What can a provider or hobbyist say to turn you on or off?

So if the guy said "I want to CIM" or "I want to COF" you would have been cool with it but since he chose to use the word "finish" you were grossed out? Am I reading that correctly? Finish and cum mean the exact same thing. The former just happens to be a PG version of cum that can be said on regular television. If anything, the guy deserves a pat on the head and a quarter for being too shy to say that he wants to dump a load in your fucking mouth. Originally Posted by broes

In your face is an insult. When someone gets "in your face". The possibility of an unplesant encounter. Slam dunk on you and yell "In your face". In your face is usually followed by the words "Mother Fucker". IMHO is is disrepectful to say in your face.

I hit a girl once in my life. It was a girl that I took out one time when I was in school. She was cute but she didn't click with me and had no interest in seeing her again. I ran into her at a party a week later. She was drunk and extremely belligerent. I didn't understand because I had been nice. She tried to slap me and I grabbed that hand but she tried with the other which I grabbed. I had to pull her to my side because she tried to knee me. When that didn't work, she spit in my face. I didn't even think before I punched her. Her father wanted an explanation the next day (it closed her eye). When I explained what happened he just lowered his head and walked away.

Had this said to me very recently, " will you lick the sweat off of my forehead?" Wtf? Hell no! Not the only thing that turned me off about the session, but damn!

After DATY and she said I love to taste my "Pussy On Your Lips."

She said. No sir, even though we are south of the mason-dixon,
I still don't take confederate money.

Turn on: When she says anything with my Vick/balls in her mouth!

Turn off: "I farted."

Turn ons:

"I really like it when you do that."

"I can do blow you better than anyone has ever blown you, and I'm going to prove it."

"Yes, I'll see you"

Turn offs:

"Your reference says she does not remember you."

When the lady does not tell the truth.

Examples of not telling the truth.

Setting up the appointment "Yes I can Deep throat." At the appt "I don't take it very deep because I don't like to gag."

"We can discuss it at the session." This means no or serious up charge.

After DATY and she said I love to taste my "Pussy On Your Lips." Originally Posted by Redsan

That saying is better when I woman says it back to another woman. Mmmmm......Tasty

After DATY and she said I love to taste my "Pussy On Your Lips." Originally Posted by Redsan

You call that a turn off; me, an absolute turn on and we do it again.

Turn on - speaking to me by using my name
Turn off - calling me "sweetie" or "hun"

Turn on - following my lead in intensity of activity and going with the flow (improvising)
Turn off - following a script mechanically

Turn on - a lady who takes care of her body and her mind
Turn off - a lady who neglects her body and her mind

That saying is better when I woman says it back to another woman. Mmmmm......Tasty Originally Posted by Tara Evans

That is an absolute turn on without question...oh Tara you tease us so

That is an absolute turn on without question...oh Tara you tease us so Originally Posted by goofy11

OH Goofy but its so fun......... But do love Pussy juice

On: yes
Off: no

+1 I strive to actually want to be seen again, even if by choice i choose not to go back. Therefore I go All out to make sure she enjoys the session just as much as I do!
I dont find degradation sexy or fun at all and I agree it comes from porn which i'm not a major fan of because for the most part it lacks passion and intimacy......however, it is pretty cool when that release is more powerful than you expected and shoots up her stomach almost hitting her face or in doggie and it almost gets in her hair and you both are shocked and giggle about it lol.......

+1 imo COF and CIH is an act of degradation. To which, I am not into. I really strive to make my session with every provider I see as enjoyable for her (if not) more than myself...

So my Turn On: Doing whatever I can to the provider in session so that she has as many long, hard and deep O's as possible.

Turn Offs: A bitchy attitude or a provider who is "mechanical" Originally Posted by SNL9933

Not even trying to be funny....I've had guys ask "what number am I today? You've gotta be fucking a lot bc ur so hot."

Um....I get what I do....P4P and all....but um that doesn't mean I see 18 guys a day. (No offense to the women who have it like that).

But ya....so I guess its huge turn off when guys just ASSUME I see men back to back every day.

Maybe that's just me though.