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I have been nice and will continue to be. Just because I'm staff, doesn't mean I am not allowed to have an opinion and engage in discussions (it's actually encouraged). Perhaps you honestly did not know that. Now you do. Originally Posted by B Three

Please clarify something.

I have not paying a lot of attention lately.

There have been female staff members for a long time but female staff members typically were limited to exercising their control in the female only areas.

Making decisions in other public forums and "instructing" members in their interactions in those forums has never been something that was done.

Well... I can't say never but when it was done the female staff member was chastised pretty quickly for meddling where she was not needed.

Has that changed?

DO you have the ability as a moderator to issue warnings or points to members for their posts in CoEd forms?

I respect that you have an opinion and are certainly allowed to voice it. You are however in this case using your position of being a MOD in some other area of the board to intimidate someone that is not agreeing with you.

Pretty uncool and a misuse of the authority granted to you if things have not changed.

Thanks for mentioning you are a staff member again. Could care less. I'm addressing the fact you are answering for the OP. You singled me out, quoted my post and answered for her. Even said you thought you were both like minded. Let me try and be crystal clear here. I'm not interested in what you have to say. I addressed the OP not you. Continuing to post as a staff member really hijacks the thread don't you think? Damn it I dropped one of my jelly donuts. See what you made me do?

Further posting on your behalf might lead someone to think you're trying to get you AD SIG LINE out there as much as possible. Heck thats damn near hijacking right there. Big girls seem to have a lot more time on their hands than spinners. I wonder why that might be?

One more thing. Thank you for your guideance. Originally Posted by BudgetGuy

He makes a point. A female staff member not tasked with moderating a forum has never, in the past, been allowed to posture as such.

She certainly is entitled to advertise as well as post her opinions but she hiding behind her "staff" affiliation is pretty uncool.

Please clarify something.

I have not paying a lot of attention lately.

There have been female staff members for a long time but female staff members typically were limited to exercising their control in the female only areas.

Making decisions in other public forums and "instructing" members in their interactions in those forums has never been something that was done.

Well... I can't say never but when it was done the female staff member was chastised pretty quickly for meddling where she was not needed.

Has that changed?

DO you have the ability as a moderator to issue warnings or points to members for their posts in CoEd forms?

I respect that you have an opinion and are certainly allowed to voice it. You are however in this case using your position of being a MOD in some other area of the board to intimidate someone that is not agreeing with you.

Pretty uncool and a misuse of the authority granted to you if things have not changed. Originally Posted by Whispers

Things have not changed completely with moderators - females are generally assigned to female areas (though this has changed a bit in National forums with female moderators). Things have not changed with Administrators - who have global authority regardless of gender. You got it right, except you probably missed that my title changed from Mod to Admin awhile back. Easy to miss and a valid question.

Back on topic - Whispers - what do you think about people who let people know they have firearms in their home or will be bringing them? Like that hottie Pistol Marks.

Do you think it is ever okay or do Firearms + Hobby = a recipe for disaster regardless?

Very well said Ava

I screen everyone well and I would never invite someone to my place if I didn't feel completely safe. That being said, things happen. This could have been avoided had I just mentioned when sending directions about my preference to be notified in advance if someone has a firearm.

If I were a gentleman, I would certainly wouldn't visit someone if there was any doubt in my mind about my safety. I've been around a LONG time and am on P411 and have never changed handles, no one has ever questioned their safety around me so all of this is just a little nuts to me.

I'm new here and was so hoping that Austin coeds would be a kinder gentler place than Houston in regards to the treatment of the women who dare post in them, not he case, lol.

I've often thought that coeds should be renamed to:

"Post a naked photo and we'll consider letting you speak here otherwise shut your whoring mouth"

Seriously, it's pretty ridiculous and the reason you don't have more ladies posting here period. It's a shame everyone can't see that.

Hobby or RW, if you bring a gun into my home without asking me, you'll be met with one of mine and asked to leave. And I promise you I can and will get to one of them in any circumstance that may call for it.
If a hobbyist has a gun and asks if he may bring it up, I will tell him no. If he insists, I will let him know I am no longer available to see him, now or in the future. If you bring it and I dont see it, did you really bring it anyways? It's one of those things that become an issue when it seen or heard because then you're left with wondering their intentions and that will only make for a very uncomfortable and unnerving session. I would not go on an outcall with my firearm, as I have an open carry license so it cannot be concealed and I'm sure that would make for an odd introduction. If I felt the need to take my firearm to an outcall, I simply wouldn't be going on said outcall.
Moral of the story is, is that you shouldn't bring any weapons with you to a date, you shouldn't go on any dates that you dont feel safe about and you shouldn't under any circumstances, threaten or hurt anyone ever. If everyone followed that last bit, we wouldnt be having this discussion because peace would consume the souls on this earth and all would be right in the world.

Xo Originally Posted by CubanAva

you say the woman or prostitute is committing illegal activities OK well what about The Man? Also another way to look at it, how would you gentlemen like it if you walked in and the woman had a gun on her dresser? In all seriousness , would it piss you off, creep u out, Make you maybe not want to see her again? And suppose the woman is registered to carry a gun? Just interested in how a gentleman would feel Originally Posted by Ambree Austin

How would I feel? I'd want to check it out? A little gun talk is good foreplay to me. Hell, after we fuck I might spring for a trip to the range for a little friendly competition. FTR, I never carry into a session. No point in giving the PoPo another charge to pile on and the license can be stripped with a quickness. it's stupid to legally carry into an illegal situation.


One of my favorite gals in H-town is a shotgun enthusiast. I love debating the benefits of Benelli's inertia driven rotating bolt over Beretta's time proven gas operation. Even if she wasn't hot AF that would give me a hard on every time.

Hi boardman...I can't believe you still have me in your sig line, rofl.




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CubanAva always has something interesting to say. Smart Cuban Cookie. Yum.

I have been nice and will continue to be. Originally Posted by B Three

You are one of the nice ones, and for that, we love..

I'm not speaking on behalf of the other guy, but majority. Me being one

LOL And I'm not as nice when I warn you. But let's talk about GUNS!

I ain't never said that, and my response majority of the time, yes ma'am, shows respect..

Now other mod's, will never, or hasn't got a sir, or ma'am.. Speak volumes..

My favorite gun is a Ruger..

This is clearly a sensitive/hot topic; firearms.

Not to further ripple the waters, but I do think certain things should be mentioned about ANYONE engaging in concealed carry.

First and foremost, a statement often made by many is that they take/pack their firearms when they are going to be in sketchy areas. This – in most instances – is ridiculous. Like we all know when something bad is going to happen? Picking and choosing when one carries is - in and of itself - -a sign of irresponsibility. A responsible gun owner will – wherever possible – avoid such situations. If you wouldn’t go somewhere WITHOUT A FIREARM, don’t go there with one. You’re only courting a potential problem. Avoidance is always going to be in your best interest. Again, wherever possible.

Irresponsibility on the part of the concealed carrier – If appropriately done, NO ONE should EVER be the wiser if one is in possession of a legal, licensed firearm. EVER. Reports of weapons falling to the ground or otherwise ‘being discovered’ is – without question – a sign of utter irresponsibility on the part of the gun owner. Before the open carry laws were enacted, such irresponsibility would be cause for one’s ‘concealed carry’ license to be revoked.

I understand that there are those who would appreciate being forewarned if any licensed, concealed carry firearm owner was planning to have his firearm upon arrival at a session. A responsible firearm owner should engage in one of the following; a) extend a courtesy and let the individual know that he is in possession of a legal, licensed firearm, b) do as he is trained and instructed and no one would EVER be the wiser if he were carrying or not, or c) secure the firearm in a locked gun vault/safe ‘he should have in his vehicle’. Not saying which one of the above one should or shouldn’t do — merely mentioning options.

I assume folks are either carrying or otherwise able to retrieve a firearm in short order. It is what it is nowadays. As to those who blatantly come on here and pose threats as to what they’d do if someone came to their home in possession of a licensed, legal firearm, be careful. Threats and guns seldom make for a good mix. Be prepared. Be vigilant. Be quiet.

Excellent points and thank you!!

I personally do not want them in my home. I'm not a threat and if you feel that you would for some reason be in danger then I ask you don't visit me.

After a provider was brutally murdered this past week by a hobbyist who had a guy at his place.. I can totally understand why many ladies are against it. There are plenty of ways to defend yourself that are less lethal. You have a right to carry on your person but dont have a right to bring it in everywhere.