BBFS - A plea for change

there are so many other minute things to our industry that need to be made aware of but its too much to carry on about.
main thing in to please protect yourself and the others that you want to play with. the demi life should be, like RL, played with rules of self respect and respect for others that we play with.
something may feel so good at that given time, but is it really worth a bad misfortune for the rest of your life?

there are so many other minute things to our industry that need to be made aware of but its too much to carry on about.
main thing in to please protect yourself and the others that you want to play with. the demi life should be, like RL, played with rules of self respect and respect for others that we play with.
something may feel so good at that given time, but is it really worth a bad misfortune for the rest of your life? Originally Posted by elegantbelinda

Word.

Cheers,

bcg

shall i carry on??? Originally Posted by elegantbelinda

Or post the link...

but it is still good reading...

Smooch

Lea

honestly i am a google happy bitch!

Belinda, I appreciate the info you posted. I have read much of it before, but everyone here could use a reminder.

A moment of pleasure is not worth a lifetime of pain.

no it is not...
there has to be a trusting your life with someone for this and that does not come a dime a dozen

Since you brought up BBBJ does this posting get directed at those providers that does BBBJ? Seen that abbreviation in MANY reviews. And no Kissing?

As the info Belinda posted indicates, BBBJ is very low risk. I don't see any problem with giving/receiving BBBJ.

Thanks for the good info and keeping this thread going in a productive way.

I understand what Lea said in her post regarding this issue and applaud her courage in what she said..when in all honesty she could of kept quiet. With that being said as far as I am concerned she is one of the sexiest and fun ladies on this board. I support everything that Belinda says and I think that the bottom line is that everyone needs to examine their threshold for safety and adhere to it. Thats what it is all about having a good time but being safe while doing it. Have fun and be safe everyone.

ex...zachary elcid!

She tells it like it is,Not always how you want to hear it!Lets play SAFE

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I read it maybe a bit differently.

Here's what I got out of the OP:

I don't bb.
I know other reputable providers do.
I don't bb.
I know there are clients who now think it's the norm to bb.
I don't bb.
From now on, using a bb provider as a ref means I won't see you because...
I don't bb.
If you as a client want to bb, you need to stick with others who will because
I don't bb.


Think that was the point?

So, I'm walking away with - I can't control what others do. I can only use the knowledge to protect myself and my clients. A known bb provider's entire client base is highly suspect and less apt to schedule an appt with me.

There's a reason jax was not on my tour this time around. March ain't lookin none too good easy. there's a great big hole where MS used to be for me. Just too much bs (erm bb) going down. I like to look forward to my meetings, relax have fun and not worry. If it feels like work, it's just no fun for me. If I have to one time discuss NO BB - then I am no longer relaxed, no longer enjoying myself, no longer having fun. I'm either watching my date like a hawk or watching him leave. Either way - ugh. pass.

Used to be that Mississippi had a rep for a great bunch of guys.
Now every MS inquiry gets answered with 'screen for bb. it's rampant there."

Once that rumor rolls around - the pu**y parade quits coming to town.

Well I am confused. I know of most of the quality providers in the South. I find it a little bit of a surprise that providers and clients are doing bb. I think its pretty stupid but I find it to be information to consider. Not knowing who to stay away from and who not to see because they have bbacked until they are blind bothers me more. Thanks Lea.............I hear you. I only know of a couple of rumors about bb providers and they were both insignificant providers that I would not see anyway....I suppose that I will have to give the old question and answer before digging in and also ask who and when...........its complicate. Captain Blade