Blatant discrimination and outright cruelty to a POST-op TS provider, in Austin TX of all places?

If she didn't tell the truth, and then people found out after spending time with her, SH*T REALLY would have hit the fan.
Brandy, I keep in mind that MOST of the people that never have anything nice to say are just miserable or compensating.
Happy Holidays ya'll. peace...J

Mynx your mailbox is full, if you didnt know babe. Originally Posted by RocKin BraNdy

I know, as a female, I only get 50 PM capacity, so it fills up several times a day with fan mail. I cleaned it out again.

Still Looking,

You implied that I mischaracterized your statements as cruel (e.g., dick cut off, dude, pocket pussy), and implied I was trying to make you look like some sort of bigot or something. Which I did not. I was quite complementary of you.

I never asked you to consider Brandy a woman, I just wondered why you wouldn't address someone in the way they prefer.

Ill let your comments stand on their own. My pro bono work here is over. If you'd like me to continue to debate the topic or post legal and scientific commentary on transgender laws, then I will have to bill you for that. My rates are in line with most of the ladies here: $250-350 an hour. You may PM for billing details.

Thanks for your continued presence on the boards.

xoxo,
LMx

I know, as a female, I only get 50 PM capacity, so it fills up several times a day with fan mail. I cleaned it out again. Originally Posted by LilMynx69

Still Looking,

You implied that I mischaracterized your statements as cruel (e.g., dick cut off, dude, pocket pussy), and implied I was trying to make you look like some sort of bigot or something. Which I did not. I was quite complementary of you.

I never asked you to consider Brandy a woman, I just wondered why you wouldn't address someone in the way they prefer.

Ill let your comments stand on their own. My pro bono work here is over. If you'd like me to continue to debate the topic or post legal and scientific commentary on transgender laws, then I will have to bill you for that. My rates are in line with most of the ladies here: $250-350 an hour. You may PM for billing details.

Thanks for your continued presence on the boards.

xoxo,
LMx Originally Posted by LilMynx69

Whispers and SL - I think that both of you know that you are pushing RBs buttons every time you call her a guy, dude, man, etc. You do not have to accept that she wants to be identified as a female, however, there are ways to get your point across without pushing those buttons over and over again. However, as I stated, you know exactly what you are doing, so this is of no surprise to you. Originally Posted by RouterJockey

I think I'll just exercise my right to just not call at all.

Originally Posted by Still Looking

I was hoping you hadn't totally lost your sense of humor. xoxo

For future reference, I do accept PayPal.

Seriously though, I DO have to empty my PM box twice a day. ANNOYING!

I think I'll just exercise my right to just not call at all.
Originally Posted by Still Looking

Could we possibly get so lucky? xoxo

We all have freedom of speech, although it is screened by the mods on this forum as well as other forums here. The banter that exists between members here is, at best, disheartening. All we can do is limit the drama that we bring to these forums. Information is what this board is all about. Good or bad that's how it is. One persons fetish or preference is another persons crusade for change. What we do BCD is between consenting adults and is known only by disclosure of one of the two. If we all chose to live and let live, then that would be ideal, but we don't live that way in private or in public forum. We all have a bucket list and on that list there are some deep down dark fantasies that we don't want others to know about, lest we out ourselves to someone such as yourself [RB] or a TS or a Dom or a Mistress or whomever, that item on the bucket list will grow dust and be covered up by unjust morals. Life is something to be enjoyed, not scrutinized and demeaned by others. All we can do is brush it off, fan it and keep it cool. Life is too short to argue. It's the Holiday season, lets enjoy it. Live and let live........ijs RB, good luck on your endeavors, hold to your convictions and be true to yourself.

I was hoping you hadn't totally lost your sense of humor. xoxo

For future reference, I do accept PayPal.

Seriously though, I DO have to empty my PM box twice a day. ANNOYING! Originally Posted by LilMynx69

Only twice a day?

Only twice a day? Originally Posted by Still Looking

Average. Twice a day Average. Some more. Some less.

Average. Twice a day Average. Some more. Some less. Originally Posted by LilMynx69

Kind of like I hobby.... I understand.

Kind of like I hobby.... I understand. Originally Posted by Still Looking

Or like I drink martinis at lunch.

Whispers and SL - I think that both of you know that you are pushing RBs buttons every time you call her a guy, dude, man, etc.

Review the Attorney General's opinion on the matter and the fact that he is beginning to challenge ordinances that say otherwise. In Texas.... Born a man You are a man.

You do not have to accept that she wants to be identified as a female, however, there are ways to get your point across without pushing those buttons over and over again. However, as I stated, you know exactly what you are doing, so this is of no surprise to you.

RB - You need to take some ownership for the way you are being treated as well. In many of your posts you have shot back with the same type of rude and mean spirited comments that you are complaining about. I understand being upset, and I understand being picked on. But if you want it to stop, you have to rise above it in your response. Like it or not, you are the minority in a community that is already a minority.

This place has more clicks than a local High School. Some ( I would say "MOST" of the people) of the people will never accept who you are and will never address you as a female. You have to come to grips with that, wether you believe it to be right or wrong. He can't come to "grips with it" . He cut "it" off.

Keeping quiet and letting things pass you by is just as much a tool to fight back as a response is to someone that is being a bully. In fact, when someone posts something in order to get a response, a lack of response is the most powerful weapon you have.

He is totally incapable of it as even his PMs display.

Lastly - this will pass, and you will have the chance to run your business. Follow some of the guidelines that these folks have posted to you. Know that in my opinion the mods generally step in and look at both sides. If you are guilty of pushing the envelope and so is the other side, the mods will allow it to continue and work itself out. If one side stays in bounds and one party continues to cross the line, you will see them step in to help out.

RJ Originally Posted by RouterJockey

He already burned his bridges with the Austin Mods...... Will they be fair? Sure. They are a good set..... Will he get compassion? I doubt

I freaking hate bullies... they are bullies cause they are insecure in the first place. Originally Posted by joesmo888

I do too and Rockin Brandy is constantly trying to intimidate me with references to his Glock..... Would they take him on that island?

Fucking idiots...