i hear it alot GFE/PSE

Sorry not relevant to OP? Originally Posted by Wulf_Princess

you comment does not make since and it's also not relevant to OP Originally Posted by Wulf_Princess

Sorry, incredibly relevant to the OP!

I suggest you just look at some "porn" to see what an actual PSE is. In all of my "porn" viewing experiences is occurs to me that pretty much "anything goes" and in 98% no "protection is used at all, 100% "Bare Back." I believe the PSE "experience" for most providers and most hobbyists is really just a little "dirtier" GFE experience than a true "porn star experience" experience...
I've actually asked some of the providers that "offer" both PSE and GFE (usually charge more for PSE) and all of them have trouble explaining and most use "Greek" as the "PSE" difference... To me, I've never had a wife/girlfriend that won't do "Geek" in fact most want it far more than I do. So to me there is no such thing as a "difference" between GFE and PSE Originally Posted by LickHer

I respect your right to have your opinions.

I would like to voice my opinion in bareback sex not being on a PSE menu just because it's in porn.

In all my years of doing this, I've never once had it "expected" just because I've been known to provide a PSE experience.
Yes, I've had asshats who might try for a BB experience, but that's few and far between. I've had real life dates try it more than any client situations.

I also would like to applaud you for finding those rare women who are wives/girlfriends who want Greek more than you do. I end up with the clients who say their SO's won't even DREAM of letting them near their precious asses. So, bravo to you. I think you are lucky in that aspect and many men would be happy to be in your shoes.

I just think your outlook on things might just be a bit different than other's due to your experiences, just as some of ours might be different as well.

Respectfully...

My SO thinks her precious ass is totally off limits.... Oh well her loss.

I respect your right to have your opinions.

I would like to voice my opinion in bareback sex not being on a PSE menu just because it's in porn.

In all my years of doing this, I've never once had it "expected" just because I've been known to provide a PSE experience.
Yes, I've had asshats who might try for a BB experience, but that's few and far between. I've had real life dates try it more than any client situations.

I also would like to applaud you for finding those rare women who are wives/girlfriends who want Greek more than you do. I end up with the clients who say their SO's won't even DREAM of letting them near their precious asses. So, bravo to you. I think you are lucky in that aspect and many men would be happy to be in your shoes.

I just think your outlook on things might just be a bit different than other's due to your experiences, just as some of ours might be different as well.

Respectfully... Originally Posted by tntangie

Hopefully nobody got the impression that I am in any shape or form promoting BBFS, as that's not the case. Was just saying in the term PSE it just implies what its says LOL

(to start english is a second language sorry Gaelic first )

i actually tried out a few things yesterday, i like alot of the suggestions and realized as long as the guy, as cool i'm pretty much open to anything, as long as it fits the frame.


the 15 min gfe thing first, i usually try not to take that long to start up, but i did it and it actually made session feel less like work and more like a great casual experience.

it tried the male dom (PSE) and i took over because it seemed he was getting too friendly... but i think i found a pretty good balance of the two.

i watch some really cheezy porn during lunch.... it's really boring, and it felt fake.

So i'm not one to fake the O, but i get one easily, if i don't make the over exaggerated sounds does it matter?

Make whatever sound is natural for you. The sounds you make can be a huge turn on.for the guy. Often that's what pushes,me over the edge.

Glad things went more smoothly. If two people are open to each other it should feel a lot more like fun.and not like work at all.

Tony is right.. Do what feels natural to you. I fall into the GFPSE category
lol.. There is no doubt about that. I consider meeting my partner downstairs, casually LFK and holding hands to the elevator. Along with small talk and light gropping.Doing a bit more DFK in Elevator on the way up and a bit of ass slapping walking to the room GFE. We walk into the room have a bit more small talk then I go change into something more comfortable..We are still at GFE.

Now once I walk out of other room in my 6 inch heals and little to no outfit on.. Things tend to heat up a bit. That is when the energy of the room can go from GFE to PSE in 0-60 real quick. I believe it all depends on the chemestry and the mood eachother are in. Sometimes slow and sensual can get you to your happy place than fast and rough. It all is to your own liking. Keeping eye contact is important to feed off eachothers vibe.If you are comfortable with what you are doing, he will react in which ever way your body expresses itself. If you are doing it just to do it, like Tony put it.. lil junior just might turtle up..lol.
I used to not consider myself PSE, until I watched my myself one day and was like damn.. That should be in a video.lol. Being a bit more vocal comes with it, but only if it is natural. Some guys just like to see your face turn red and flushed.. Still a turn on. If being vocal seems faked it can just be annoying, u know.

So to answer question.. GFE to me is like fourplay with a bit more sensualness and staying in tune with eachothers vibe is important..something that makes me tingle inside and out~Physically and Mentally. Pse is going above and beyond~ DT,CIM,COF,COB,Greek,Toys,Role play..ect ..Wanting more and every last drop!
Come watch one of my sessions and you can experience the difference
BTW- Love the topic of choice

If WP is watching I wanna be your lucky accomplice for that one..... Oh my.

Tony is right.. Do what feels natural to you. I fall into the GFPSE category
lol.. There is no doubt about that. I consider meeting my partner downstairs, casually LFK and holding hands to the elevator. Along with small talk and light gropping.Doing a bit more DFK in Elevator on the way up and a bit of ass slapping walking to the room GFE. We walk into the room have a bit more small talk then I go change into something more comfortable..We are still at GFE.

Now once I walk out of other room in my 6 inch heals and little to no outfit on.. Things tend to heat up a bit. That is when the energy of the room can go from GFE to PSE in 0-60 real quick. I believe it all depends on the chemestry and the mood eachother are in. Sometimes slow and sensual can get you to your happy place than fast and rough. It all is to your own liking. Keeping eye contact is important to feed off eachothers vibe.If you are comfortable with what you are doing, he will react in which ever way your body expresses itself. If you are doing it just to do it, like Tony put it.. lil junior just might turtle up..lol.
I used to not consider myself PSE, until I watched my myself one day and was like damn.. That should be in a video.lol. Being a bit more vocal comes with it, but only if it is natural. Some guys just like to see your face turn red and flushed.. Still a turn on. If being vocal seems faked it can just be annoying, u know.

So to answer question.. GFE to me is like fourplay with a bit more sensualness and staying in tune with eachothers vibe is important..something that makes me tingle inside and out~Physically and Mentally. Pse is going above and beyond~ DT,CIM,COF,COB,Greek,Toys,Role play..ect ..Wanting more and every last drop!
Come watch one of my sessions and you can experience the difference
BTW- Love the topic of choice Originally Posted by melannie_star

that is probably the hottest thing i've every heard

I personally dont believe in timing in intervals - its just not that serious to map it out or to over analyze: 15 minutes GFE, 30 minutes PSE etc. Its kinda mechanical. Ok, very mechanical in my opinion.Unless specifically requested, I go with the flow. I have affairs and rendezvous - not sessions. It works for some, but just not my style.

I personally dont believe in timing in intervals - its just not that serious to map it out or to over analyze: 15 minutes GFE, 30 minutes PSE etc. Its kinda mechanical. Ok, very mechanical in my opinion.Unless specifically requested, I go with the flow. I have affairs and rendezvous - not sessions. It works for some, but just not my style. Originally Posted by Eva Damita

i think the time intervals are more feeling based though,

i don't think its like, "lfk aww you are so, oh shit 15:02 min f me like an animal , etc."

Haha Haha Melanie! I love the snowman gif! Too cute!!!

Wulf

Think of it this it's like the difference between the Army and the Air Force. You join the Air Force everything is to notch food, billets 6 month deployments GFE sensual,sexy, like what you would like you SO to do if she was human.
Now the army, it's just rough, get in hit it hard take no prisoners PSE just watch a goo porn movie that's what it is over the top exaggeration.

Eva the times are just an outline. It's always based on fun.and feel, if its good. Friday i had 2 hours of GFE and loved it, bubble bath, massage, licking champagne off her bod.

Hell like most guys somedays 5 min of PSE and POP.... I'm done. Others its 30.

If its a great session there is no script, but at some point you both let go and there are only two people in the universe and they are doing each other with abandon.

So what would GFE with a porn star be?