Compliments vs Symbolism

I'm sorry, what is a DFM again?

But wait?...I just had an idea? Have you tried this place?

http://www.gay.com/ Originally Posted by Rudyard K

De Facto Mods. It refers to a certain cabal of those on this board that, even though not official mods, try and control it content-wise as if they were.

And RK, this is the second time you've referred me to that site (or is it the third?). It must be a favorite of yours.

De Facto Mods. It refers to a certain cabal of those on this board that, even though not official mods, try and control it content-wise as if they were.

. Originally Posted by charlestudor2005

Shouldn't people that post drive the content here?

And RK, this is the second time you've referred me to that site (or is it the third?). It must be a favorite of yours. Originally Posted by charlestudor2005

I think he gets 30 cents for all his new referrals...

Oh boy! A Cabal. What fun!

De Facto Mods. It refers to a certain cabal of those on this board that, even though not official mods, try and control it content-wise as if they were. Originally Posted by charlestudor2005

Geez, I think I am about to get fired for the first time. Cause if my job is to control the content...even I have to admit a lack of success.

I think he gets 30 cents for all his new referrals... Originally Posted by atlcomedy

In view of my impending dismissal, that 30 cents might come in handy. Chucky, be sure and mention my name in the referral section.

No matter what the fee is, I always include an extra $40-$50 right in the envelope.

That's not a ton of money. It isn't intended to be. Instead, it's intended to send a message: "I appreciate what you are doing."

When you do stuff like that, Charles, it can make a positive difference.

Little things add up.

RK, PJ, might be the only time we are accused of being in the same organization lol

No matter what the fee is, I always include an extra $40-$50 right in the envelope.

That's not a ton of money. It isn't intended to be. Instead, it's intended to send a message: "I appreciate what you are doing."

When you do stuff like that, Charles, it can make a positive difference.

Little things add up. Originally Posted by Laurentius

Agreed; I can't remember ever adding to the fee. What I try is to bring a small gift that I feel a lady may like after looking at her posts and website. It takes some doing sometimes but is always worth the time spent in doing the research. Sometimes it has been a book, other times a painting or a print, a small donation to a favorite charity. Sure, the fee gets me in the door but these little things are what helps make a session.

I always wanted to be a member of a cabal.

Any way I can join?

Little things add up. Originally Posted by Laurentius

I think you might have something there, L. That might be to problem.

RK, PJ, might be the only time we are accused of being in the same organization lol Originally Posted by discreetgent

Well, we all like nekkid women too. See, reaching across the aisle is just in my nature.

I always wanted to be a member of a cabal.

Any way I can join? Originally Posted by CaptainMidnight

Sure, come on in.

There are robes and daggers though. I hope you're not squeamish. Also no hugging the master. Unless your female.

There is nothing wrong with coming to the conclusion that this business is just not for you . I do think that it is good to experiment, and play around with different types of rates, and services just to see if you can find where your niche is in all of this ,but if you feel uncomfortable with the situation then it can make it difficult for the woman you are with to offer you a positive experience.

We do respond a great deal to the emotions of our clients. If I meet someone who is unable to trust me I know that it does affect my ability to offer him my best .I try to be as open , and trusting as I can be with the people that I meet , and I have found that most of the time the men I see do the same.This makes the time far more memorable if you have two happy idiots instead of one lol.

Overall I think you are a good person who may have a few issues with what you are doing. I hope if you do decide to continue seeing escorts that you are able to find a way to relax, and enjoy yourself. Originally Posted by Becky

On a compliment thread, let me compliment you on having such class! Charlie, I betcha ya you'd have a good time with this one.

Hey Lucy Van Pelt (Becky)hows that for charlie brownie points?

De Facto Mods. It refers to a certain cabal of those on this board that, even though not official mods, try and control it content-wise as if they were.

And RK, this is the second time you've referred me to that site (or is it the third?). It must be a favorite of yours. Originally Posted by charlestudor2005

Geez Lord T; I'm a real mod and I can't control anything around here. Much less content.

Charlie, I betcha ya you'd have a good time with this one. Originally Posted by WTF

I gotta agree. Though I don't think I've seen any of the ladies in this thread; their clear conveyance of their philosophy and character overall would indicate that any of them would be really fantastic.

And then Charles would be giving LOTS of compliments!

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