The *short & tall* issues we encounter

Judge Smails's Avatar
Read CT, laughing my ass off, I get the Dan Patrick thing and thats the first thing I thought of.

Average height and weight and lucky enough to "fit" just right with at least Fawn.


6'1", 210lbs (ding) here, for all who listen to The Dan Patrick radio show... Originally Posted by ReadCT
shortguy's Avatar
Well I'm a whopping 5'4" & dating is definitely a bitch & that's definitely a understatement. No matter how open minded most women are, 5'4" is the perfect height for a "friend" & not a lover usually. My little ol' ass just ain't what they're looking for so to hobbying I came & I love it here. It's been great for my confidence.

The only problem i have with a provider's height is that if she's too tall certain positions just ain't gonna happen. A 69 end's up with my nose in her belly button & doggy style will have me humping the air behind her butt because the angle's all wrong. So ladies, be sure to give your naval a once over before I come-a-knocking on your incall cuz my nose may be buried in it, lol.
HG's Avatar
  • HG
  • 01-07-2010, 06:30 PM
How about us short and Fat Men.
Don't we get any Loving ?
Fawn you and I would get along great, 6'4" 270
Mature Companion's Avatar
I'm 5'8" and work out so I look a little like a little tea pot, short and stout. (I'll be glad to show you my handle and spout)

My experience is women don't like short men. I've even had women that are much shorter than me tell me I'm too short. WTF? But don't worry, I promise not to start a long drawn-out thread complaining about how short men are discriminated against. . .lol Originally Posted by Sandman
I've heard that men of short statue have been discriminated against for that reason. That's wrong!
I adore short men!!
Bob Soldios's Avatar
Speaking from the standpoint of a shorter guy, I can agree that dating can be an issue. Not for me, but I have had multiple girlfriends who were in the 6 foot range and I'm in the 5'6" range. OTOH, I have also had more than one woman tell me that I was a great guy and she'd love it if I was only half a foot taller...

From a sexual standpoint, I have to admit I like a taller girl who can get aggressive when needed. I have a wide shouldered build (was great for wrestling back when I was in school) but still love to occasionally be thrown down to taken advantage of.
Fancyinheels's Avatar
At 5'11" (6'3" in my favorite Fancy heels) and also fortunate to have many lovely dinners and social occasions out with kind gentlemen, I do worry if I tower over the fellow. Only a couple (who evidently didn't read past the bra size in my physical description) ever had a problem. Seems like most short men do like "statuesque" ladies. Yea for self-confidence!

I find all men who treat me as a lady (or a tigress at the appropriate time) attractive. The first great, passionate love of my life was 5'7"; the next 6'4"; my last serious love was the same height as I, so I'm all over the board in letting the fellows board me.

The best things in life come in small packages AND big. Mostly depends on the way that they're presented.
Guest092210's Avatar
5'6.5" 225. Any takers?
GMTA's Avatar
  • GMTA
  • 01-08-2010, 12:50 PM
well fawn heres your big teddy bear you just need to come and get me
BRING IT ON, forny!
I too am shorter -- and dating is tough. I've heard a lot of girls say, "oh, well... I won't date a short guy, but I'm sure some girl out there will!" thanks, a lot :P

It's one of those things where it's a reason the hobby enters the mind -- it's a place to get away from that. It's always tough to hear you're placed out of being even in consideration to date someone, before they even know what you're really like.

But, I understand it, too. I'm attracted to specific things in women -- for instance, I prefer to date the spinner. So it's a two-way street, I suppose. Everyone has their preference, and we all prefer honesty!

So, it's tough to hear... but it's reality. And I don't have a complex over it, I bounce back quick from rejection and try again. My one request is that when with a provider, steer away from the "oh you're so little and cute, I could put you in my pocket!" (yes, I've heard that before) Nothing like some good old fashioned emasculation to get you in the mood
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  • fawn
  • 01-08-2010, 09:17 PM
Fawn you and I would get along great, 6'4" 270 Originally Posted by argus256
I'm sure we would honey....

Read CT, laughing my ass off, I get the Dan Patrick thing and thats the first thing I thought of.

Average height and weight and lucky enough to "fit" just right with at least Fawn. Originally Posted by Judge Smails
Judge, we have a wonderful fit.....

well fawn heres your big teddy bear you just need to come and get me Originally Posted by GMTA
Are you sure you're ready for me ....
DFK Hunter's Avatar
In my impressionable youth I saw a picture of Dudley Moore with a tall blonde amazon. Ever since then I've had a thing for taller women (I'm 5'8"). I've been with several taller providers who were wonderful. I remember one lady in Az that towered over me in her heels. I took her to a business social and dinner. At first (she later told me) her height concerned her, but the gentlemanly (as she put it) way I proudly showed her off made her feel good. And the self-confidence I had in doing so was a major turn on for her. (Which she showed me later.)

However, there are ladies that just can't get into shorter guys. I've run into a few who are non-GFE with the altitude challenged. Some call it discrimination but I don't. I can see why it would be difficult to be GFE with someone you are not attracted to, for whatever reason. Life is too short to expend the time making a Federal case out of it.