I think Coventricity is saying something important.
You cannot see yourself as a fungible commodity product that is interchangeable at a given rate with any other woman. I don't care how physically beautiful a woman is, there is always someone out there with an edge. Especially given that men have various preferences -- some of which are not predictable like hair color and stuff -- you can't rely strictly on the physical.
The key is to de-commoditize. That is, make yourself -- the whole Ashden experience -- special, unique and something that can be obtained nowhere else at any price.
And for that ... the highlight is really your personality. Personality, attitude, approach, etc. EASILY add several points to attractiveness.
Just take a look at pictures of Mae West. She wasn't particularly physically pretty, especially sans makeup. But she was irresistible to men -- and it was all in the attitude. That attitude transformed her from plain jane to sex goddess in the eyes of men in her presence.
So your pictures are pretty. Certainly, there is *no* reason for you to feel even slightly insecure about your appearance. Pretty danged hot in my book! And coventricity says you have a great personality.
Combine those two ... you are going to do quite well!
The key really is to feel sexy. If you feel sexy, it comes through in everything and guys will just dig you! Originally Posted by Laurentius
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