Wow, now that is a load of crap. Providers choose to stay with you an additional 9 hours for free??? Talk about delusional!
I have had meals off the clock with providers, gone out, all that stuff, not delusional thinking it is because we are friends. I have money and they know it, good business for her to attempt to entice or seduce me. She makes more.dlars or so she thinks. One lady told me it was her job to get sorry old men to be infatuated with her. She makes more money and they are easy because usually just one pop. So, you think she likes you and you start to pay her.more and more and she just counts the stacks of cash and comes to my place while we laugh at you and how you are manipulated.
I have a small and limited exposure, but the ladies I know would never spend 9 hours for free with any client unless it pays her in the long run.
How many guys out there get overnights for free after a session? Speak up please as maybe I am wrong. And the ladies I speak with lie to me. So, hobbyists how many free overnights did you have in 2017 so far? I think Old-T is not so honest.
Originally Posted by gentlemantoo
"Everybody has an angle."
Bob Wallace (Bing Crosby): White Christmas (1954)
As you can see, your universal truth has been around a long time. But, for some reason, your posts make me feel especially sad. I'm so sorry for you.
Not that I don't understand that the ladies are running a business, and we as their clients are their source of income, and so they will do whatever they can for a lucrative "contract." I understand that. I do it myself.
Not that I don't understand that....as "jobs"....some clients are more desireable than others because they are "easier", more "pleasant", or make money faster. I do understand that. I seek those kinds of jobs myself.
No, your posts seem calculated to accentuate a general trend on this board: mutual distrust and disrespect between provider and client. To wit: "One lady told me it was her job to get sorry old men to be infatuated with her. She makes more money and they are easy because usually just one pop."
You see, that is probably an accurate description of me. I'm in my early 60s. Not nice to look at. Not well endowed. I'm only good for for one shot in a 1 or 2 hour session. And I tend to make return visits to providers I like.
Did YOU throw in the adjective "sorry" in your description of me? Or did the provider you were speaking with use it? This is an important question, because I'm not sure if I should feel sorry for you, her, or the both of you.
Throughout life, we will encounter people who are different from us. We can choose how we react to them. I choose to accept them as different, and neither look down upon them or hold them in contempt. This, I believe, is why I am fairly happy in life.
Although I lack looks, or sexual prowess, I have a pretty good brain. This allows me to earn more money than about 91% of my fellow men. This is a trade-off I will take any time. Because of this, I am able to have sexual adventures far, far above what most people would expect by looking at me.
Do I begrudge the fact that I am an "easy job" for a provider? Why should I? My purpose for being in her presence is not to make her "work hard." It is to have a sexual encounter with a pretty woman. Also, her opinion of me is not my responsibilty. I will treat her with respect, of course, and try to be as presentable as possible....but if I do these things and she still thinks I'm a chump.....that is on her, not me, and I feel sorry for her.
This thread was started by the OP to discover how to get a good overnight session. They can be found. Old T describes it maybe as friendship. Others as chemistry. And I believe you have to have seen a provider a few times to know if that is there. But I would simply call it mutual respect.
My ATF, who the hell knows what she thinks of me when I'm gone? But during our time together, she is so patient with me, and intent on my happiness, that she is frequently able to entice pop number 2 out of me in a two hour session. And let me tell you....in the "hooker world" that would be considered hard work! To me, that at least shows respect for me as a client. In the wee hours of the morning, when we are all at our most vulnerable, can I hope their IS friendship behind her treatment of me as a client???
Yeah. You know how us sorry old men are. But when the smoke clears, it is a moot point whether she feels friendly towards me, or is simply an outstanding professional plying her trade with great skill. I am going to be happy, sated, and content. And she is going to walk away with the price of the session in her pocket.
Why be so bitter about this outcome?
It sounds like you shouldn't be offering overnights given the whole "don't chat me up" thing, or only offering overnights for long time clients. Either way, your post sounds jaded.