What's the biggest hobby related mistake you ever made?

Falling for a provider. . .

No comments necessary. Originally Posted by Looking41today

... no bueno ...

My biggest regret and mistake is Relationships in the Hobby!!!

Seeing MarrisaofDallas and Mercianna or whatever she is calling herself these days!

Wanting to meet Tara Evans for several years and never pulling the trigger!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Originally Posted by Redsan

Awww thank you Redsan your a sweetie.

I'm good with waiting... lol (not)

Too many, but I learned from most.

- Falling for a stripper, trying to date a stripper
- "Lending money" and expecting that I would get it back
- Lending money as a pre-payment although it did work with one
- Not using a hobby phone and restless nights thinking my phone might ring/beep from the wrong person.
- An stripper/ex-stripper falling for me. Fortunately she's ended up moving out of state (although she was one of the best lays I've ever had).

I hope there aren't too many more mistakes that I have to learn from.

Originally Posted by !!Sexy Erotic Morgan
+1 on that one Tara. It is much more fun and profitable to talk to the many people that like us than the few that don't. Fuck em.

Anyway here's mine. A few years ago I did an overnight with a guy and didn't get the money up front. It was a Saturday night and the following morning, old boy said "I just have to go to the ATM." I knew what time it was. He and I both knew you can't pull 1500 out of a stupid ATM and banks are closed on Sundays. He promised over and over to bring me the money. Haven't seen him since. I felt like the world's dumbest hooker. Now I don't need to take the money right away, but it does have to be visible.


That is fucked up. FYI, Wells Fargo will let you draw whatever amount you want out. You just need to call the bank and have your limit increase. This guy was a serious dirtbag!

I consider myself very street smart and experienced at reading people.

I must admit that I have done the loan (give money) thing a few times😁
The worst thing by far is believe that a provider actually cared and had feelings for me. Not once but twice!!
I should shoot myself in the dick since that fucktard got me into it😡

I saw a provider once lol, after our session I left, and was a mile down the road , i realized I forgot to pay her. I called her immediately, and begged for forgiveness. I drove back to her house and paid her + Tip. She opened the door, told me to drop to knees, and beg for mercy and I did, then she said get the fuck out of here, pushed me out the door, I laughed and I left. She called and told me she appreciated my honesty, never want to mess up my rep with a provider. Always keep it professional.

I made the mistake of making friends with a provider named on this thread once. She ended up telling a guy who I was seeing off and on (nothing serious) I was a provider. He posted it on facebook and blasted me about it. He has 5k friends so a lot of people saw it and it ended up getting back to my children. I actually moved my kids out of state because of it. That was a couple of years ago but that's okay because Karma is really kicking them both in the ass now.

Oh and she blackmailed my ex boyfriend for money. Evil with a va jay jay

Dang. That's horrible

I made the mistake of making friends with a provider named on this thread once. She ended up telling a guy who I was seeing off and on (nothing serious) I was a provider. He posted it on facebook and blasted me about it. He has 5k friends so a lot of people saw it and it ended up getting back to my children. I actually moved my kids out of state because of it. That was a couple of years ago but that's okay because Karma is really kicking them both in the ass now.

Oh and she blackmailed my ex boyfriend for money. Evil with a va jay jay Originally Posted by Kayleehotchick

It was rough but I survived.

So sorry it did. You're a sweet lady. Whoever did that to you truly is a scumbag.

It was rough but I survived. Originally Posted by Kayleehotchick

Getting involved with Charli Knox....

So sorry it did. You're a sweet lady. Whoever did that to you truly is a scumbag. Originally Posted by SD2011

+1. Sorry to hear about that, Kaylee. You are indeed a very sweet person.

My biggest mistake was browsing on eccie on my laptop while very tired ... I don't know when I fell asleep with the laptop in my lap ... I jumped and screamed when my SO came to take my laptop and glasses off so I could go to sleep ... fortunately, the screen saver was on, but man, that was very close ... I did sweat bullets