To review or not to review

burkalini's Avatar
Anova its nice of a hobbyist to ask permission to write a review on you however they are mainly for the hobbyist and not the provider. A good one does benefit you but they are written so that the next hobbyist looking to make his mind up can look at them. I may ask a provider if they prefer a general review or specific one but I never ask if. Its usually no issue as 90 percent of my reviews are positive. The ones that have in my mind( I know thats just an opinion) have not done a good job then I am going to review that way.
Anova its nice of a hobbyist to ask permission to write a review on you however they are mainly for the hobbyist and not the provider. A good one does benefit you but they are written so that the next hobbyist looking to make his mind up can look at them. I may ask a provider if they prefer a general review or specific one but I never ask if. Its usually no issue as 90 percent of my reviews are positive. The ones that have in my mind( I know thats just an opinion) have not done a good job then I am going to review that way. Originally Posted by burkalini
A heads up, or a "may I write a review" would be nice.
01Rickey's Avatar
Many things to consider, reviews are very important here in West Texas, where there are few Providers. I have been fortunate to meet with some outstanding ladies because of the reviews. I feel flattered when a lady asks me to review her and when I feel a lady has gone above and beyond I will ask if I can review her. Keep it honest and courteous. I don't think ECCIE needs extra space for this, but there are times when there is TMD - Too Much Drama and the thread needs to be cut. The overall picture will be seen by those who seek it!
burkalini's Avatar
Many things to consider, reviews are very important here in West Texas, where there are few Providers. I have been fortunate to meet with some outstanding ladies because of the reviews. I feel flattered when a lady asks me to review her and when I feel a lady has gone above and beyond I will ask if I can review her. Keep it honest and courteous. I don't think ECCIE needs extra space for this, but there are times when there is TMD - Too Much Drama and the thread needs to be cut. The overall picture will be seen by those who seek it! Originally Posted by 01Rickey

If a provider asks you to give her a review she ususally has done a good job with the session. I always review my meetings unless I have seen the provider numerous times and it starts to sound redundant. I still feel that they are for the hobbyist. While I do my utmost to be respectful of a providers wishes and stay within her requested rules it is after all a paid scenario. So the reviews are for the ones that have to do just that. Pay!
  • jwood
  • 10-16-2010, 06:08 PM
There is another side of reviews that has not been discussed. When you write a review it helps other hobbiest in selecting a provider. Also the reviewer gets 6 weeks of premium access if it is approved. Here is the rub, I have found the more I have reviewed the harder it is to get approved. Again, for me the more I write the more details I have to have. Most of my visits with a provider are for one hour. When I write a review it takes a least 30 min. I look up all the web sites, phone numbers, measurements, weight and hair color. Also I try to give blow by blow details as to what has happened. I really don't like it when I spend alot of time doing a review just to get denied. In fact I have almost stopped doing reviews. Is this just my area, or does this happend everywhere.
Hey gentlemen, I'm just trying to give some insight here, if only from my point of view. Other providers may not agree. I want to say again, that I'm happy with most of my reviews. Early in my career(May, June, July of '10) I wasn't as good at weeding out the indiscreet and that's when most of my bad but not horrible choices happened. Anyway, have you ever been blindsided with a barrage of wet snowballs? At times, that's what it's felt like to see three, four, five reviews show up in two or three days. Or maybe you're pulling onto a lovely street with the top down and an ambulance or fire truck turns the siren on. Granted, they all say "Yes" I recommend her, but I may or may not have seen the session in the same light that the reviewer may or may not have, depending on what was said BCD.

Again, I may or may not have said too much. I'm happy with 98% of my reviews however, a heads up, or a "may I write a review" would be nice.

Thanks for checking out my posts and reviews. Also, thanks for checking out my showcase and P411 ad.

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Analisa
ICU 812's Avatar
I have never filed a totally negative review. I have only had one "bad" session from a provider and still gave a review that highlighted the good parts. It was a well reviewed, well respected provider (in the ASPD days). I sechedued a two hr session. We had some difficulty hooking-up with phone-tag message swapping and so on. finally got to it at her hotel in-call and while shewas personel intimate and GFE . . .her phone kept ringing and she was distracted. At some point she wrapped up the session. I could see she had something going on and didnt't want to part of her bad day, so I just followed her lead and the session ended. She was so distracted bywhatever . .that as we walked out together, she stoppped and went back to the room—for the donation envelop!


She called me about two hours later from the bank, having just realized that it was to have been a two hr session. We made it up in another session some time later. I never asked, but there must have been some hard private drama for her to forget an envelop with six Benjamins in it!

Should I have given a bad review? She was there but might as well have been a no-show.
Eccie Addict's Avatar
I'm not real sure how a negative review helps the provider if she can't read the ROS where most of what would help her if she reads it in the right mindset is.

Honest reviews are important as well as ladies being honest with each other about clients. Would you say the client that ncns you was great?
memdal's Avatar
Honest reviews, honest opinions every time make sense to me. Reviews help the girls know what the guys like. They help the guys decide if the girl is right for his tastes and expectations. They need to be honest and complete.
burkalini's Avatar
Don't review on e com. it doesn't show anything anymore