The Scary Black Man (Yeah . . . this post again, but with a twist)

My nature? Lol! Again with the subtext and implications. Again implying and hiding beneath words (you're not as clever as you think). I know your type. Always hiding beneath something. I was right the first time. You sir, are indeed a coward.

Reeltalk,
I'm sorry if I missed your point! It's sad that there are alot of ignorant folks, but it is what it is.....you cannot change a person's view on this matter! Education is the key!

BTW, 2 wrongs don't make a right, so let's be nice to each other.......

"Respectful and concise"? Lol! This post gets more hilarious with each entry. It's so interesting how reposted "show ur tits pics", "what's your favorite position", "who luvs daty", etc., etc., etc., gets none of your griping. Maybe this particular NBA post isn't a "new twist" - I will concede that (only because you'd disagree, even if I pointed it out). But you are the typical defender of "white right". Yeah I said it. Any honest reader here can plainly see (and Stevie Wonder) that delimex007 started with the insults. Your grasp of the language can not hide your intent, nor his.

Also interesting is how you claim to be concerned about provider safety. So just how many post/threads in support of BBBJ's, GFE, and PSE have you spoken out against? Yeah . . . just like I thought.

Did I attack you? NO, because you do bring up a very valuable point and you handled yourself with class until the thread turned south! You know, it's like I tell my son, "good guys come out on top"......in other words.....no matter how mad you get, let the others make asses of themselves! And that suggestion goes to everyone!

Here's your new twist that I bet has not been discussed before - the big fat ass pink elephant in the chat room that you two guys keep dancing around. I am so sick (ad nauseam, as you say), of certain white guys posting HIV stats & info, albeit factual to a degree, in an effort to "educate" providers in their client choices. The problem I have with this is the intent of "some", which may be misleading enough to cause a provider to drop her guard - with non-blacks. Not saying your intent is that they drop their guard, but I am saying or better yet asking - WTF is your intent? Provider safety? Then post links that refer to safer sex, and HIV prevention for all.

We are ALL at risk. Yes in 2006, AA's had the highest incidence of HIV. But in the last four years, while HIV has become a bit more stabilized among blacks, it has increased among white Americans. Maybe because too many whites want to believe *they are only at risk if they have sexual encounters with AA's. If any of the two of you nincompoops had sincere intentions (or agendas), you would have clearly understood that this post is more about all of our safety - and less about another black man complaining about being rejected.

Well should there be a thread about hobbyists that will not see heavy ladies, older ladies, ugly ladies. There's many of us that WILL NOT see a provider that does CBJ's, get the picture?
Many of us prefer young spinners and only see the 30+ ladies that have a solid reputation, period.
I'd rather find out ahead of time that the lady in question will not see my type, than pay my hard earnd $$$ for a sh!tty session.
Seems like we forget that they're actual human beings and guess what, some do click with us? I see at least four ladies on a regular basis that it seems to be a treat for bith if us when we do get together.
Ever since High School, I never want to be around someone that doesn't like my type.
Anyway we can finally let this topic rest?
Go out there and get laid guys.

My nature? Lol! Again with the subtext and implications. Again implying and hiding beneath words (you're not as clever as you think). I know your type. Always hiding beneath something. I was right the first time. You sir, are indeed a coward. Originally Posted by Reeltalk

I am a coward and you are the bravest creature on earth. LOL !! Boy, you crack me up. You cry and complain about the NBA policy and I am a coward . Sheesh !!
Seeing someone BCD is a personal preference,not a racial issue. Is it that complicated to understand or grasp?? Well, maybe it is.. Guess, common sense is not common !!

Delimex, how many times has a provider declined to see you based on your physical appearance? Personally, I've never had it happen, which tells me I don't really understand completely where a black guy complaining about the prevalence of an NBA policy is coming from. The topic may have been discussed many times before, but that doesn't make it any less personal for those affected by it.

And reeltalk, I think you're aiming your cannon in the wrong direction going after Lana. I didn't see anything in her posts that was anything other than level headed and honest.

Delimex, how many times has a provider declined to see you based on your physical appearance? Personally, I've never had it happen, which tells me I don't really understand completely where a black guy complaining about the prevalence of an NBA policy is coming from. The topic may have been discussed many times before, but that doesn't make it any less personal for those affected by it.

And reeltalk, I think you're aiming your cannon in the wrong direction going after Lana. I didn't see anything in her posts that was anything other than level headed and honest. Originally Posted by TheBizzer

Different issue if the provider does not state in her ad about her NBA policy . And when you show up at the door ,if she declines to see me b'cos of my race -then I will be peeved. But if it is stated up front in her ad that she does not want to see a particular race , it's her choice. Simple as that. Her body - her choice. Who are we to force it upon her to see someone she does not want to see.

Also ,more commonly providers say they dont want to see men less than 35 yrs old -- Well, is that not discriminatory then. Do you see the same outrage in that case ?? no . Why ? b'cos it's the provider's choice and her comfort zone. Simple as that. Not trying to be argumentative or anything like that- but just trying to be rational. US is a free country and anyone can see anyone he/she likes and not see anyone they dont like. Freedom of choice - as far as I am concerned.

@Bizz - I should have clarified after Lana's post. I never meant anything disparaging towards her, and never felt she was attacking me in any way.

@Lana - My response was actually directed at CM's comment - "Future posts on this should be respectful and concise." My apologies Lana if I came across that way. I agree completely with Bizz that you been quite level headed and honest - a voice of reason.

@Cookie Man - I really do appreciate the last link. http://www.womenshealth.gov/minority...erican/hiv.cfm, good info.

"Respectful and concise"? Lol! This post gets more hilarious with each entry. It's so interesting how reposted "show ur tits pics", "what's your favorite position", "who luvs daty", etc., etc., etc., gets none of your griping. Maybe this particular NBA post isn't a "new twist" - I will concede that (only because you'd disagree, even if I pointed it out). But you are the typical defender of "white right". Yeah I said it. Any honest reader here can plainly see (and Stevie Wonder) that delimex007 started with the insults. Your grasp of the language can not hide your intent, nor his.

Also interesting is how you claim to be concerned about provider safety. So just how many post/threads in support of BBBJ's, GFE, and PSE have you spoken out against? Yeah . . . just like I thought. Originally Posted by Reeltalk

This is a quick post in case this thread gets closed before I get home...lol.

Reel you don't know me. Between ASPD and ECCIE, I think I've posted on every subject you mentioned over the last nine years. Your interpretation is groundless. Go back and search through several hundred posts. Defender of the "white right"...lol. I am a defender of the providers to see who they wish to see. Anything else you imagine is just that..your imagination.

Your argument here has now been reduced to that of a Troll with your accusations....no doubt your intention all along. That's not a new twist. Ain't that right Stevie Wonder...lol.

Peace to all and have fun.

As usual, this post has gotten ridiculous. Hell, I even got a PM with an historical dissertation (albeit slanted) about the North Atlantic Slave Trade.

Plain and simple, in real life, where laws abide, discrimination is not only wrong and unjust, it's illegal. Does it still happen? Sure. But it's a better world today than 50 years ago in that regard. Changing social mores takes eons of time and it's a work in progress.

When it's an individuals choice in a partner, its their prerogative....hobby or real life. Food for thought..if an AA male chooses not to date black women, is he a bigot?

This has gone from "Why do some Providers have a NBA policy". to a discussion on Aids. It has gotten to the insult point and I don't think that there is anything else to be learned from this thread. Therefore, I am closing it.

Chipper