Let It Be Known...

thanks sweety!

I can only speak for myself but... mandy's posts on the board whether
whimsical or discussion heavy are what actually sparked my interest in her.
(ok... yeah... that body didn't hurt... i admit it...)

because it made her seem far more personable than the air of erotic fantasy
most providers carry around them... which is a little refreshing to me...

btw love the new avatar mandy Originally Posted by deevad

I think Hooker is the word. Originally Posted by Waitt

Grrrrr
LOL

As a previous poster said, many times the reasons those words are used, ala slut, is because of not just a specific act, but a behavior pattern by a provider.

Really, the providers who do not exhibit the BS behavior, do not typically get those type of labels.

I'm sure the ladies have their "catch phrases" for the men...and I would assume the majority of times it is because their behavior warranted it.

Speaking of both the respected guys and gals....the rest, who cares what they really have to say!

Ultimately, if your going to give the hobby too much thinking beyond fun and $$$'s, you need to have a thick skinned approach

Yeah I'm really confused why that was said, it doesn't make any Denver! ?!

Grrrrr
LOL Originally Posted by Naughty Nali

Sweet Mandy,
You should hear how we talk when we get together for lunch...and that's with some of our favorite girls around us! We've been known to clear out a burger joint.
Maybe you could join us sometime.

So Mandy you are saying you don't have mens lounge access but you know what is being said there and will use it as part of your screening process. Aww so you have a white knight do you? Be careful not to believe everything he tells you. Maybe you should have him email you the posts in question. After all he might be a bad person and looking for gain by feeding you the info.

And if this post should offend you it is not meant too. I just have a strong distaste for white knights. I can say that this thread is probably not good business sense on your part.

i am not worried about anything so you shouldnt fret. i am fully aware that what i wrote will spark negative and positive views, as does everything else.but always remember

beware the beauty of the dragon,
for her teeth are sharp.

dont be discieved, any heat i get
i can handle!!! Originally Posted by Sweet Mandy

That heat might be a little hotter than you realize if you encounter it face to face instead of on a screen

I just want to say i think how alot of clients will be all goody goody to providers when it concerns co-ed room or the sandbox, but when it involves things outside us ladies,which we have no control over because we dont have access to certain things, like for example the Mens Lounge. (minus the ladies who somehow manage to get access to that, me being not one of them)

I have to remember we are all human and we have our own judgements and preferences on things. boys will be boys girls will be girls but what ever happen to loving everyone the same, maybe thats just my fantasy world, but know this.....

but it does bother me AT ALL when i hear how the men talk in the mens lounge the words whore and slut come up......Really now? Is the mens lounge like the highschool football locker room where you gentleman go and shoot the shit?(redundent question)

im not going to get to much further into it, but i wanted to just make it known that just because i dont have access to certain things,(nor would i probably care to hear half the bullshit you men talk amongst yourselves) doesnt mean i dont know whats being said. And i will refuse a client is i dont like his demeanor or the way he speaks about other providers. Originally Posted by Sweet Mandy

So Mandy you are saying you don't have mens lounge access but you know what is being said there and will use it as part of your screening process. Aww so you have a white knight do you? Be careful not to believe everything he tells you. Maybe you should have him email you the posts in question. After all he might be a bad person and looking for gain by feeding you the info.

And if this post should offend you it is not meant too. I just have a strong distaste for white knights. I can say that this thread is probably not good business sense on your part. Originally Posted by oilfieldscum

Yes Mandy ofs brings up a good point. Don't believe all the bs you hear, some guys feed you this in hopes of benefiting from it.

Does this kind of conduct happen in the mens lounge? Yes it does, but whats posted in the Mens lounge is information guys wish to keep between guys, kind of like the powder room to you ladies. I think your error here is expecting everyone to be 100% genuine but even in life thats not the case, you'll always have a hater or two best way to handle it is to not let it get to you and move forward. I think as long as your doing you then dont worry about the bs.

I will say this. I am in the hobby to get some good BBBJ and to get some tasty DATO. With that said, why does everything in this site have to be so damn personal. Chill out and have a fun time hobbying.

So Mandy you are saying you don't have mens lounge access but you know what is being said there and will use it as part of your screening process. Aww so you have a white knight do you? Be careful not to believe everything he tells you. Maybe you should have him email you the posts in question. After all he might be a bad person and looking for gain by feeding you the info.

And if this post should offend you it is not meant too. I just have a strong distaste for white knights. I can say that this thread is probably not good business sense on your part. Originally Posted by oilfieldscum

...and I can take a good guess at who this White Knight is. Sometimes they aren't very smart due to having clouded judgement.

Mandy,
We have met...and I can say from first hand experience, that are you are a sweetheart and you possess a good soul; and it pains me to know that there are individuals out there who would pass along certain information to try and garner favor from you, but in reality...they hurt your feelings.

That is the way of the White Knight.

They betray our trust for manipulative reasons and they hurt the very ladies that they're trying to gain special treatment from. This is why we despise them as we do. They will feed you information from the other side and then talk about you behind your back as well. They cannot be trusted.


Now, allow me to be direct.

This is a business. I have said this in the open forums as well as the Locker Room until I feel like my head is going to explode.

We are the paying customer, and you are the product. The "product" is everything from your service level to your appearance and your environment that you choose to accommodate your customer.

Just like any customer in any business, they are going to look for faults. If a fault is found...it is going to be pointed out and discussed in detail. That is life in the big city and there is nothing you can do about it.

I'm not perfect...you aren't perfect. Nobody on this board or anywhere else for that matter, is perfect. We all have faults. Just walking down the street...people are going to look at you and find fault. It's just life.


Just keep doing what you're doing and keep your chin up. You're a sweet lady and we all know that ... so don't fret the small stuff.

uh lol i get back to u on that

Sweet Mandy,
You should hear how we talk when we get together for lunch...and that's with some of our favorite girls around us! We've been known to clear out a burger joint.
Maybe you could join us sometime. Originally Posted by boardman

no i dont have access and i am no longer being told whats being said because i was "enlightened" enough this time to not want to know anything further. its yalls business what u do in there, idc i was again just dissappointed to hear the negativeity. and to be frank i dont care if anyone feels this thread is gonna be bad for business, like i said im not worried if i lose clients or not .(not my top priority) the people who do see me know the type of provider i am so if ive deterred someone away by my opinion then oh well, thats their loss not mine. and couple guys have made comments to me about having white knights,which i didnt even know what they were. but i ask no one to stick up for me and i can handle my own. ha ive been locked up 6 months before you really think i need a white knight?? hope THIS didnt offend anyone either

So Mandy you are saying you don't have mens lounge access but you know what is being said there and will use it as part of your screening process. Aww so you have a white knight do you? Be careful not to believe everything he tells you. Maybe you should have him email you the posts in question. After all he might be a bad person and looking for gain by feeding you the info.

And if this post should offend you it is not meant too. I just have a strong distaste for white knights. I can say that this thread is probably not good business sense on your part. Originally Posted by oilfieldscum

then bring it, god says its gonna happen then let it happen and ill have a smile on my face the whole time!

That heat might be a little hotter than you realize if you encounter it face to face instead of on a screen Originally Posted by Eccie Addict

your right i wont fret the small things. i think i must clerify something though, nothing bad was told or said of me it was of other people, regardless of who it is, i still think its .............. but anyways yall are right this is the hobby and we girls will be critiqed because we are the product.

...and I can take a good guess at who this White Knight is. Sometimes they aren't very smart due to having clouded judgement.

Mandy,
We have met...and I can say from first hand experience, that are you are a sweetheart and you possess a good soul; and it pains me to know that there are individuals out there who would pass along certain information to try and garner favor from you, but in reality...they hurt your feelings.

That is the way of the White Knight.

They betray our trust for manipulative reasons and they hurt the very ladies that they're trying to gain special treatment from. This is why we despise them as we do. They will feed you information from the other side and then talk about you behind your back as well. They cannot be trusted.


Now, allow me to be direct.

This is a business. I have said this in the open forums as well as the Locker Room until I feel like my head is going to explode.

We are the paying customer, and you are the product. The "product" is everything from your service level to your appearance and your environment that you choose to accommodate your customer.

Just like any customer in any business, they are going to look for faults. If a fault is found...it is going to be pointed out and discussed in detail. That is life in the big city and there is nothing you can do about it.

I'm not perfect...you aren't perfect. Nobody on this board or anywhere else for that matter, is perfect. We all have faults. Just walking down the street...people are going to look at you and find fault. It's just life.


Just keep doing what you're doing and keep your chin up. You're a sweet lady and we all know that ... so don't fret the small stuff.

Originally Posted by john353

lol sorry i was on my phone and the auto correct put it as denver i meant sence!

Yeah I'm really confused why that was said, it doesn't make any Denver! ?! Originally Posted by Sweet Mandy