Why would this provider lie about seeing me?

Wow all this over a positive review. Can you imagine how she would have reacted over a "no" review?

Anyone consider that Jify J might be a lousy lay? Originally Posted by pyramider

How is that even remotely relevant? That's fallacious thinking to attack the poster and not the content of the post.

Wow all this over a positive review. Can you imagine how she would have reacted over a "no" review? Originally Posted by cherno

I know, right? Vote 'YES' and we'll name a super thread after you.

i can understand her being upset. if someone posted that i did greek.. i would never know how long after the fact i would have to tell everyone, "just fyi, i dont do greek." people are going to contact her expecting something and theyre going to be upset when they get there and find out she doesnt.
xx Originally Posted by Alyssa Marie

Yes, this! And not to mention, potentially well-matched gentlemen, who will not see someone who offers those services - this will rob her of those potential interactions.

I'm relatively new here and to the Hobby but I read this read with interest. None of us except Holly or Jeff can say what really took place. However, what I would like to address is that Holly inferred that the mods are biased because they left his review there.

I believe she stated what they told her was that it's a case of he-said she-said. I think they are right and leaving the review. I believe Holly's best course would have been to reply to the review stating that Jeff is mistaken, that she does not offer GFE

The mods in this case are not playing favorites, as long as she has the ability to respond to that original review. She probably could have responded stating he is mistaken, after all, he is new to the Hobby as am I. Mistakes can be made. She did not have to call him a liar, she does not have to blame the mods, she simply could have responded and set everything straight and then thank him for the positive review.

Also, the OPs original question was why would a provider lie about seeing him. The provider responded to that question. So, he got his answer.

I'm relatively new here ... I believe Holly's best course would have been to reply to the review ... Originally Posted by slinmo

As you say, you're relatively new here. Providers are actually not allowed to comment in their review threads.

Strange, but true.

I am new, but not naive. I'm sure she could have got somebody to post a reply to his review on her behalf.

I am new, but not naive. I'm sure she could have got somebody to post a reply to his review on her behalf. Originally Posted by slinmo

Well, let's see. She has her friend Joe Blow put up a post that says, "no, no, no, she doesn't do [some acronym]." I read the thread. I think: well, so-and-so wrote the review; he was there; he's apt to know more than Joe Blow does about what Polly Provider did or did not do.

Or, Joe Blow posts, "Hey, Polly says to tell you guys that she doesn't do [some acronym]." I think that would be seen by a moderator as Polly using Joe to circumvent the rules.

Or, if we really want to go off into lead-balloon territory, maybe Polly just starts another ECCIE account using a male name? Yeah, don't think that would end well, either.

And now, sir, if you'd like the last word, be my guest. You can be right, and I'll be wrong. What a deal!

Her very first reaction was to lie. This is not the reaction of someone that's innocent. It keeps being overlooked. I think the OP gave an honest review not expecting any flack at all over it. I think she gave it up and now regrets it so she puts this all on him. If your right you don't lie right away.

Now I'm getting emails from her (or her boyfriend/husband/pimp) threatening bodily harm to myself.
Originally Posted by Jiffy Jeff

I would like to see those please. Forward them to admin@eccie.net

re-reading the last page cause it was bumped. who doesn't lie? give me a break. she lied to protect herself and it didn't work out too well for her and it backfired.

if she is threatening a member now that is a much BIGGER deal and the admin should look into that.

After doing a little digging, it looks like Holly J (http://www.eccie.net/providers.php?do=view&id=230423) is no stranger to drama: http://eccie.net/showthread.php?t=1845734

I met with her and we had a good time. Or at least I thought we did.
http://eccie.net/showthread.php?t=1845716
I really don't know why she's flipping out and reporting everyone to the moderators. I'm not sure what's going on with this provider, but this is crazy stuff.

I think she's a little bit wacko. She apparently says people that saw her were lying even though it was positive. I personally think she's afraid of a boyfriend/pimp will find out she is doing more than he authorized her to do so she just denies it ever happened. The more we learn about her makes it apparent she is the one troubled and lying.

lots goin on with this subject.. i think the he said she said shit is pretty accurate.. i think the main concern for this situation is the fact that the provider lied and said she never had a session with him at all.. who cares if she freaked out, the point is is that she lied... if he lied on the review, then thats whatever, nothing she can do bout that.. but theres no sense in lying about seeing someone just because of the details of the review... Im not the type of girl to lie bout shit, Im always honest bout what I do.. seems to me if there was a real issue with the review, and she had concerns about the eccie community thinking certain things about it, she could easily post a thread in the main forum explaining that there was a misunderstanding, and like stated before, post a link to said thread to people can find it easily from her showcase... but the lying shit... makes no sense at all. Not taking sides here, just posting my opinion lol Like I have said in other threads, communication is key.. providers and their clients need to communicate more and come to an understanding about what both of yall expect to gain from the situation, reviews included...