Too Sexy for the RW??

If all of that is RW stuff...I live in a very sheltered RW existence. Originally Posted by Rudyard K

That's the beauty of the RW....everybody has a different one....

I cant imagine a man having an issue with how well you perform, only if he happens to be insecure and in that case you may want to keep on looking, if you are not going to to mention your past you could simply say that you were in a long relationship and therefore did alot of experimenting to keep it fresh.

I cant imagine a man having an issue with how well you perform, only if he happens to be insecure and in that case you may want to keep on looking, if you are not going to to mention your past you could simply say that you were in a long relationship and therefore did alot of experimenting to keep it fresh. Originally Posted by dallasdani

I would caution against creating a LT ex-SO because you can't uncreate him. Guys (and gals) are curious about somebody you were with for a long time (natural competitiveness/jealousy). These were the "special ones" -- they really don't care about the ones you casually dated for a little while. Sure you can invent "Bob" and continue the ruse but why bother. Keeping track of the truth is tough enough

Speaking only from my own experience, early on, beyond "Divorced or Never Married?" and "Kids?" there is little if any discussion of prior SOs or lovers. It is pretty much taken for granted that by the time you've reached your late 20's that you've dated around a little bit & probably had multiple sexual partners. In fact I think digging for details about sexual history is viewed is a little taboo.

One thing you (Nicole) may want to give some thought to is your life story. Where did you go to school? Where are you from? Where did you live? What kind of work do you do? These topics seem to be less taboo and the kinds of things potential mates might talk about over dinner or drinks.

To echo alt, just say you have dated for the past ten years and that is was ummm, very rewarding, or something to the effect. I don't think you'll have any issues with dating gentlemen out there. I just wish I were lucky enough to be one (either before or after RW).

So like the others have said, good luck when you "transition." You know you will always be welcomed back here in the "peanut gallery."

I think at some point you will have to 'come clean' but by that time you will know he is the one and he can handle your past.

I wouldn't worry about having mad skillz, he'll appreciate that he doesn't have to teach you how to deepthroat or stop draggin your teeth or that thing you do with your finger or .................

Whatever you do, do not tell him a lie..............it is more difficult to remember the details of a lie than the truth.

That is why everyone gets caught. The person hearing the story hears the truth. The person telling the story hears a lie.

When the story changes in minute detail, the person who heard the truth notices it immediately.

I always found the truth is best.

When you are asked what you used to do, skip the hooker part.

Then, when he sees how good you are in the sack say in a demure way "I was a bit of a whore when I was younger....weren't we all"

If all of that is RW stuff...I live in a very sheltered RW existence. Originally Posted by Rudyard K

No truer words have ever before been written!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Originally Posted by WTF

So what are you driving at by bumping this two month old thread?

So what are you driving at by bumping this two month old thread? Originally Posted by Ansley

Atlcomedy linked it in another thread and I could not help myself!

RK = RW is kinda funny! No offense RK!

never you mind

hint: look at the italicized word

hint: look at the italicized word Originally Posted by atlcomedy

Hint....look at the title of my quote!



Not this one but the first one.

Don't over thinck it. Just go with the flow.

Hint....look at the title of my quote!



Not this one but the first one. Originally Posted by WTF