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There's a few people I know in the physical realm that are aware of my "sexual tendencies." But honestly they rarely ever wish to discuss it. I guess either it's not of interest to them, or they consider sex to be a private matter...

I go through so many hoes and adventures in a month, you guys would get bored of me telling stories.

Rule No. 1, of course: Never tell a married friend that you do this, no matter how good a friend you think he is. It's never happened to me, but I know someone who ran his mouth about a paid companion he saw...and now the "good friend" is banned from ever talking to him again. #wimmen
So I tell no one. People are too judgmental.
On the other hand, BLM69, I would love to sit down with you sometime and hear a few of your great stories. If we can't talk about this amongst ourselves, we're missing half the fun.

^^ yup would be funny , yes people are to judgmental - we all have BSC stories

^^ yup would be funny , yes people are to judgmental - we all have BSC stories Originally Posted by rexdutchman

Some can be very judgemental, I always remind them that they're on a hooker site doing the same things others do. Internet site, newspaper ads, the Streets. it's All the same gig

Yup , I agree

what happened to the monthly meet and greet socials?

what happened to the monthly meet and greet socials? Originally Posted by porscheguy

You mean the socials that other people can take your picture, unauthorized by you, slap a tag on you, and send it around to others?

No thanks.

This hobby is a cut throat operation and the more info out on you, the more someone can and will use it against you for their ulterior motives.

It can be cut throat if you have enemies, but this is true anywhere else.

Over the years I've told just a few friends here and there, some coworkers who seemed more open minded...but a couple times this turned out to be a mistake... like when a coworker can't resist blabbing a bit to others and thinks it's all just funny, then maybe even makes vague jokes about it, at times out loud too, while other coworkers are within earshot(!). So even if you tell someone who doesn't seem to judge you on it at all, the joking can ensue.

Over the years I've told just a few friends here and there, some coworkers who seemed more open minded...but a couple times this turned out to be a mistake... like when a coworker can't resist blabbing a bit to others and thinks it's all just funny, then maybe even makes vague jokes about it, at times out loud too, while other coworkers are within earshot(!). So even if you tell someone who doesn't seem to judge you on it at all, the joking can ensue. Originally Posted by craze danz

That "coworker" and I would have to have some words. But that's why I don't trust co-workers with this info.

Key to being an adult is to have some discernment about character... ie. keeping your mouth shut.

That "coworker" and I would have to have some words. But that's why I don't trust co-workers with this info.

Key to being an adult is to have some discernment about character... ie. keeping your mouth shut. Originally Posted by texassapper

Oh BELIEVE me I had words. That part of the story I didn't get to..

Was younger then, we all live and learn don't we?

I'd be interested over coffee or drinks. When my atf died i posted on eccie coed and got some good advice how to grieve. Never could share with any rw friends.

BLM69 I think it would be a great time enjoying a few drinks and stories with you.

We are brethren in a noble and nomadic quest.