I'm too much of a ditz to navigate the new indys site well yet. I'm trying though and like the look as well as the concept.
I don't agree with most posts or obsolete views on here. It's primarily squeaky wheels with an opposite silent majority. Most of the best dates from here have like 0-200 posts.
For my Cleveland trip I'm booked solid with prebook deposits on cash app from Twitter mostly. Here I was asked tons of time wasting questions, 0 booked. Indys 4 wrote to book, 1 canceled, 1 booked, 1 vanished, and 1 I turned down because I prefer to be lower volume. Prebooks are my highest priority.
Tryst has us ladies jump through hoops to get verified. They really make sure you're legit and that your pics are 100% you and recent. They also have diff image standards. It took weeks, but I'm using it now.
P411 is pretty much only a verification site now using codes (P59861). It has really high end guys, but I didn't even bother to use it for my Cleveland trip.
Switter is great depending on the area. I need to start utilizing it more.
SA is 50/50. It takes so much time to sort the Gents from the junk and establish a connection. It can be super exhausting. There are so many poor salt daddies, bad slobbysts, and confused guys that think its match.com mixed in with the amazing Gents.
Everyone scatters.