Are you willing to listen to a ladies point of view?

The problem, Lilmynx, is not posters like yourself necessarily. You are saying you are a civilian. So, in the minority of females here. Once areas like the review forums are opened up, all hell breaks loose. There are many,many providers who can not follow the rules. They will post what they want where they want until they are close to being banned by points. We see it every day.

Back to you as a civilian. You have over 1500 post in the last 2 years. Have any of your posts made guys contact you about an appointment? Yes. If a provider can find another area they can squeeze posts in, they will. For just that reason. I will say that I did not know you were not a provider until you said it in this thread.

Most people read the coed section, so is really that big a deal? You are hitting the same audience.
If it is, petition St.C to clarify or possibly amend the rule. That is the only traction you're likely to get. Originally Posted by Luxury Daphne

It is St. C's show, so.....

However, Pistolero does point out what the real issue is:

Once areas like the review forums are opened up, all hell breaks loose. There are many,many providers who can not follow the rules. They will post what they want where they want until they are close to being banned by points. We see it every day. Originally Posted by Pistolero

Pistolero thanks for your thoughts and understand your position. LilMynx is a "Valued Poster" as the subtitle under her name says. Realize opening reviews to the providers would or could create a big headache. That is not my desire!!!

I would like to see the civilian ladies be allowed to post their opinions in the areas where discussion is allowed... Realize it's a large leap of faith by the owners and Mod's. I believe it is a leap worth taking and one I personally would appreciate!

It is St. C's show, so..... Originally Posted by Unique_Carpenter

.....so be it......

I would like to see the civilian ladies be allowed to post their opinions in the areas where discussion is allowed... Realize it's a large leap of faith by the owners and Mod's. I believe it is a leap worth taking and one I personally would appreciate! Originally Posted by Ur_1_only

Cuz it's working so well now.......

I will say that I did not know you were not a provider until you said it in this thread. Originally Posted by Pistolero

I'm willing to bet whoever "clarified" the "rule" for DeD about this issue didn't know that either, it was just assumed because she is female. Seems to me the question should have been escalated up a level for such an odd scenario no?

I'm willing to bet whoever "clarified" the "rule" for DeD about this issue didn't know that either, it was just assumed because she is female. Originally Posted by SpiceItUp

I knew she wasn't a provider, I don't know about the one who "clarified" it for me though

ISeems to me the question should have been escalated up a level for such an odd scenario no? Originally Posted by SpiceItUp

It was

So in other words, when it was escalated up a level it wasn't specifically communicated to them that she's not a provider? Why not?

Sounds like the scenario wasn't accurately described. Doesn't that defeat the purpose of escalating this uncommonly encountered issue?

He escalated it right and they do know.

They may not have known beforehand though.

He escalated it right and they do know.

They may not have known beforehand though. Originally Posted by Eccie Addict

What EA said....



When I asked the question I specifically said, "it's a female, not a provider"...

I also asked about the difference between "review threads" and "discussions threads"...

All of the above came back with the same answer, a "NO"

How come none of you have started a thread in the forum suggested yet?

I know why I haven't, but why haven't you guys as members done so?

What EA said....

When I asked the question I specifically said, "it's a female, not a provider"...


I also asked about the difference between "review threads" and "discussions threads"...


All of the above came back with the same answer, a "NO" Originally Posted by DickEmDown

Thanks for clarifying DeD, looks like you did your due diligence.

Most people read the coed section, so is really that big a deal? You are hitting the same audience.

If it is, petition St.C to clarify or possibly amend the rule. That is the only traction you're likely to get. Originally Posted by Luxury Daphne

The problem, Lilmynx, is not posters like yourself necessarily. You are saying you are a civilian. So, in the minority of females here. Once areas like the review forums are opened up, all hell breaks loose. There are many,many providers who can not follow the rules. They will post what they want where they want until they are close to being banned by points. We see it every day.

Back to you as a civilian. You have over 1500 post in the last 2 years. Have any of your posts made guys contact you about an appointment? Yes. If a provider can find another area they can squeeze posts in, they will. For just that reason. I will say that I did not know you were not a provider until you said it in this thread. Originally Posted by Pistolero

How come none of you have started a thread in the forum suggested yet?

I know why I haven't, but why haven't you guys as members done so? Originally Posted by Eccie Addict

It's not that big of a deal to post in CoEd, and I'm not so narcissistically delusional to think that my comments or opinions matter that much to anyone.

Some of the guys only care because I stated I would stop posting my strip club exploits because I couldn't post them in the proper area. Because, in that particular area, I do think I have specialized information and don't want to bomb the typical hobbyists with a bunch of strip club propaganda. The same for Other and swingers clubs. I'm just a person who likes things organized, I guess, LOL.

So, now, if I see a new topic that I want to comment on, I PM the guy and ask him to repost in CoEd. Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't. And that's fine.

After 1500+ posts, many on them focusing on me NOT being a provider, it's hard to believe someone still thinks I am one. But it sort of goes to my point that the guys here have tunnel vision about the ladies. I've said this before, so it's not directed at Pistolero personally, but the idea that the only way a lady would want to post on this board is for business and advertising purposes, is exactly why I'm here to offer a differing viewpoint.

That's where this post came from. Why are some men here so suspicious about and resilient to listening to, welcoming more women to post on ECCIE? Is the concern that your wives will come here to spy? Do you not like the idea of a sexually liberated and adventurous woman? Are you afraid of judgment?

Or, as Pistolero alluded to, are you afraid of Providers Gone Wild? If that's the case, that the concern is ladies only posting to try to get more appointments, isn't that handled by simply not giving them VP status...no ads...small PM box?

I have an agenda here, I've discussed it at times. So, of course I'd like to see things handled the way that makes it easier for me. HOWEVER, I understand I am a GUEST here and appreciate the tolerance of be large majority of posters here. And I will follow the rules.

This is not he hill I wish to die on...I'll save that fight for another day...

I would like to see the civilian ladies be allowed to post their opinions in the areas where discussion is allowed... Originally Posted by Ur_1_only

How would you differentiate who they are? Battling multiple handles is a task as it is already this would just add more fuel to that.

I'm totally fine being grouped with the other ladies...

I'm totally fine being grouped with the other ladies... Originally Posted by LilMynx69

We've got 2 groups the bi-sexuals and the bi-sexuals, pick one.