You are not a jerk just because you have a preference. Some girls need to take it easy and know every guy has their own tastes, and you shouldn't be afraid to voices your opinion with fear of being berated by mothers. That would be like me taking offense to guys who like only white chicks, it's just a preference - no big deal. I think some guys have kept mum about this subject because they don't want backlash.
Originally Posted by SkylarCruzWantsYou
Just to clarify, Skylar, I've seen ladies with mommy marks, and was just fine with it. My point was that I like to know what I'm getting into. If I'm aware of mommy marks and was in the mood to hang with a milf...great. if I'm expecting flawless and get an ogress...not so great.
It's not the mommy marks so much as the false advertising that gets my goat. Most guys book what they're in the mood for, whatever body shape, style, age, color, or weights they prefer. Ladies trying to expand their market by trying to fit into a niche where they don't belong is just not a good idea. It leads to unhappy clients and bad reviews.
I've been lucky and only had a few surprises-but only one was in a good way. It's just sad we have to resort to research research research to get a real idea of who we might be seeing in some cases where ladies have 15+ pics up.
I'll jump off my soapbox now with this last statement or two. If a set of pics is 5 years old, blurry enough to be ET at 300 yards, opens up smaller than the thumbnail on the profile, was 15 pounds ago (up or down-some guys like larger, some smaller), has every shot curled up in an attempt to not show anything but face or chest at close range, or just plain attempts to hide something (be honest, people, you know if you're doing it) then its time for some new photos.
Women of every size, race, or color can be beautiful. Own it! Confidence is its own beauty.