................"noted", lol. Originally Posted by the.namssaLOL! Finally! Another Canadian!
- Shayla
- 12-25-2011, 09:22 PM
- Still Looking
- 12-26-2011, 05:30 AM
LOL! Finally! Another Canadian!Don't forget "Blight782"
http://www.eccie.net/member.php?u=113226
- Shayla
- 12-26-2011, 12:14 PM
Don't forget "Blight782"
http://www.eccie.net/member.php?u=113226 Originally Posted by Still Looking
No idea who he is but that's awesome!
- the.namssa
- 12-26-2011, 09:42 PM
- Guest020720
- 12-27-2011, 05:18 PM
...................did not want you to feel lonely here, lol.all i know is you pic with the hair pullin is a turn on for me!
Visiting ECCIE, is like a breath of fresh air for me. Originally Posted by the.namssa
hot damnity damn damn.
regarding the clock watching...
i don't have my own incall. i ask my girlfriend if i can work from her place. 99% of the time, there is not a chance any of my appointments will run into her time or vice versa. however, the only time i really have felt the term clock watcher applies to me is when i know she has something later, or when i have things going on in my RL.
hell, i had a client that was quite a bit of work to get the first bell rung (we walked in the door and got at eachother) and with 20 min left he wanted to go at attempt #2. i gave him quite a bit of his donation back and said i needed to be able to be understood at my parent teacher conference i was headed to right after our appointment. (numb swollen lips not quite the look i go for at a school) i had forgotten he preferred 2 bells, or i wouldn't have scheduled him so close to that conference to begin with - but looking back on it...if you know you're a challenge to get a knut off in the first place...why do you go for 2nd round at the very end like that anyways?
i actually still felt bad - even though i walked out of there with half the money, same amount of time gone (by the time he was done dressed and i had still apologized)
he is a fun client and a good client - but maybe i'm just seeing it differently.
i'm a bigger gal. i'm not a marathon fucker or sucker. does 1hr mean 59 min and 59 seconds of fuckin and suckin?
- Shayla
- 12-27-2011, 10:35 PM
- gigi_gypsy
- 12-28-2011, 10:26 AM
Thank you everyone for chiming in.
I think it is a fine line of balancing time. I am low volume due to other responsibilities in my life which include work, school, taking care of elderly parents, and etc. I pad time both before and after each appointment in case they are early, they are late, or they want to extend the time.
Again I am pretty loosey-goosey with time to begin with and ever more so with return visits. Heck my minimum is 90 minutes so it can be more relaxing girlfriend experience. Going over 10-15 is nothing on first visits especially if it is "pillow talk". I don't think I am a clock watcher especially since he tried to start another round 10 minutes AFTER his time was up.
As he was leaving and telling me that he only had the original donation amount, he told me "he would make it up to me next time". So he knew what he had done (heck, I asked if he wanted to extend the time and he said yes. If I was doing the 3rd round for the fun of it - I wouldn't have asked if he wanted to extend the time).
I was not going to pursue it (and write it off as a learning lesson) until he asked for a reference. I don't know if men realize it, but our reputation with other ladies are partly based on the references we give (or don't give). I couldn't in good faith give one without mentioning this.
I think it is a fine line of balancing time. I am low volume due to other responsibilities in my life which include work, school, taking care of elderly parents, and etc. I pad time both before and after each appointment in case they are early, they are late, or they want to extend the time.
Again I am pretty loosey-goosey with time to begin with and ever more so with return visits. Heck my minimum is 90 minutes so it can be more relaxing girlfriend experience. Going over 10-15 is nothing on first visits especially if it is "pillow talk". I don't think I am a clock watcher especially since he tried to start another round 10 minutes AFTER his time was up.
As he was leaving and telling me that he only had the original donation amount, he told me "he would make it up to me next time". So he knew what he had done (heck, I asked if he wanted to extend the time and he said yes. If I was doing the 3rd round for the fun of it - I wouldn't have asked if he wanted to extend the time).
I was not going to pursue it (and write it off as a learning lesson) until he asked for a reference. I don't know if men realize it, but our reputation with other ladies are partly based on the references we give (or don't give). I couldn't in good faith give one without mentioning this.
- rcinokc
- 12-28-2011, 11:01 AM
Thank you everyone for chiming in.Sounds to me as if you handled it well. The situation you describe wouldn't make you a "clock watcher" in the opinion of most. I'm sure that ladies that he tries to see will appreciate the info.
I think it is a fine line of balancing time. I am low volume due to other responsibilities in my life which include work, school, taking care of elderly parents, and etc. I pad time both before and after each appointment in case they are early, they are late, or they want to extend the time.
Again I am pretty loosey-goosey with time to begin with and ever more so with return visits. Heck my minimum is 90 minutes so it can be more relaxing girlfriend experience. Going over 10-15 is nothing on first visits especially if it is "pillow talk". I don't think I am a clock watcher especially since he tried to start another round 10 minutes AFTER his time was up.
As he was leaving and telling me that he only had the original donation amount, he told me "he would make it up to me next time". So he knew what he had done (heck, I asked if he wanted to extend the time and he said yes. If I was doing the 3rd round for the fun of it - I wouldn't have asked if he wanted to extend the time).
I was not going to pursue it (and write it off as a learning lesson) until he asked for a reference. I don't know if men realize it, but our reputation with other ladies are partly based on the references we give (or don't give). I couldn't in good faith give one without mentioning this. Originally Posted by gigi_gypsy
- petiteassman
- 12-28-2011, 11:05 AM
upon thousands of canadians in and around buffalo ny. please visit once and make the usa and canadian men happy.. shit if not come to toronto and i am in the car.
LOL compared to CAF yeah. I should recruit more and see if we can actually have more to our Canadian section. chillman wouldn't be too pleased... Originally Posted by Shayla
- Shayla
- 12-28-2011, 11:54 AM
- atxdream
- 12-28-2011, 02:25 PM
Finally, I am entitled to a partial refund if I leave before our time is upI have never had a refund asked of me, bc I'm super low volume and only make a clock visible if THEY have to leave at a certain time. However, I have had a friend see me over several visits and always leave 20-35 mins early by HIS choice. He always booked an hour, even though for him I offered 1/2 hr rate bc he never took the full time. After several appts, he sent me an email describing exactly how early he left each appointment and how that calculated into a FREE appt. I'm not trying to hijack the thread bc I know it's about female clock watchers, however, I would consider any hobbyist asking for a refund due to leftover time (when the provider makes it well known they can stay) to be poor etiquette.Actually have done it several times because the provider was not that good. Originally Posted by Cpalmson
My suggestion for the gents: if you know that you don't always take the full time, ask if they have a 1/2 hour rate and check to see if you will have the option to stay longer, if necessary and with compensation. You can also tell the lady that you enjoy chatting with a beautiful lady and would like to know if they would allow you to start and/or end a few mins off the clock just talking. I personally would never deny that and I know others would appreciate knowing in advance instead of wondering if you're ever going to leave. LOL for me, I think some guys may wonder if I'm ever going to shut up so they can go home
For ladies: if you have a regular client that consistently goes over - for 10-15 mins, I think that is just part of the service we provide; however, beyond that, next time they book an appt, simply ask if they'd like to book for a longer appt. Also, mention this when giving references so she is not caught off guard and always be careful not to take advantage of her generosity.
As far as provider clock watchers: Read the reviews and do your homework. Seeing a low volume provider isn't a guarantee that they won't be a clock watcher but it should be better odds.
- gigi_gypsy
- 12-29-2011, 08:02 AM
Sounds to me as if you handled it well. The situation you describe wouldn't make you a "clock watcher" in the opinion of most. I'm sure that ladies that he tries to see will appreciate the info. Originally Posted by rcinokc
Thank you
Obviously I have over thought this. I just hate drama especially in this world and just hate when the time is up and both parties are not happy.
- gigi_gypsy
- 12-29-2011, 08:08 AM
I have never had a refund asked of me, bc I'm super low volume and only make a clock visible if THEY have to leave at a certain time. However, I have had a friend see me over several visits and always leave 20-35 mins early by HIS choice. He always booked an hour, even though for him I offered 1/2 hr rate bc he never took the full time. After several appts, he sent me an email describing exactly how early he left each appointment and how that calculated into a FREE appt. I'm not trying to hijack the thread bc I know it's about female clock watchers, however, I would consider any hobbyist asking for a refund due to leftover time (when the provider makes it well known they can stay) to be poor etiquette.Thanks for posting this. I think communication is key to this all.
My suggestion for the gents: if you know that you don't always take the full time, ask if they have a 1/2 hour rate and check to see if you will have the option to stay longer, if necessary and with compensation. You can also tell the lady that you enjoy chatting with a beautiful lady and would like to know if they would allow you to start and/or end a few mins off the clock just talking. I personally would never deny that and I know others would appreciate knowing in advance instead of wondering if you're ever going to leave. LOL for me, I think some guys may wonder if I'm ever going to shut up so they can go home
For ladies: if you have a regular client that consistently goes over - for 10-15 mins, I think that is just part of the service we provide; however, beyond that, next time they book an appt, simply ask if they'd like to book for a longer appt. Also, mention this when giving references so she is not caught off guard and always be careful not to take advantage of her generosity.
As far as provider clock watchers: Read the reviews and do your homework. Seeing a low volume provider isn't a guarantee that they won't be a clock watcher but it should be better odds. Originally Posted by atxdream
- gigi_gypsy
- 12-29-2011, 08:13 AM
regarding the clock watching...Thank you for sharing all this.
i don't have my own incall. i ask my girlfriend if i can work from her place. 99% of the time, there is not a chance any of my appointments will run into her time or vice versa. however, the only time i really have felt the term clock watcher applies to me is when i know she has something later, or when i have things going on in my RL.
hell, i had a client that was quite a bit of work to get the first bell rung (we walked in the door and got at eachother) and with 20 min left he wanted to go at attempt #2. i gave him quite a bit of his donation back and said i needed to be able to be understood at my parent teacher conference i was headed to right after our appointment. (numb swollen lips not quite the look i go for at a school) i had forgotten he preferred 2 bells, or i wouldn't have scheduled him so close to that conference to begin with - but looking back on it...if you know you're a challenge to get a knut off in the first place...why do you go for 2nd round at the very end like that anyways?
i actually still felt bad - even though i walked out of there with half the money, same amount of time gone (by the time he was done dressed and i had still apologized)
he is a fun client and a good client - but maybe i'm just seeing it differently.
i'm a bigger gal. i'm not a marathon fucker or sucker. does 1hr mean 59 min and 59 seconds of fuckin and suckin? Originally Posted by tntangie
I would like to see what the guys have to say about all this
- the.namssa
- 12-29-2011, 02:35 PM
Agreed!! Turns me on a lot too.
Now if only I could find a hot brunette in Alberta that liked that kind of thing......................... ..................anyone?
LOL, quite a few here actually, most from the East, some from Alberta though. CAF would not be pleased at all, LMAO. I am posting reviews here and hoping to get an Alberta review section going someday.......wanna help a guy out?
Clockwatcher, most of the girls that I see are not overly concerned about the clock. They tend to be low volume providers and it is all about the "connection" that a guy has with the SP. Sometimes I run over a bit, have offered compensation, but am turned down usually. I have no problem taking a beautiful woman out for a few cocktails or a nice supper in return for their generosity. For me, the better the relationship/connection with an SP is, the more it works in your favour
Now if only I could find a hot brunette in Alberta that liked that kind of thing......................... ..................anyone?
all i know is you pic with the hair pullin is a turn on for me!
hot damnity damn damn. Originally Posted by tntangie
LOL, quite a few here actually, most from the East, some from Alberta though. CAF would not be pleased at all, LMAO. I am posting reviews here and hoping to get an Alberta review section going someday.......wanna help a guy out?
Clockwatcher, most of the girls that I see are not overly concerned about the clock. They tend to be low volume providers and it is all about the "connection" that a guy has with the SP. Sometimes I run over a bit, have offered compensation, but am turned down usually. I have no problem taking a beautiful woman out for a few cocktails or a nice supper in return for their generosity. For me, the better the relationship/connection with an SP is, the more it works in your favour
LOL compared to CAF yeah. I should recruit more and see if we can actually have more to our Canadian section. chillman wouldn't be too pleased... Originally Posted by Shayla