The First PM/Text/Call...How Do You Do it?

15 texts....geeesh.....

Let me guess...

1. Hi
1. Hi

2. How are you
2. I'm good and u

3. You available
3. Sure if you can provide the information needed

4. What's your location
4. Its in my ad

5. Oh i didn't see it, let me go check again
5. Ok

6. So I can be available in about an hour
6. Where is your screening information

7. Oh right, where is location again
7. Did you check my ad

8. Oh yea, sorry, do you bbbj
8. Just looks at texts...and mind wonders

9. You still there?
9. Phone is placed down.....so not answering

10. Hello??? You still there.
10. Crickets.

11. My name is xx, 40, nice looking, I would like 7pm
11. Refs

12. Do you do msog
12. Did you check my ads

13. Oh sorry, let me check again
13. Ok

14. I didn't see anything
14.Really?

15. So what location are you at
15. Facepalm Originally Posted by lisa.lisa0302

Christ! Wtf seriously I would have cussed him out! I don't understand why some just can't go read the Ad and Showcase! READ!!!.

15 texts....geeesh.....

Let me guess...

1. Hi
1. Hi

2. How are you
2. I'm good and u

3. You available
3. Sure if you can provide the information needed

4. What's your location
4. Its in my ad

5. Oh i didn't see it, let me go check again
5. Ok

6. So I can be available in about an hour
6. Where is your screening information

7. Oh right, where is location again
7. Did you check my ad

8. Oh yea, sorry, do you bbbj
8. Just looks at texts...and mind wonders

9. You still there?
9. Phone is placed down.....so not answering

10. Hello??? You still there.
10. Crickets.

11. My name is xx, 40, nice looking, I would like 7pm
11. Refs

12. Do you do msog
12. Did you check my ads

13. Oh sorry, let me check again
13. Ok

14. I didn't see anything
14.Really?

15. So what location are you at
15. Facepalm Originally Posted by lisa.lisa0302

You're dead on !


I used to get PMs and text like these. Now I cut it short and KINDLY inform the gent that I seek gents who have done sufficient research on me as soon as they ask about a specific sexual act.

The above example is *typically from a time waster.

: Here's my message: Hi, this is mrredcat43 from "E", and I was wondering if you were available? Would you like a pm to put your mind at ease?

You're dead on !


I used to get PMs and text like these. Now I cut it short and KINDLY inform the gent that I seek gents who have done sufficient research on me as soon as they ask about a specific sexual act.

The above example is *typically from a time waster. Originally Posted by Eva Damita

that's a bit scary Eva.

that's a bit scary Eva. Originally Posted by Gnostalgia

What's scary hun?

What's scary hun? Originally Posted by Eva Damita

how many idiots can pass your simple screenings. answer: zero. You are right in your assessment. The bastard prolly cant read. plus doesn't sound like he's really a member of either p411 or eccie. Stick to your routine and warn newb girls too.

how many idiots can pass your simple screenings. answer: zero. You are right in your assessment. The bastard prolly cant read. plus doesn't sound like he's really a member of either p411 or eccie. Stick to your routine and warn newb girls too. Originally Posted by Gnostalgia

Tis' true, tis' true! I had a gent with no internet hobby presence, but references contact me. Ok, fine, I'd love to meet a discreet gent. But the convo was graphic about DATY and despite him passing my affair form and booking days advance and researching me, he went to inquire on my "rates"... Then address.... Then cancel super short notice.

I never give an address until morning confirmation. I'll certainly give general area i.e- "Exit ____________ off 30."

I also never give or tell my specific number even after meeting. That said, although it was a bummer it worked out well, as my gut feeling knew better than to visit him.

Thank you Gnostalgia for contributing!

love when right next to my number it says PM first
sure as hell I get a text hey i'm so n so from eccie or p411
can we meet right now ,,, I just text back with a kind please PM with your info for screening ...
Thanks ....

You're dead on !


I used to get PMs and text like these. Now I cut it short and KINDLY inform the gent that I seek gents who have done sufficient research on me as soon as they ask about a specific sexual act.

The above example is *typically from a time waster. Originally Posted by Eva Damita

And gents, that one liner text stating the companions name is useless:

Him: Eva.

Me: Paul

Me: Lisa

Me: Albert

No Response

Me: oh, I'm sorry. I thought we were playing the name game.
Have a good evening!

Him: Any . Specials.

Now again, pm or text, these get pretty silly !