It Bears Repeating (or What NOT To Ask During Your Initial Contact)

You have been on my TDL with reservation: you confirmed my reservation. Originally Posted by doug_dfw

I believe the possibility of a union between you and me has been minimal. Thanks for the clarity, though.

I believe the possibility of a union between you and me has been minimal. Thanks for the clarity, though. Originally Posted by Caitie Mae

Lmao!!! Catie Mae!!! I feel ya

So at what point can I ask if you're into all the kinky shit I'm into? When is that acceptable? Originally Posted by FunInDFW

Fun,

You can PM me...

I'll share.

Kisses.

(I don't share with everyone, most of what I like is in my reviews, so it's not like it's a big question anyways.)

This is getting to be a bit of a nonsense thread. Don't know where it went off the rails.

What Caitie Mae said! I agree with that!

A while back (months ago, actually) I posted a question to the affect that "when is the right time to ask the provider about special requests?" The answers I got back were pretty much "right up front".

Frankly, that seemed a little off to me as I would expect providers to react negatively to too much detail right up front. Yet it seems in this case any discussion about special requests should be transmitted only though mind melds psychic transmissions. It is not my intention to discount your concerns, but there has to be a right time to tell a lady about your preferences.

FWIW

Vic

I believe the possibility of a union between you and me has been minimal. Thanks for the clarity, though. Originally Posted by Caitie Mae

Damn! Score 6 for Caitie, that comeback is priceless.

A while back (months ago, actually) I posted a question to the affect that "when is the right time to ask the provider about special requests?" The answers I got back were pretty much "right up front".

Frankly, that seemed a little off to me as I would expect providers to react negatively to too much detail right up front. Yet it seems in this case any discussion about special requests should be transmitted only though mind melds psychic transmissions. It is not my intention to discount your concerns, but there has to be a right time to tell a lady about your preferences.

FWIW

Vic Originally Posted by Vic Kosslovich

Really legitimate point. All ladies are different and from my experience once they realize you're not LE and serious about meeting they're pretty open to questions but if you're not a known quantity in the community it's a lot harder. And to your point, don't want to waste money when you want A and she doesn't care for it or if it's only YMMV.