Happy wife = Happy Hobby??

tornado82's Avatar
I noticed that my hobbying became more frequent when my SO stopped putting out
micktoz's Avatar
I didn't say ALL you gents are lying nor did I say ALL women love sex. I implied that I think there is more fuckin' going on at home than some of you gents let on. I know my ex NEVER had to beg for sex and I didn't hold it over his head to coax "good" behaviors from him. I truly feel badly for you guys that have that going on at home. That's just sad.

On an upbeat note, I just got back from vacation and am in dire need of some great sex. Any takers Originally Posted by Kendall4U

Raising Hand!!!!!!!

Unfortunately, I won't be there till the end of next week. :-(
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Since when did my wife move to south Louisiana???? Lol, oh yeah, EVERYTHING is my fault. I quit trying to dispute the bullshit, it's a waste of my time and breath. Every night, she sleeps on the couch "it's more comfortable" and I sleep in the bedroom. Other then when WE came to Dallas last weekend, I can't remember the last time we slept in the same bed together. I mentioned marriage counseling several times BEFORE the hobby, but she said we didn't need it and SHE was happy. I thought I was selfish, Geez. Every time I bring up having sex, she's always too tired from sleeping all day, or she's not feeling well, when you get rejected so much, you just say "FUCK IT". Originally Posted by mrredcat43
MAN!!! It's crazy how similar our situations are. Yeah, I've finally given up too. No point in arguing.

It goes like this no matter what we are talking about:

Her - "This is the way I am. You should accept me for who I am. But, YOU need to change this and this and this about you."
Speaking the truth and on your upbeat note you are high on my list Laura Lynn was a awesome meeting her recently made me want to see you or both Originally Posted by sweet_k47
Well, any friend of Laura's is definitely a friend of mine

Raising Hand!!!!!!!

Unfortunately, I won't be there till the end of next week. :-( Originally Posted by micktoz
I have some time carved out just for you!
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Well, any friend of Laura's is definitely a friend of mine



I have some time carved out just for you! Originally Posted by Kendall4U
Is my life great or what!
Mr Bundy, you hit the nail on the head. You forgot to add the 'even a blow job or hand job' once in a while part would be nice. I hope you didn't marry a mother fucking Kansas bitch like I did.
Mrredcat43, you must have married a Kansas bitch also.
IS THERE SOMETHING IN THE MOTHER FUCKING WATER IN KANSAS????
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Bingo! Begging is NOT foreplay. . . Originally Posted by Iaintliein


Really??
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Mr Bundy, you hit the nail on the head. You forgot to add the 'even a blow job or hand job' once in a while part would be nice. I hope you didn't marry a mother fucking Kansas bitch like I did.
Mrredcat43, you must have married a Kansas bitch also.
IS THERE SOMETHING IN THE MOTHER FUCKING WATER IN KANSAS???? Originally Posted by Kinky Boy
She's not from Kansas, but the way she acts, she might have spent some time up there.
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Isn't it funny that the girly shows on the TV don't bring up that many woman just stop or don't put out.( its clearly all the guys fault ) Must be the cool aide LOL
Man I feel for you but WTF are you sticking around for?? Does not matter if she is hot, lack of love/sex makes it a worthless relationship, way to many women both civie and hobby to treat you better Originally Posted by sweet_k47
Can't speak for albundy (or others) but I stick because of my kids; plain and simple. I love them intensely and the very thought of living separate from them makes me nuts; can't and won't do it no matter how dead the sex life is with their mother. So, I don't rock the boat....keep the status quo.

Not to mention (should separation lead to divorce) the notion the SO remarried and my kids being parented by another man.....lord, I can't even begin to express how crazy that makes me. I'd sooner walk through a raging inferno than another man tuck my kids in at night...help them with their homework.....or dismiss / mistreat them simply because they weren't really his.

Seeing a provider is never the same as the "real thing" (everyone has their own interpretation of what that is). But THN is right about the power of a hug. Even for a few seconds, it can make you feel like you're whole again, even if it's just a temporary feeling, at that.
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Mr Bundy, you hit the nail on the head. You forgot to add the 'even a blow job or hand job' once in a while part would be nice. I hope you didn't marry a mother fucking Kansas bitch like I did.
Mrredcat43, you must have married a Kansas bitch also.
IS THERE SOMETHING IN THE MOTHER FUCKING WATER IN KANSAS???? Originally Posted by Kinky Boy
Aw yes, solid frontier stock. She just expects you to "settle" for what she doles out!

DirecTV and The Hobby: Don't be a Settler!
THN is like a Hobby Mom, always has good advice. I know when my kid turns 18, I'm kicking my wife back to Kansas so she can put somebody else through hell and misery.
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Happy wife = happy hobby

For some maybe, but so many complain about the wife, I think more experience unhappiness and it triggers desire to hobby. I could be wrong, because I can only go by what I perceive and know from experience. Not that everyone blames the wife.
I just want to Fuck and Eat Twat. Why don't wives get that? Oh yeah, there either from Kansas or spent some time there or may have traveled through that baren wasteland one time or another.
i agree with kinky boy. My wife is hot, why wont she just fucking blow me once in a while?. I would buy her whatever she wants, id save a shitload of money and id stop jerking around on here.