It does go both ways, I have no doubt there are men out there that are scamming women. They make it difficult for me to find SBs. I've spoken with many who were taken advantage of, and were wary of making the same mistake. I end up having to waste time either figuring out that they are so turned off from being ripped off that they won't really get to a point where a mutually beneficial relationship will happen or having to convince them that I'm different and they can trust me (yeah, that goes over well).
As I mentioned in the post I linked above, I generally don't like being the sole income source for them. That puts them in a very bad position if we come to a point where the arrangement needs to end, and I feel bad about leaving them in dire need again. If I meet someone who is in need, I usually give them the option of taking care of their need at the time or making it an ongoing arrangement. I do make sure that I'm covered - meaning that I either give them what they need in installments or at the end, not advance them the money.
The flip side of the game is that I get inundated with "can you help me out, daddy? my electricity is about to be cut off today. I promise I will come see you (from Oregon/Tennessee/UK/etc) soon and make it worth your while!" messages, time wasters, fake pictures, to outright begging for money - "can you help me get my nails done? I can send you some pictures then" I've met quite a few, and there are a good number who expect me to advance them an agreed upon "allowance". As they are unwilling or unable to give assurance that they will live up to their end of the bargain, I end the meetings there.
If everyone dealt honestly and did what they say, it would make things a lot easier. As is the case in other hobby markets, we just have to cover ourselves so that we don't get taken advantage of.
- Rand Al'Thor
- 03-16-2011, 01:18 PM
- incognito isis
- 03-16-2011, 03:25 PM
Rand, you seem like the one true man who is not a scammer. Yes, it does go both sides. Asking you to wire them money, asking for nail salon money, electricity money, that is just crazy!! My point is, if you are truely honest in wanting to support a sugar baby, then it should be handled with care. Sugar babies are not escorts and thats why men seek them out. They are nieve. All well, i'm never going to be wasting my time with that bull crap.
- Reya Sunshine
- 03-16-2011, 04:51 PM
Calm down my lil aisan sex toy, when I said "what might happen between now and then" I only meant that the dates could change within a couple days of each other since nothing is finalized.
I WILL be in Austin in March *around* the 10th...
I WILL be in Austin in March *around* the 10th...
So what do you mean by "what happens between now and then..."? After all this build up, I would hope that you will not disappoint all of the Asians and Asian wanna be's in Austin. Originally Posted by austinkboy
- sixxbach
- 03-16-2011, 04:53 PM
- Reya Sunshine
- 03-16-2011, 05:02 PM
- Ms Francisca
- 03-16-2011, 05:19 PM
Actually I've decided to visit Austin next month around April 10th. so there goes your easy out...daddy.Originally Posted by Hannah Heresy
You think you can talk him into letting me be the cookie crumb clean up crew...??? My vehicle is paid off but it does require insurance 
Rand, you understand the SB/SD concept to it's entirety. Refreshing.
- Reya Sunshine
- 03-16-2011, 05:36 PM
Actually Sixx, you've never struck me as the kind to KEEP ANYTHING to yourself and since this is a public conversation and you say you have info that contradicts my statement then there's no reason you shouldn't post it.
Honey there are many hobby secrets that I keep to myself. Believe that...
That's great sixx...but let's try to keep things in context, baby. You originally replied that there were sooo many things you could say that would discredit what I said...I ask you again, post what secrets you know that directly contradict what I said.
As for mentioning that you enjoy the company of girls with (Staff edit; removed forbidden topic; ztonk), battling homelessness, runaways from poor family situations engaging in survival prostitution by streetwalking etc. simply to save a few bucks...it's a well known fact that you openly admit so how is it a "cheap shot" unless perhaps you are ashamed on some level for taking advantage of some of the most vulnerable women in America.
What difference is that with prostituting as a whole? Oh wait, you are better than other sex workers because you get guys to pay you... 300 or is it 400 an hour now? That's wonderful for you and glad you can do that. There are many gals on this site with drug habits of varying degrees, some that can't pay the rent, runaways at one time. The only thing they are not doing is walking the street. NOT much of a difference IMO. You have always had an elitist attitude when it comes to the hobby.
Well, one big difference between your average streetwalker and your average internet escort appears to be fee for services(as I'm sure you've noticed!) and as a result a difference in general standard of living and how much shit a girl feels she MUST put up to insure food gets in her belly and a roof over her head at the end of the day. SOME emotionally damaged men take advantage of that.
The SW scene is stagnant right now in Austin. The gentrification of East Austin, the "rebuilding" of SoCo are some factors. I also think the cheaper access to computers has contributed alot too. 300 bucks can get you a decent PC whereas it use to be a grand. There are also telephone chat lines that women can go on for free and ply their trade. Lots of those gals that you see on BP would have been streetwalkers if not for the affordability and user friendly sites like BP and/or using telephone chat lines.
You can act you are better than others but you are not. You depend on men for money whether you like it or not.
OK, here is where you must have went into a diabetic coma,yet continued typing, or just plain have me confused with someone else. I am not stuck up at all. I am well aware that there is NO moral difference between myself and the streetwalkers you see; that's one of the reasons I take such exception to you taking advantage of their situation. I don't see a difference between those girls and myself at the end of the day other than I get paid a bit more generally and I put up with less shit from jerks. In fact, I advertise on BP myself off and on as you well know so I'm not sure what evidence you have that proves I'm such an elitist asshole? Can you share it here or is it another convenient secret? I guess you might have come to that conclusion when I REPEATEDLY turned you down the ONE time I did meet you NON BCD and you were damn near begging to pay my full rate(or do you not recall whining "come onnnn, offf the record, UTR...I won't tell anyone. please" ) while at the same time I hear through the grapevine you are telling other guys my rate is too high...yet you yourself were privately begging to pay it and were refused. I guess that's why you think I'm stuck up? Because I won't go BCD with you even if you promise to never tell a soul.
We are all taking advantage of each other when you break it down.
That's just further testimony to how emotionally damaged you are.
Some people just like to make themselves feel better so when they look in the mirror they can see a "good person"....
This is getting kinda sad...maybe you should ask whispers with help clarifying and then defending your position babe?
Anyway, per your statement you have MANY things you could say. PLEASE say them.
sixx
*** Sorry if this is confusing, I tried to quote at first but it wouldn't do it correctly so I had to copy and paste.***
Honey there are many hobby secrets that I keep to myself. Believe that...
That's great sixx...but let's try to keep things in context, baby. You originally replied that there were sooo many things you could say that would discredit what I said...I ask you again, post what secrets you know that directly contradict what I said.
As for mentioning that you enjoy the company of girls with (Staff edit; removed forbidden topic; ztonk), battling homelessness, runaways from poor family situations engaging in survival prostitution by streetwalking etc. simply to save a few bucks...it's a well known fact that you openly admit so how is it a "cheap shot" unless perhaps you are ashamed on some level for taking advantage of some of the most vulnerable women in America.
What difference is that with prostituting as a whole? Oh wait, you are better than other sex workers because you get guys to pay you... 300 or is it 400 an hour now? That's wonderful for you and glad you can do that. There are many gals on this site with drug habits of varying degrees, some that can't pay the rent, runaways at one time. The only thing they are not doing is walking the street. NOT much of a difference IMO. You have always had an elitist attitude when it comes to the hobby.
Well, one big difference between your average streetwalker and your average internet escort appears to be fee for services(as I'm sure you've noticed!) and as a result a difference in general standard of living and how much shit a girl feels she MUST put up to insure food gets in her belly and a roof over her head at the end of the day. SOME emotionally damaged men take advantage of that.
The SW scene is stagnant right now in Austin. The gentrification of East Austin, the "rebuilding" of SoCo are some factors. I also think the cheaper access to computers has contributed alot too. 300 bucks can get you a decent PC whereas it use to be a grand. There are also telephone chat lines that women can go on for free and ply their trade. Lots of those gals that you see on BP would have been streetwalkers if not for the affordability and user friendly sites like BP and/or using telephone chat lines.
You can act you are better than others but you are not. You depend on men for money whether you like it or not.
OK, here is where you must have went into a diabetic coma,yet continued typing, or just plain have me confused with someone else. I am not stuck up at all. I am well aware that there is NO moral difference between myself and the streetwalkers you see; that's one of the reasons I take such exception to you taking advantage of their situation. I don't see a difference between those girls and myself at the end of the day other than I get paid a bit more generally and I put up with less shit from jerks. In fact, I advertise on BP myself off and on as you well know so I'm not sure what evidence you have that proves I'm such an elitist asshole? Can you share it here or is it another convenient secret? I guess you might have come to that conclusion when I REPEATEDLY turned you down the ONE time I did meet you NON BCD and you were damn near begging to pay my full rate(or do you not recall whining "come onnnn, offf the record, UTR...I won't tell anyone. please" ) while at the same time I hear through the grapevine you are telling other guys my rate is too high...yet you yourself were privately begging to pay it and were refused. I guess that's why you think I'm stuck up? Because I won't go BCD with you even if you promise to never tell a soul.
We are all taking advantage of each other when you break it down.
That's just further testimony to how emotionally damaged you are.
Some people just like to make themselves feel better so when they look in the mirror they can see a "good person"....
This is getting kinda sad...maybe you should ask whispers with help clarifying and then defending your position babe?
Anyway, per your statement you have MANY things you could say. PLEASE say them.
sixx
*** Sorry if this is confusing, I tried to quote at first but it wouldn't do it correctly so I had to copy and paste.***
- sixxbach
- 03-16-2011, 05:46 PM
Actually Sixx, you've never struck me as the kind to KEEP ANYTHING to yourself and since this is a public conversation and you say you have info that contradicts my statement then there's no reason you shouldn't post it.Honey, I don't need to say it behind the scenes..... you are not worth your rate! You are not worth your rate.... you are not worth your rate!
Honey there are many hobby secrets that I keep to myself. Believe that...
That's great sixx...but let's try to keep things in context, baby. You originally replied that there were sooo many things you could say that would discredit what I said...I ask you again, post what secrets you know that directly contradict what I said.
As for mentioning that you enjoy the company of girls with drug habits, battling homelessness, runaways from poor family situations engaging in survival prostitution by streetwalking etc. simply to save a few bucks...it's a well known fact that you openly admit so how is it a "cheap shot" unless perhaps you are ashamed on some level for taking advantage of some of the most vulnerable women in America.
What difference is that with prostituting as a whole? Oh wait, you are better than other sex workers because you get guys to pay you... 300 or is it 400 an hour now? That's wonderful for you and glad you can do that. There are many gals on this site with drug habits of varying degrees, some that can't pay the rent, runaways at one time. The only thing they are not doing is walking the street. NOT much of a difference IMO. You have always had an elitist attitude when it comes to the hobby.
Well, one big difference between your average streetwalker and your average internet escort appears to be fee for services(as I'm sure you've noticed!) and as a result a difference in general standard of living and how much shit a girl feels she MUST put up to insure food gets in her belly and a roof over her head at the end of the day. SOME emotionally damaged men take advantage of that.
The SW scene is stagnant right now in Austin. The gentrification of East Austin, the "rebuilding" of SoCo are some factors. I also think the cheaper access to computers has contributed alot too. 300 bucks can get you a decent PC whereas it use to be a grand. There are also telephone chat lines that women can go on for free and ply their trade. Lots of those gals that you see on BP would have been streetwalkers if not for the affordability and user friendly sites like BP and/or using telephone chat lines.
You can act you are better than others but you are not. You depend on men for money whether you like it or not.
OK, here is where you must have went into a diabetic coma,yet continued typing, or just plain have me confused with someone else. I am not stuck up at all. I am well aware that there is NO moral difference between myself and the streetwalkers you see; that's one of the reasons I take such exception to you taking advantage of their situation. I don't see a difference between those girls and myself at the end of the day other than I get paid a bit more generally and I put up with less shit from jerks. In fact, I advertise on BP myself off and on as you well know so I'm not sure what evidence you have that proves I'm such an elitist asshole? Can you share it here or is it another convenient secret? I guess you might have come to that conclusion when I REPEATEDLY turned you down the ONE time I did meet you NON BCD and you were damn near begging to pay my full rate(or do you not recall whining "come onnnn, offf the record, UTR...I won't tell anyone. please" ) while at the same time I hear through the grapevine you are telling other guys my rate is too high...yet you yourself were privately begging to pay it and were refused. I guess that's why you think I'm stuck up? Because I won't go BCD with you even if you promise to never tell a soul.
We are all taking advantage of each other when you break it down.
That's just further testimony to how emotionally damaged you are.
Some people just like to make themselves feel better so when they look in the mirror they can see a "good person"....
This is getting kinda sad...maybe you should ask whispers with help clarifying and then defending your position babe?
Anyway, per your statement you have MANY things you could say. PLEASE say them.
sixx
*** Sorry if this is confusing, I tried to quote at first but it wouldn't do it correctly so I had to copy and paste.***
Sure, I would think you were worth your rate IF you had the looks to match. You are good looking but you are not HDH... price wise yes but not where it counts.........
Oh yeah, well of course when I saw you non BCD at that motel where I have seen BP gals and SW's before, I smelled the pussy and had a momentary lapse of reason. I would have put myself in check....
sixx
- Ms Francisca
- 03-16-2011, 05:46 PM
SIXX
Women are allowed to have other jobs that are not in the sex industry; I don't think you got that memo. We can also Vote, just letting you know...
You, on the other hand... do depend on women to gratify your little quirks; unless you know of some secret garden where sweet smelling vagina's are in bloom???
You can act you are better than others but you are not. You depend on men for money whether you like it or not.No, she chooses to make money (probably more than you will ever see) making men happy.
Women are allowed to have other jobs that are not in the sex industry; I don't think you got that memo. We can also Vote, just letting you know...
You, on the other hand... do depend on women to gratify your little quirks; unless you know of some secret garden where sweet smelling vagina's are in bloom???
- Reya Sunshine
- 03-16-2011, 05:49 PM
Yes, he does seem to have a balanced perspective on the subject. 
Rand, you understand the SB/SD concept to it's entirety. Refreshing.
- eglrdr
- 03-16-2011, 05:49 PM
Man did this one go to shit in a hurry, just what was the original topic? 
- sixxbach
- 03-16-2011, 05:51 PM
SIXXNo, she chooses to make money (probably more than you will ever see) making men happy.Ms. Fransisca,
Women are allowed to have other jobs that are not in the sex industry; I don't think you got that memo. We can also Vote, just letting you know...
You, on the other hand... do depend on women to gratify your little quirks; unless you know of some secret garden where sweet smelling vagina's are in bloom??? Originally Posted by Ms Francisca
You are talking out of your ass. My statement is based on my conversations with her which you have no clue about. She could deny it but its true.
Fransisca, I can hold my head up high with what I do for a living. Kudos to you for being able to suck a cock well! Put that on your resume!...
sixx
- Ms Francisca
- 03-16-2011, 06:00 PM
I smelled the pussy and had a temporary lapse of reason. I would have put myself in check....Sixx, tell the young lady sitting next to you to leave & then talk to Henna when your reasoning is back.
sixx Originally Posted by sixxbach
Henna, at least we know he is not having a diabetic coma.....
SIXX
"Kudos to you for being able to suck a cock well! Put that on your resume!...Dang! sounds like you think I'm too good even for your list. Straight to the reume! Since I have your seal of approval, does that mean our "date" for tomorrow is canceled???
You guys can say what you want... but from the posts lately, it seems the gals can handle the heat just a bit better than you boys.
- Reya Sunshine
- 03-16-2011, 06:01 PM
LMAO. Good point. I honestly don't remember. Thanks for reminding me that this is not how I want to spend my time here. I apologize to everyone that had to read that exercise in futility. I sometimes get a bit worked up when I think people are being jerks and I'm still learning when and how to keep my mouth shut.
Man did this one go to shit in a hurry, just what was the original topic?
- sixxbach
- 03-16-2011, 08:10 PM