Is there such a thing as too much?

Many layers for sure.

Too hard to explain and I really don't think you gentlemen will ever understand, much less believe an explanation...lol..but I will try.

As much as I love being able to make the money I do from the hobby... I have finally come to a place in my hobby career that I can not only play smart.. but I can play fun. Meaning.. I only see friends that I know I enjoy and will walk away being happy about our time together.

That being said, if I see "Eduardo" today and I make 2000.00 for the session and that is my "quota" for the week, and "Eduardo" and I had a great time, then I am highly motivated to keep on enjoying my week...fucking my friends and earning more money. "Eduardo" not only made me feel sexy...he made me smile and treated me like a human, boosted my self- esteem and gave me the desire to keep on truckin'. lol

If "Eduardo" and I have a not so great time.. or I feel like I am physically or emotionally worn ...then I will take some time off.

The sexier I feel.. the more I want to fuck.

Does that make sense? Originally Posted by Reese Foster

Absolutely that makes sense Reese

I have five bottles unopened now, but this topic won't make me pop one open. Originally Posted by C@r@m3lTWIX

5 whole unopened bottles? Didn't realize we were dealing with a high roller here - you must have a huge wine cellar to store such a collection.

Thank you for ur advise...
i think I know the limit I need to be.. Of course I cross that limit before and cannot guarantee I will never cross again. I have been hurt before by provider but that was mutual separation. Dangerous part about me is I just go with the flow and just let it be... If I think abt where she been and limit my feeling during session, I don't think I will enjoy much.... If I just look for sex, I would just go find street walker or bp... not high end providers... If provider, I see is not same,, I just don't see her again...I usually keep in contact with my ATF,,and I enjoy and hope she does too...during the session, I pay her so I own her,, just like my employer owns me during my work hours...but after the session we are good friend or companion...wtever happens, I am just let it be... Originally Posted by eng

Uhhhhh that statement about ownership just gave me the bad chills....I hope you didn't mean to say that!! Yowza !!! 😧😧😧

Uhhhhh that statement about ownership just gave me the bad chills....I hope you didn't mean to say that!! Yowza !!! 😧😧😧 Originally Posted by Sophia Banks

I believe he meant during the appointment she must work for him. Is there a nicer way to put it?

Being last in line the same day is ultra hot - I don't just like having sex, I like having sex with a slut. Originally Posted by TheEccie214

Good for you! :-) I knew someone who liked it last, said he liked to feel another man's cum in the woman, or maybe even more than one man's. Nothing wrong with anyone's desires, as long as all are consenting.

All of the ladies response's are very well thought out and written. Not hard AT ALL to understand the emotional ad physical toll / aspect of the hobby.

After a while, I haven't had the interest to chase after civilians any more. I prefer escorts, providers, sluts, whatever one might refer to them. I love paying for sex. I love the nature of the transaction. Meeting a woman whom you have researched, fantasized about, walking in to her place, knowing you will be fucking her in a few minutes... Aaaahhhhh !

The ' person ' aspect of it is great too, though not always. You know what I mean. It is wonderful to find the chemistry with a provider. Actually, its perfect. One gets to share the intimacy of a person you can care for ( within the IOP ), make her cum, give her pleasure, then get some of your own. " Here, let me take care of that for you ". Mmmmm... All the discovery without the drama, to a large extent. Speaking honestly with her about what you like, what you want, and then she does it. And getting into her head to uncover her desires.

Everyone is a new adventure. For those ladies I have seen, within the context of this thread, you know what I am speaking to. Sometimes I love to play " Who is the bigger slut ? "

Love you women who sell their time and pussy to us. Really, I do !

Uhhhhh that statement about ownership just gave me the bad chills....I hope you didn't mean to say that!! Yowza !!! 😧😧😧 Originally Posted by Sophia Banks

As much as I hate to think someone owned me.. It is the truth... During the paid session, clients do own provider (of course with limitation). This is no different than my employer own me during my work hour. If I don't like something, I just quit... Just like if provider don't like something give back money and walk away.
Granted,, I usually let provider do wtever they wish and I tell them up front, it is their show. BUT I still pay them and she is mine during the session... Don't know how to say it nicer way. (I am ready to get hammered/attack for this comment,,, lol)

5 whole unopened bottles? Didn't realize we were dealing with a high roller here - you must have a huge wine cellar to store such a collection. Originally Posted by TheEccie214

Not at all sir; if that was true I'da been here AND P411 a loooong time ago! Can you say "Goody Goody"? LOL

..."get defensive" when I'm getting questioned on "my question", when those same folks aren't answering a question I didn't actually ASK? Of course I'm gonna defend myself when possible! That's what's great about this kind of forum. And lookee there, in the end, you responded with something thoughtful on the subject after all........I guess I have to keep pointing out that I didn't ask for numbers, because again, to me that's LAME. The affect the numbers can have, however, isn't necessarily, and responses like the ones from Reese, Samantha and NOW you indicate that.

.....and yes, I definitely like wine, especially reds. I have five bottles unopened now, but this topic won't make me pop one open. I may think about you before my next "appointment", bring her one and tell her she can thank you LOL. As long as she doesn't throw it at my glass house, I'll be good. (Ha!)



Ditto!!!!! Excellent point. I've definitely had the sense I've been one of these "followers". I shouldn't have any idea of how many people have been seen based on the performance I get from a provider, should I?

And the thing is, this type of performance MAY NOT always be because of NUMBERS; sometimes its just following the wrong one.

There's real life going on in the midst of all this debauchery....... Originally Posted by C@r@m3lTWIX

I apologize if I tweaked your intent in any manner. I read and perceived the question as many did. I can see that you may not understand how what you thought was an innocent question/interesting topic, and that you just had to acquire answers for, would cause another to call you on it. However, now ya know, that not everything about us is necessarily up for discussion or anyone's business, just as is any other community. I don't stand around in a group of folks talking about the amount of money each makes, or how many folks each either fantasized about or had sex with. It's not my biz and there are lotsa other things I find fascinating that totally trump those. But hey, that's just me I suppose. This may not be your real life, but my biz, affects my real life, so if folks wouldn't mind, please know.....I got this, and there's no need for anyone else to mind my biz. (Not a jab, just reaffirming) I expose more than enough and so does every other lady here, not to mention what the gents share upfront or ROS about us. K?


Love me a good red wine and am always thrilled when a gent brings such a gift. Enjoy! I always do!

Woo...let me wipe this sweat off my face....

Love all your replies. You seem to have a good head on your shoulders about this hobby. Originally Posted by Richardtx

Thank you. I've been around a while.

Being last in line the same day is ultra hot - I don't just like having sex, I like having sex with a slut.



You are at the top of the short list of gals here that makes every one of your posts worth reading - you're very real and all class. Originally Posted by TheEccie214

I own my slutiness.

Thank you very much.

Absolutely that makes sense Reese Originally Posted by TexasChiliDog

Glad that it made sense. Sometimes it is tough to put what I want to say in words.