Quid pro quo

I think this is one of the reasons guys don't give their handles. Just book thru p411 and no worries of "quid pro quo".

Fuck...now I know why my wife won't give me an Okay...

I don't ask for reviews anymore, but if hypothetically I did, and the guy told me no, then I would prob tell him that's fine, but if you can't be bothered to review me, then don't expect me to be bothered to go out of my way to OK or Whitelist you.... Originally Posted by Valerie

"quid pro quo" ... "hypothetically" ... of course!

When I first joined the board I made an honest attempt at writing a review and a few of the self-appointed want-to-be moderators picked it apart ,fearing that I might get a point or some bullshit for it,so I messaged one of the real mods and had it removed.Now I keep my opinions to myself. I have been hobbying along time and I do know a good session from a bad one.

When I first joined the board I made an honest attempt at writing a review and a few of the self-appointed want-to-be moderators picked it apart ,fearing that I might get a point or some bullshit for it,so I messaged one of the real mods and had it removed.Now I keep my opinions to myself. I have been hobbying along time and I do know a good session from a bad one. Originally Posted by highboy

+1,000

I'm trying to figure out how many "OKs" my "next" review is worth.

If you need to have your reviews freshened, I would be more than happy to "quid your quo". LOL

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Not always the case... I will not give an OK if I personally wouldn't see the guy again. That situation happened to me before and I explained to them why I wasn't going to give an OK. The guy was "safe" ( not LE), and didn't short me but I refused to give him an OK because I wouldn't recommend him to another lady, nor would I see him again.

To the OP- I totally get what you're trying to say... I don't ask for reviews anymore, but if hypothetically I did, and the guy told me no, then I would prob tell him that's fine, but if you can't be bothered to review me, then don't expect me to be bothered to go out of my way to OK or Whitelist you...If a guy refuses to review after being asked to, then has the audacity to ask me to whitelist him or whatever, I find it very cheeky. Originally Posted by Valerie

It is interesting that some providers see giving P411 okays or other references as a favor rather than as them participating in a system that is designed to keep providers safe and out of jail. It also seems like an odd approach to take for those providers who want to establish repeat customers.

It is interesting that some providers see giving P411 okays or other references as a favor rather than as them participating in a system that is designed to keep providers safe and out of jail. It also seems like an odd approach to take for those providers who want to establish repeat customers. Originally Posted by BFCjosh

Perhaps that is because some perceive themselves .....

.... as not needing good public relations. "They simply deserve the business".

I usually have the OK given by the end of the day for someone that contacts me via P411. If, by chance, I forget or he contacted me some way other than P411 (NOTE: His has to have contacted me through the same email that is on his P411, and he contacted me with his real name.), I give him the OK right then and there on my phone or computer. I don’t like loose ends hanging around. I also don’t want to be bugged by someone for something that I owe him in the first place and only takes ten seconds to do.

Not always the case... I will not give an OK if I personally wouldn't see the guy again. That situation happened to me before and I explained to them why I wasn't going to give an OK. The guy was "safe" ( not LE), and didn't short me but I refused to give him an OK because I wouldn't recommend him to another lady, nor would I see him again. Originally Posted by Valerie

I see your point, but I disagree. They are either OK or not. It doesn’t matter if you wouldn’t see them again for whatever reason. If they are safe, show up as scheduled and meet the financial requirements, then they are OK as a client for someone just maybe not the particular lady asked to give the OK.On the other hand, the only person I wouldn’t have given an OK to I contacted Gina about his bad behavior and his account was closed.

To the OP- I totally get what you're trying to say... I don't ask for reviews anymore, but if hypothetically I did, and the guy told me no, then I would prob tell him that's fine, but if you can't be bothered to review me, then don't expect me to be bothered to go out of my way to OK or Whitelist you...If a guy refuses to review after being asked to, then has the audacity to ask me to whitelist him or whatever, I find it very cheeky. Originally Posted by Valerie

I've Whitelisted a couple of clients. TER is a gigantic pain to use, but they asked so I did it.