I would suggest renting a house on Air BnB... The idea of having as male / female host to keep things in order is good... If you are going to do this, do it right... Like the infamous sex parties in London... I went to one of these about 12 years ago - awesome experience - dress code, a bar, food, DJ, themed rooms... So much better than a chick in a hotel room getting banged by a few swingin’’ dicks...
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I bet 90% of the guys hat say hey are interested never show up... About 99% of the “gang bangs” that are scheduled never happen...