How much is TOO MUCH to pay for sex

In my opinion,when I see a provider charging rediculus amount like 1000 bucks an hour,that tells me,what shes really saying is "she doesn't really like men but for this amount I can tolerate it"screw that shit,even if I was rich I wouldnt pay that much.

Just like I dislike women on Onlyfans,I saw an interview of a gal from Onlyfans and she was bragging how she takes money from guys and doesn't even have to sleep with them,screw that,I'll never give any Onlyfans gal a dime.i can get free porn on the internet.

Does a $500 orgasm feel better than $200? No. Or even a free DIY one? No. There will always be those guys that will pay whatever cause of their financial situation and that enables ladies to charge whatever amount.

If you are wealthy or very comfortable then cost doesn't matter. The rest of us it does. Frequent flyer discount is greatly appreciated but not necessary if I have a good time I'll be back many times. I prefer the discount be on the second hour. Originally Posted by hairyhoudini

Houdini, I can do that too

If you are wealthy or very comfortable then cost doesn't matter. The rest of us it does. Frequent flyer discount is greatly appreciated but not necessary if I have a good time I'll be back many times. I prefer the discount be on the second hour. Originally Posted by hairyhoudini

Bet there is more non wealthy tricks paying more than the wealthy

A providers opinion, I just want respectful suitors that I vibe with. Having higher rates tends to weed out the ones who expect a laundry list of things from me vs letting things flow naturally. It also seems to weed out people who want to go back and forth a zillion times before booking, if they book at all.

If your someone who would want to see me regularly, an arrangement can be made or as previously referred to a frequent flyer discount. I will always choose quality over quantity because building off each session I have found creates an even better experience each time we meet.

If I got the same results at a lower point, that's what I'd have them set at, but it wasn't the case. At the end of the day, spend what your comfortable spending for the experience you wish to receive. If something doesn't work, move on and chalk it up as a lesson learned. There's a provider for every kind of consumer, you just need to figure out which one is right for you.

A providers opinion, I just want respectful suitors that I vibe with. Having higher rates tends to weed out the ones who expect a laundry list of things from me vs letting things flow naturally. It also seems to weed out people who want to go back and forth a zillion times before booking, if they book at all.

If your someone who would want to see me regularly, an arrangement can be made or as previously referred to a frequent flyer discount. I will always choose quality over quantity because building off each session I have found creates an even better experience each time we meet.

If I got the same results at a lower point, that's what I'd have them set at, but it wasn't the case. At the end of the day, spend what your comfortable spending for the experience you wish to receive. If something doesn't work, move on and chalk it up as a lesson learned. There's a provider for every kind of consumer, you just need to figure out which one is right for you. Originally Posted by OliviaAllenDSM

Nice excuses, I call GPS

A providers opinion, I just want respectful suitors that I vibe with. Having higher rates tends to weed out the ones who expect a laundry list of things from me vs letting things flow naturally. It also seems to weed out people who want to go back and forth a zillion times before booking, if they book at all.

If your someone who would want to see me regularly, an arrangement can be made or as previously referred to a frequent flyer discount. I will always choose quality over quantity because building off each session I have found creates an even better experience each time we meet.

If I got the same results at a lower point, that's what I'd have them set at, but it wasn't the case. At the end of the day, spend what your comfortable spending for the experience you wish to receive. If something doesn't work, move on and chalk it up as a lesson learned. There's a provider for every kind of consumer, you just need to figure out which one is right for you. Originally Posted by OliviaAllenDSM

Agree 100% ..

I just want respectful suitors that I vibe with. Having higher rates tends to weed out the ones who expect a laundry list of things from me vs letting things flow naturally. It also seems to weed out people who want to go back and forth a zillion times before booking, if they book at all.

If I got the same results at a lower point, that's what I'd have them set at, but it wasn't the case. At the end of the day, spend what your comfortable spending for the experience you wish to receive. If something doesn't work, move on and chalk it up as a lesson learned. There's a provider for every kind of consumer, you just need to figure out which one is right for you.

You have every right to call GPS.

The cost/benefit analysis that works for me is to have longer engagements with people I enjoy spending time with because it's easier to get away for several hours one night a week vs multiple nights for shorter time periods. In order to attract those that enjoy longer engagements, my hourly is higher, but multi hour is lower per hour.

Your cost/benefit analysis will be vastly different if you have different preferences, budget, or more flexibility in your schedule. Neither is incorrect or wrong, we simply value different preferences when choosing to meet someone in person and that's absolutely fine. That's the beauty of this industry as there is a plethora of options to suit your preferences.

Good thing the tricks decide what they're willing to spend and who they call, hookers still wonder why it's slow, they need to spend all day on hooker sites on hopes to catch the few clueless tricks.

It's not about a vibe, you're paid to perform! This isn't a date where the hooker needs to be impressed 😆 The delusions run deep

You have every right to call GPS.

The cost/benefit analysis that works for me is to have longer engagements with people I enjoy spending time with because it's easier to get away for several hours one night a week vs multiple nights for shorter time periods. In order to attract those that enjoy longer engagements, my hourly is higher, but multi hour is lower per hour.

Your cost/benefit analysis will be vastly different if you have different preferences, budget, or more flexibility in your schedule. Neither is incorrect or wrong, we simply value different preferences when choosing to meet someone in person and that's absolutely fine. That's the beauty of this industry as there is a plethora of options to suit your preferences. Originally Posted by OliviaAllenDSM

Good thing there are options, I will agree with that

And then there is GDS..

This is funny stuff,it's really the guys fault,if he is paying 700 bucks or more an hour,he is the one getting robbed.
This is why I'm mostly on FetLife playing with swingers,a swinger lady doesn't charge for sex,she just fucks because she likes fucking.

This is funny stuff,it's really the guys fault,if he is paying 700 bucks or more an hour,he is the one getting robbed.
This is why I'm mostly on FetLife playing with swingers,a swinger lady doesn't charge for sex,she just fucks because she likes fucking. Originally Posted by fritobandido

That's the whole point, they are looking for the small percentage of dummies, when you ain't worth it and still demand high rates, it's comical to me

Exclusive arrangement starting at 75,000/month.

what?

Providers charge what they want to charge and guys pay what they want to pay. When those two sides agree, then it is fair to both individuals.

Engorged donation rates does not always mean better service, just bigger regret for the hobbyist when the service does not meet the individual standard of a session he pays for. Providers who what guys to contact them just once and set up an appointment, especially when they have a NRP or the back channel intel on her is minimal if anything, are delusional. But, if you let a provider know what you desire, not demand, in a session, such as filling out your P411 profile for her to view, and it does not state "I just go with the flow and hope for the best", then he is considered a hard to please or difficult client. Especially if he is known reviewer who will expose the provider who does not live up to her ads or what she said in private communications prior to an appointment.

When a guy inquires to a new to him provider (never been BCD with her before), he is not going to be one contact and done then set the appointment. Guys do their due diligence or should anyway. And yes, that does mean a few contacts to one provider and if he does like what is replied back, he is not going to set an appointment. If as a provider you want regulars, then you are going to have a make a good first impression, meaning, talking bad about others on the boards, an inflated ego and donation rate and calling guys who inquire timewasters when they do not set an appointment with you after initial contact is not the way to do it. After a few times of seeing you, yes, then you are going to have him setting an appointment on the initial contact if your schedules align, but never on a first time ever inquiry.

So giving frequent flyer discounts is mute when a guy does not call you back due to his opinion of the value/quality of service on his first time BCD with you. No onecan honestly tell how good or bad a provider is if they have not seen her before and the same can be said about a hobbyist if the provider has never seen him before.