Preacher Man Dont Call Me!

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Why is it any more appropriate for you to judge the counselor/preacher for fucking around than it is for him to judge you for being a provider/whore? Seems like each one is just the other side of the same transaction, none any more or less ethical or unethical than the other. Yes, the customer in this case may (or may not) be in a bit more of a hypocrite, but I suspect that if you investigated, many of your clients aren't exactly rushing out to tell their family, friends. or employer about seeing you. Likewise, many providers aren't rushing out to advertise to friends, family, landlords, divorce courts, etc. what they do for a living. In short, you and they are all in the same boat. People who live in glass houses shouldn't throw stones. Originally Posted by TexTushHog

The PREACHER is held to a higher standard! I'm really not sure what standard you would hold the providers you see TTH?

I'll give an example. Instead of pussy we will change it to drinking. If I have 5-6 drinks and decide to jump on a plan to fly off to Las Vegas to meet up with a couple of providers, is it OK for the pilot to have 5-6 drinks also. NO! He is head to another standard. And while driving to the airport if I get in an accident, I sure as hell what the doctor at the ER to be totally focused and not 5-6 drinks under HIS or HER belt!

Just saying! Not throwing stones, just the way I see it!

PS: When I had my vasectomy I made dam sure that guy was sober! LOL

First and foremost, I am not a whore. Never have been and never will be. I do not offer FS, and for those who do I do not judge them. They are strong women, and I only wish I had it(strength) in me to deal with what they do daily. Also, I primarily only have sex in a relationship. That word is a very degrading and ugly word to use to describe providers.

Second, there is something wrong with ANYONE, male or female, who portrays themselves in the public eye as Greater or Holier than thou then turn around and live this lifestyle, using other peoples donations to do so. He lives off the church. He runs a Christian school. He was busted trying to hook up with what he thought was a barely legal escort. Pedophile tendency? Who knows.

Throwing stones, yeh so what. He opened himself up for this the minute he chose to engage in this behavior, and as someone stated, he will then go to Church on Sunday. Hypocrit. He was in town at a Church conference. Seriously! I do not want to touch him. In my opinion he is pretty low. I guess this feeling is because I was raised in Church and feel like they are held to higher standards, and its very disappointing to me to know that people who are in this position would abuse it, and mislead others.

I dont lie to myself, I know what I am into, but I am not in a moral and religious position in a church, school, or community leader that effects other lives. I have a job that I work and this is on the side. and in all actuality, what I do isnt anything really to hide. I just prefer to keep it private, as this is a very private part of me. Its my fantasy as well, being raised in such a sheltered lil town, its just thrilling.

I once had a couple contact me looking for someone to do a 3some with them. They sent over a photo, and I recognized them from my exhusbands family's church, they were friends of his parents. I wanted to puke. They taught Sunday school and were into many community activities. Its info I would rather not have. This is part of the hobby I dont like, knowing the dirty parts of peoples lives. I sometimes wish I didnt. As it makes me wonder what the man who Baptized me was capable of, and that would be heartbreaking.

I guess Im one of the people who although I am in this, I still have my morals in tact, and my convictions are still within me. Not a bad thing to have, it keeps me grounded.

TTH,

The difference is the blatant hypocrisy of a so-called man of the cloth consorting with the same prostitutes he reviles from the pulpit compared to the prostitute quietly plying her trade without making moral judgments. (Wow, that's a long sentence).

The professionally religious who play a double game are true whores. They are required by their flocks to condemn sin in order to keep their preaching gigs, but they secretly fornicate without conscience or remorse. Most of our lady friends are not so morally compromised; they know we all are sinners and try to provide comfort to us in 60 minute blocks of time.

So you can see that proviiders don't live in glass houses.

TTH,

The difference is the blatant hypocrisy of a so-called man of the cloth consorting with the same prostitutes he reviles from the pulpit compared to the prostitute quietly plying her trade without making moral judgments. (Wow, that's a long sentence).

The professionally religious who play a double game are true whores. They are required by their flocks to condemn sin in order to keep their preaching gigs, but they secretly fornicate without conscience or remorse. Most of our lady friends are not so morally compromised; they know we all are sinners and try to provide comfort to us in 60 minute blocks of time.

So you can see that proviiders don't live in glass houses. Originally Posted by awl4knot

Silver tongued devil! LOL

Thank YOU AWL! And I admit, I am morally compromised. Some days I wake up and wonder how hot hell is going to be. haha. Wonder how long it would take for me to piss the Devil off and he bans me lol. Many ladies I talk to know that about me, and they also feel as if what I do is not the same or morally wrong, but I still do, so its a "me" issue based on how I was raised. We are who we are, however I do not judge others for what they do, hell Im a part of it too and think highly of so many ladies and men. made some true blue friends.


But as you stated, as a man of religion, he is held to a higher standard. Me, Im just a normal lost soul lol

Thank YOU AWL! Originally Posted by CiaoBitchezz!

The guys with the big words always get the hot chicks!

Earlier, I wrote "live and let live without outing anyone" and I gave a +1 to not throwing stones.

The reason I did that is because of Matthew 7:1-2

"Do not judge so that you won't be judged. For with the judgment you use, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you." HCSB

Don't you know that religion and politics are topics guaranteed to start an argument, and what does it benefit any of us?

... compared to the prostitute quietly plying her trade without making moral judgments. Originally Posted by awl4knot

This whole thread has been filled with judgments.

...but they secretly fornicate without conscience or remorse. Originally Posted by awl4knot

Do you really know for sure that they have no conscience or remorse?

Isn't that a judgment?

I would never presume to know what is in a person's heart because I don't personally possess omniscience.

So, live and let live without outing anyone and without casting stones.

Again, JMHO.

Matthew 7-17: Likewise every good tree bears good fruit, but a bad tree bears bad fruit.

It is what it is my friend!

1 Cor 2:15 (KJV) But he that is spiritual judgeth all things...

Mat 7:1 (KJV) "Judge not, that ye be not judged..."
F.F. Bruce: "Judgment is an ambiguous word, in Greek as in English: it may mean sitting in judgment on people (or even condemning them), or it may mean exercising a proper discrimination. In the former sense judgment is depreciated; in the latter sense it is recommended."
NIV Study Notes: The Christian is not to judge hypocritically or self-righteously, as can be seen from the context. [But] Scripture repeatedly exhorts believers to evaluate carefully and choose between good and bad people and things. The Christian is to "test everything":
1 Thes 5:21 (Phi) "By all means use your judgment, and hold on to whatever is good."
A.W. Tozer: "Among the gifts of the Spirit scarcely one is of greater practical usefulness than the gift of discernment. This gift should be highly valued and frankly sought as being almost indispensable in these critical times. This gift will enable us to distinguish the chaff from the wheat and to divide the manifestations of the flesh from the operations of the Spirit."
For clarity, let's use the word discern for the judgment that God encourages, and criticize for inappropriate judgments. By context, try to identify whether the word judgment, when used in Scripture, means discernment or criticism.

As far as remorse, when I spoke with him and told him what I knew, he had a tone in his voice that came across as if he didnt give a shit. Thats what is disgusting to me. Uggh, I really dont know what else I can say to explain how it made me feel. I guess parts of me are still that lil Southern Baptist girl who wishes the world were perfect, and all men were Honorable. I think Im just disappointed. Religion and Church were always a happy place and a good place for me. We all lead astray at times. We all sin.

As far as remorse, when I spoke with him and told him what I knew, he had a tone in his voice that came across as if he didnt give a shit. Thats what is disgusting to me. Uggh, I really dont know what else I can say to explain how it made me feel. I guess parts of me are still that lil Southern Baptist girl who wishes the world were perfect, and all men were Honorable. I think Im just disappointed. Religion and Church were always a happy place and a good place for me. We all lead astray at times. We all sin. Originally Posted by CiaoBitchezz!

Every one except the mods! LOL

It is what it is my friend! Originally Posted by Still Looking

Yes it is, just as this thread is what it is.

(and I hope we don't now get into what the meaning of "is" is since that was beyond a prior President's comprehension...)

We all lead astray at times. We all sin. Originally Posted by CiaoBitchezz!

Exactly !!

Yes it is, just as this thread is what it is. Originally Posted by ufriend2912

Amen!

Why is it any more appropriate for you to judge the counselor/preacher for fucking around than it is for him to judge you for being a provider/whore? Originally Posted by TexTushHog

What the fuck is up with you men and that word? Do you know what a whore is? A whore is a Pig. Why would you call a human being such? I mean -- the nerve of some of you men. Disgusting.

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