I call BS on this statement. How can you not??? Especially with the range of guys you get?
Originally Posted by charlestudor2005
Hmmm......I just don't and can't. I use the exact thing you think prevents me from doing what I do. The range of guys you mention are all individual unique beings, who think, feel, react and even perform differently. I'm not quite sure how to explain it to you, but I'll try. Please ask further questions if I don't get my point across.
When I set an appointment with you....it really is you I am concentrating on. The first time we meet, I obviously have no clue what ya look like before hand, in most cases. I don't hope you look like Mr X, or hope you flick your tongue like Mr Y, or have a wonderful penis like Mr Z. I do my research and try to find out as much about you as I can and have time to. I don't ask another lady about performance when requesting a reference. Others have asked me, but I'm rarely inclined to share anything other than stats and personality traits I notice about a gent, unless there are things that he did or tried that made me uncomfortable and I think might also make her feel so. She needs to know....right?
I'm not going to say that some men are not better lovers than others are for me, because of course that would be untrue. I just don't sit around and compare the acts we experienced together with what I experience with others. Mr X, Mr Y and you may all have different likes, dislikes and approaches, but that doesn't mean I won't enjoy each of those encounters thoroughly nor does it mean I wished you performed the tongue flick thingy that Mr Y does...LOL I either enjoy our experience together, as yes, I have enjoyed quite a few previous experiences with others and would see them again, or I don't enjoy it as much as I thought or hoped I would. The latter has been pretty rare for me. I'm either lucky that way, or it's because I am low volume, and I actually do screen and research as much as I can if and when possible.
Will I judge you as a lover for myself because ya did or didn't have the "magic touch" when it came to our encounter, I'll just say, if I didn't enjoy our encounter at some point than I would be surprised and that would be a rare thing for me! Will I judge you as a lover for me because you didn't flick your tongue the way I enjoyed it when Mr Y did it or looked as good as Mr X.? Nope. The way Mr Y flicks his tongue is NOT the only enjoyable act to be encountered. You may do something else that rocks my world in other ways. You are you, I am me, and our experience together will be unique. We either have chemistry between us that works and we found our way around each others' bodies and desires in an orgasmic and hopefully passionate manner, or we didn't.
Should I compare every encounter with the best? the worst? If I did that, I'm not sure I could continue doing this. I want the encounter to be what you want it to be and hopefully you will be comfortable enough with yourself and with me, which almost always ensures a really good, if not a great time for both of us. It's one of the really good reasons a lot of the ladies who are good at what we do, prefer the longer visits. That extra time can make a huge difference in the experience and often has for me.
I hope that made sense and I don't think I was BSing anyone, Charles. Not on purpose, anyway. If I were on the other end of this biz, I might look at it differently.
The point is, we are all different and most have something pretty awesome to offer. This is how I feel and how I approach my encounters. If it appears I compare the gents to one another concerning performance, then I am not seeing it. If ya think I am still wrong about that statement, please make a better argument than simply calling BS and stating the very reason for being able to do what I do, as being the reason that should keep me from being able to do it. LOL
.....I really like this answer. 
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