? Not being able to see a provider you already would never willing see again? Even though I enjoy a bit of drama/trolling I'm perfectly polite at all appointments and have never once been turned down.

I think you are completely wrong about the financial impact drama and negative reviews have on providers. You see non-stop on here people discussing passing on providers due to negative stuff. My personal DNS list of these is at 17, and everyone of those are based on bad reviews and drama. Are there still idiots who think bad experiences won't happen the them because they are such playa's? Sure, but they don't offset the lost business no matter what trolls and the provider want you to think. Originally Posted by citizen44

There are 3 ways to deal with a negative hobby experience:

1. Say nothing and forever hold your "piece" (peace).

2. To come out here in the Coed section and post a "No" review on someone ... the drama begins, the tragedy unfolds, the OP battles with white knights in an apocalyptic struggle over her honor, the lady sits back and watches the epic plot with amusement, adds the hobbyist to a national DNS list and claims false accusations against him which he cannot see or defend himself against, suddenly everyone wants to see her and now she is completely booked with appointments ... in the end the hobbyist OP has added himself to a national DNS blacklist, has helped her financially, brought fame and attention and more business to her, and ruined his prospects in being able to see other Providers who will refuse to see him.

3. There is a third way ... Damnatio memoriae

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Damnatio_memoriae

Depending on the cultural context from where we came from, it is a worse fate than being outed or shamed in public. When I am seriously wronged, I deal with it with Option 3.

I think it has been obvious for a long time that your over the top reviews are meant win favor with the ladies instead of providing useful information to the guys. Anyone who is surprised by your comments here have not been paying attention.