The Boundaries and Margins of BBWism

Its all merely a matter of perception. I've had gents show up at the door that say they are surprised at how SMALL I am compared to what they expected and I have gents who have described me as a very small BBW. I figure if I keep my weight accurate within 10lbs and I keep my measurements accurate, there will be no issues. Biggest problem with the weight is that apparently a lot of people fudge the numbers a little, so what gents are expecting a girl to look like at 155lbs ends up being a little smaller than what they expect for the most part. Originally Posted by DecemberLove
OMG you are so NOT a BBW!
Lol-- I am a little on the heavy side. I could stand to lose 20lbs easily. So I don't take offense to it. I'm not a spinner and all the exercise and carrots in the world won't make me one either. But, I'm quite comfortable in my skin
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I say don't get hung up on weight or /looks{unless you are repulsive..lol}
JUST HAVE FUN!!!!!
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Lol-- I am a little on the heavy side. I could stand to lose 20lbs easily. So I don't take offense to it. I'm not a spinner and all the exercise and carrots in the world won't make me one either. But, I'm quite comfortable in my skin Originally Posted by DecemberLove
Taken as a whole, all of us Americans are a little on the heavy side. (The true national "average" weight, last I looked, is about 20 pounds heavier than the doctors say we should be). I'm about 40-50 pounds heavier than my doc says I should be, but when I tell people I'm overweight most people say, "No!" (and they certainly sound sincere about it). Nice to know I at least carry the extra weight well.

It's refreshing to see a lady who's comfortable with her weight; I think most of the women I know are constantly trying to lose a few pounds (Not That There's Anything Wrong With That).

Cheers,

bcg
Thinking about adding Chattanooga to your itinerary this summer?

Cheers,

bcg Originally Posted by bluffcityguy
Dallas has visited Chattanooga in the past,but it was not for me.LOL.
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