Younger providers?

My girls have ranged from 18 to 48, and I have never had problems scheduling. If a girl attracts me I will schedule whatever her age. This is Fantasyland, and I see no reason to limit fantasies. In the real world it is difficult to see a future with a much younger girl, but I have SBs 26 and 32 who are looking to move in. Whether they admit it or not most men are very attracted to young women. Show me one guy who doesn't love this girl. http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/0...n_1686230.html She has infectious energy, and she is just full of life.

There is something wrong with all of us. Im talking about the men who seek out the youngest he can get, his daughter or granddaughters age. "Normal" men think it is creepy too and labels those guys as a pedophile. Many clients of mine talk about it and how its pretty disgusting to them to even imagine being with a girl their daughters age or barely legal. Originally Posted by kymberlane

What? Are you kidding. Of course it is normal for older guys to seek out younger girls or the youngest he can get. It has happened through out history. It is only a VERY recent societal trend to label people as pedophiles for seeking certain relationships. In the middle ages, girls were married off when they could bare children. It was not uncommon for a girl to marry at age 14, 15, or 16. Most of the time it was to older men (usually by a decade). I'm not condoning the practice. I'm just pointing out the reality. I don't know who you've been talking to, but I think most men from their mid 40s to 50s would not consider it disgusting to be with a girl who is barely legal. In fact, I would think most men in that age range would do it in a minute if given the opportunity. I know I would. We have a whole forum dedicated to this activity-- the Sugarbaby Forum. Granted there are a wide spectrums in the sugar daddy/ sugar baby world, but the most traditional definition is a man (usually in his 40s, 50s, or 60s) trading financial assistance for sex/companionship with a girl between the ages of 18-25. It is quite normal for an older guy/ younger girl relationship-- probably even more so in the hobby.

I think you also have to consider kymber that you are talking to guys, they are pretty good at telling you what you wanna hear. If they think you want to hear that it's creepy for a guy to want to fuck 18 year olds then they are gonna tell ya that lol.

What? Are you kidding. Of course it is normal for older guys to seek out younger girls or the youngest he can get. It has happened through out history. It is only a VERY recent societal trend to label people as pedophiles for seeking certain relationships. In the middle ages, girls were married off when they could bare children. It was not uncommon for a girl to marry at age 14, 15, or 16. Most of the time it was to older men (usually by a decade). I'm not condoning the practice. I'm just pointing out the reality. I don't know who you've been talking to, but I think most men from their mid 40s to 50s would not consider it disgusting to be with a girl who is barely legal. In fact, I would think most men in that age range would do it in a minute if given the opportunity. I know I would. We have a whole forum dedicated to this activity-- the Sugarbaby Forum. Granted there are a wide spectrums in the sugar daddy/ sugar baby world, but the most traditional definition is a man (usually in his 40s, 50s, or 60s) trading financial assistance for sex/companionship with a girl between the ages of 18-25. It is quite normal for an older guy/ younger girl relationship-- probably even more so in the hobby. Originally Posted by Cpalmson

Well put! I was going to say the same thing. I guess I am Abi Normal, but I believe the guys who think it is wrong to be with a young woman are just lying to themselves, and I call BULLSHIT. If you are with an older provider of course you are not going to say you prefer younger women. This is one of the things I love about my 48 year old ATF. We sit and discuss this kind of stuff, and she knows I am attracted to younger women, but she also knows I consider her the best. One time I had lunch with her and a date with a 19 year scheduled later(she is taking a break), and we discussed it over lunch. She smiled at me and said she knows what kind of girls I like, but she is so confident in her own sex appeal that she is comfortable with that. It is not the age factor that makes me schedule, it is if I am attracted to the girl, whatever her age.

I've been thinking about this for a day or so and came to similar conclusions that many of us "older" guys seemed to have reached. I haven't seen a provider in the 20-25 range in years. The last time I did it was less than enjoyable for us both. I spend time with ladies who are at least 30 (usually 35+) and while that isn't even close to my age (over 60) I just find I have more in common with them. Or at least they make me feel that way. Besides the lack of connection with younger providers I find it awkward to spend time with a woman who is young enough to be my granddaughter (FNF I see your point but it's not for me). I also think that given my age a lot of younger providers won't want to take the time to finish the job (I know I'm stereotyping here but it's a gut feeling). So I focus my searches on the "sexy neighbor type" who's been around for a while. There are so many lovely 30+ ladies around that it is always easy to find one to spend time with. Just my 2¢'s. Originally Posted by darkroot50

I don't think it's a front. Not saying it can't be, but women come into their "sensibilities" a lot earlier than men. Being a 35 year old woman, I've noticed the change in myself from that young girl who loved the current Top 40 and went to rap concerts, kept up with clothing fads, and spent every dime of my paycheck to a mature woman who doesn't know any current rappers besides Kanye West (and the more famous ones), has a DSO Classical (and Pop) subscription, a sensible wardrobe (with a little sexy thrown in!), and an investment portfolio. And that's just in the last 10 years! Most of us have studied and love our history (ancient history for some of you ), and are abreast of politics, and music of different genres and time periods. Sexually, we're not afraid to try new things and do what we love to do without reservation. I think overall, it's a win-win for an older man.

In the middle ages, girls were married off when they could bare children. It was not uncommon for a girl to marry at age 14, 15, or 16. Originally Posted by Cpalmson

What was the life expectancy of men in the middle ages? 30?

What was the life expectancy of men in the middle ages? 30? Originally Posted by Squarenot

At birth, 30 years sounds about right, but chilhood diseases were tampant and deadly. If you lived to become an adult, you could expect to live into your 50s or 60s. Disease and luck could make a big difference.

Hey i can remember when my family found out my 97 yr old great grandfather was having an affair with the house keeper and all the women were just up in arms over it - she was 45 - All of the males in the family looked at him as an hero - 97 and still having an affair - more power to him - of course nobody was ever able to prove exactly what was going on but he was happy ! and evidently she was happy to stay on with the family for over 15 yrs until he died a year later at age 98.
this had been going on from the time he was 82 when she was 30 .
Im just hoping his longevity and his prowness is hereiditary and it has passed down to me..lol

At 72 and recently widowed I am going to enjoy what ever life has to offer. I have dated a few young 20-28 girls and although I enjoyed the dates I find the mature ladies more enjoyable. I find the fake screams and moans to be a little to much. To you young wild ladies a grunt will do more than a fake scream any day. I think the more mature ladies are less prone to have a pimp and for sure they are not forced into what they do.
NO those are not my gold teeth

LMAO @ tucson!

Older clients (70+) are a problem. Often erectile dysfunction is combined with heart meds that preclude viagra use. And I don't care how much you pay me, spending an hour trying to get you hard is not acceptable. However, if said client is honest with me and honest with himself (denial about no wood is BAD BAD BAD) then a great time can still be had. But I'm not going to get lockjaw/carpal tunnel because he refuses to admit that his shit doesn't work and hasn't for a long time. Originally Posted by Lovely_Lilianna

lmmfao

good one. i personally could care less, i see guys from younger than myself, to older than 80 lmao, gray hair on balls turns me on i know that much. so does the idea of making a young boys dreams come true

Beauty and brains turn me on no matter what age they are...have seen ladies from 18 to 50 and have very few regrets

But I'm not going to get lockjaw/carpal tunnel because he refuses to admit that his shit doesn't work and hasn't for a long time.

Lmao, riiiiight!!

I recently gave up on younger providers. Most of them just don't cut it.

i have always been with older men they dont bother me at all