To All of you BBFS Predators Out there - F YOU!!!!

i will never do bbfs, with someone:

-that does drugs of any type

- that has done bbfs with anyone within 45 days

- has ever had a std/sti even if they do not have it now

- refused to provide medical documents proving it

-anyone who is married and i have prior knowledge

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- i prefer not to bbfs with anyone who drinks but sometimes i make exceptions Originally Posted by Wulf_Princess

So back to the first question, if you do it in the hobby, how do you verify all that you listed

So back to the first question, if you do it in the hobby, how do you verify all that you listed Originally Posted by macbeth1000

Usually part of screening

Ummm.yeah.. I need two provider references and a printout from LabCorp..

AFLACK.

i will never do bbfs, with someone:

-that does drugs of any type

- that has done bbfs with anyone within 45 days

- has ever had a std/sti even if they do not have it now

- refused to provide medical documents proving it

-anyone who is married and i have prior knowledge

______________________________ ________________

- i prefer not to bbfs with anyone who drinks but sometimes i make exceptions Originally Posted by Wulf_Princess

Usually part of screening Originally Posted by Wulf_Princess

Let's be honest here.

• Unless you do an on the spot drug test that also tests their hair, you can't prove this through "screening".
  
• You can't possibly know if someone's had BBFS in any amount of time unless you were with them that whole period of time without gaps in time.
  
• You can't verify if someone has or has not had an STD that they have been cured from.
  
• The ring finger indention (if there is one) would be good but again it's not verifiable.

I don't care how good your screening is, it's not going to protect you against disease from BBFS. There is only one way to do that and that's to not have BBFS with anyone. Now I know, and you know this isn't going to happen. You're going to have civvy sex with someone without the use of a condom and the odds are you've already done it and you've done it with hobbyists. To each their own. WALDT. However, don't try to fool yourself or anyone else that you're able to screen away the risk of disease from BBFS.